ok thanks for the input guys general consensus seems to be feel her out for 8 - 12 weeks and leave her bring "the talk" up
her family is stable , there doesn't seem to be a long list of ex boyfriends only the one , she has a job , her own money and she can drive
also seems to be a nice mix between lady in the street and freak in the sheets
i haven't met a girl like this before i never really believed they existed , so i am treading very carefully