"what do you look for in a woman?"

sandinista · Oct 10, 2003

Aggghhh! i hate it when girls / people ask this question. Seriously, i've been asked this question like 8 times in the last 2 weeks.

I'm running out of witty things to say. I used to use the corniest line in the book.. you know..

Her : "what do you look for in a woman?"
Me : "me"

But then they usually make that annoying sign & say, "no, really, what do you look for in a woman?"

So, what can i say? What would YOU say..

Walden · Oct 10, 2003

pat her on the ass and say "Don't worry , you're pretty close".

Eyecandie4ya · Oct 10, 2003

Mental Stability

Good Cook

Fiestiness/Spontaneous/Adventerous

Pretty feet

Sex Appeal (nothing in regards to the body,only charisma)

Chewy Bagel · Oct 10, 2003

This is a difficult question to answer as it is so loaded. So, you tell her what character traits you're looking for, she conforms her behavior to a "T", then you're taking her to Hawaii, movies, dinner, etc. All the while, she's waiting for the day after the wedding to finally become the person who she really is (IMHO). Personally, I want a girl who will be herself and like me for who I am. I never told my current GF what I was looking for and she didn't ask me. It just felt right and we've been together for 4.5 years.

I like the C/F approach to answering this question. If she doesn't accept that, then just tell her you'll know it when you find it. If you don't care to get to know the real her within the 2.5 years, then tell her what you want in a woman (the reason I say 2.5 years comes from seeing my current girlfriend show me some "other" aspects of her personality, after being with her for that long).

CB

NewMan · Oct 10, 2003

Big pair of T#ts and a tight Puss.

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Mr. Latte · Oct 10, 2003

I heard this on the radio...it's a quote from some movie or somthing that the local alternative station plays a lot...

"I'm looking for a woman who used to be morbidly obese, but lost a lot of weight, and is now covered in stretch marks"
Tell her that, and the look you get will be priceless.

DJ_Dork · Oct 10, 2003

YEH C&F on this one. BECAREFUL WITH YOUR ANSWER...

Player_Supreme · Oct 10, 2003

1. you can tell them "well prefferably breathing and unconscious" or

2. tell them the truth about what really turns you on. some chicks have a problem with my obedience statement and some fall right into it.

OzzyBoy · Oct 10, 2003

i won't go into too much detail but if i really like her as a person and i like her body thats it.

Sexy_Malibu · Oct 10, 2003

Chewy Bagel is right... that is a loaded question. They don't want the truth.

I suggest you describe them down to the very last detail. They will either laugh (if they are cool) or be flattered (if they are dumb).

Player_Supreme · Oct 10, 2003

I wonder what Kobie would say about the perfect girl type right now:

http://www.lizziegrubman.com/katelyn_faber.htm

BobbDobbs · Oct 10, 2003

Originally posted by sandinista
what do you look for in a woman

Hey, you can be poetic/romantic here. Just list off a bunch of bullsh*t positive qualities (don't mention any negative ones.) You want a woman to be kind, assertive, caring, intelligent, blah blah blah.

She'll probably think you are talking about her. ha ha

BobbDobbs · Oct 10, 2003

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I wonder what Kobie would say about the perfect girl type right now:

He's saying, "Always rape someone with a sexual history, as society apparently considers them damaged goods anyhow and will give you a free pass."

00Kevin · Oct 11, 2003

I have the best answer to this question! is so ****en easy and for a DJ it's the truth.

When a girl asks me this question i say, "I want a woman that isn't afraid to show high interest. I also like girls that flirt. "

By saying this, it makes her realize what it's going to take to get you. It also breaks down a wall for her. If she likes you she will start flirting.

It's also like saying you had best impress me b|tch!

Gangster Of Love · Oct 11, 2003

This is your chance to show how selective you are, and that way she'll have to earn your attention. Start listing all your pet-peeves and things you dislike about some women, like being flaky, annoyin, clingy, jealous, etc. It tells all the right things. All of a sudden they are the ones that must prove themselves to you; since that question already shows signs of interest.

Not only is this question a test, but also a chance they use to make the man prove themselves. Don't try to give her perfect answer you think she'll want to hear. Turn the tables around.

Recently, David D. had something like that on his newsletter; where you can say ****y/Funny stuff like:

"I want somebody who is rich and famous."

"I want somebody who won't want me just because of my body."

Etc. etc.

00Kevin · Oct 11, 2003

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
This is your chance to show how selective you are, and that way she'll have to earn your attention. Start listing all your pet-peeves and things you dislike about some women, like being flaky, annoyin, clingy, jealous, etc. It tells all the right things. All of a sudden they are the ones that must prove themselves to you; since that question already shows signs of interest.

Not only is this question a test, but also a chance they use to make the man prove themselves. Don't try to give her perfect answer you think she'll want to hear. Turn the tables around.

Recently, David D. had something like that on his newsletter; where you can say ****y/Funny stuff like:

"I want somebody who is rich and famous."

"I want somebody who won't want me just because of my body."

Etc. etc.

your solution sounds like something a girl would do. A man doesn't list off complaints about women he has dated. I've tried exactly what you said and what ends up happening is she thinks you are too judgemental. The last thing a girl wants is a guy that judges her. Most women feel guilty about things they have done in the past and when you start to complain about other women you are going to make them think you would do that to them.

like I said just tell her you want a woman that showes high interest and likes to flirt. You can go wrong with that at all. And you don't have to put on some false ****y funny act to do it.

unless you are naturally a ****y funny kind of person don't try it. You will just end up looking like a fool when you open your mouth. It takes natural instinct to pull off a ****y funny line.

k_hectic · Oct 11, 2003

I asked a girl once what she wanted in a man, and she laughed and said pointing at me "This is what I want, all of this"

That girl never got what she wanted from me. So, I suggest you stay away from using that line or anything similar or the same will happen vice versa.

Cremasta · Oct 11, 2003

" Just once I'd like to meet a girl who isn't a ditz! "

They get defensive thinking they haven't made the grade either...

jamesw82 · Oct 11, 2003

Listern to Walden...

He's very usually right

C+F can't go wrong.. if they're still like "A proper answer" its as others have said.. a very loaded question !!! Its a very intense reponse from them, do you want to conform to this girls demand ?

BobbDobbs · Oct 11, 2003

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Start listing all your pet-peeves and things you dislike about some women, like being flaky, annoyin, clingy, jealous, etc. It tells all the right things.

Oh man, that's horrible. It makes you seem like a whiner. It signals that you've only attracted damaged goods in the past.

Don't go there.

Your image is a DJ -- you've only attracted the cream of the cream in the past, etc -- but you want more.

"what do you look for in a woman?"

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