Okay now I'm on to the next one!
This is my last post on this topic. Last night I finally saw the light with her true colors. This entire thing really wasn't a big deal or I didn't invest that much time in it but I did think she might be fun to date for awhile. Plus for whatever reason she got under my skin in a way I didn't expect, hence the reason for posting her and the desire to figure out how to make it work. Funny thing is if you really have think a lot about how to make it work out then it most likely is not the thing for you. I think someone posted that if she is really into you it just happens very easily and I would have to agree.
Anyway I happen to go into her work last night to casually have a drink and see if I could see her before she left for the day. Well I get there, place is pretty empty so I sit at the bar order a ****tail and see if I can see her. Well she is over playing that stupid video game with a couple of very dorky guys. I have another drink thinking she might come over and say hi. Normally she has done this in the past at least to say hi. Well she doesn't come over so I get up to go to the restroom and walk by where she is and look directly at her and say hi. She says Hi back but it really seems forced. WTF So I just walk away at this point and go back to my seat. Have one more just for good measure then decide to leave.
As I walk out I can see her talking to his guy who appears to be the biggest sports dork on the planet and of course it's a slight bruise to my ego since I know they much be having a very deep talk. That's when it really hits me and I have to ask myself what the hell was I thinking. You know one of the light bulb going off moments when you think to yourself wow she really isn't the person I thought she was or tries to project to the world. And to think that I wanted to spend time with such an shallow boring woman that appears to be addicted to a very stupid video game.
So to make a long story short I deleted her number out of my phone the last text messages and VMs and vow not to visit the place for long time. The moral of the story is no matter what you may think in your mind of what she is like and what she is after the truth may be very far from where you stand!
This is my last post on this topic. Last night I finally saw the light with her true colors. This entire thing really wasn't a big deal or I didn't invest that much time in it but I did think she might be fun to date for awhile. Plus for whatever reason she got under my skin in a way I didn't expect, hence the reason for posting her and the desire to figure out how to make it work. Funny thing is if you really have think a lot about how to make it work out then it most likely is not the thing for you. I think someone posted that if she is really into you it just happens very easily and I would have to agree.
Anyway I happen to go into her work last night to casually have a drink and see if I could see her before she left for the day. Well I get there, place is pretty empty so I sit at the bar order a ****tail and see if I can see her. Well she is over playing that stupid video game with a couple of very dorky guys. I have another drink thinking she might come over and say hi. Normally she has done this in the past at least to say hi. Well she doesn't come over so I get up to go to the restroom and walk by where she is and look directly at her and say hi. She says Hi back but it really seems forced. WTF So I just walk away at this point and go back to my seat. Have one more just for good measure then decide to leave.
As I walk out I can see her talking to his guy who appears to be the biggest sports dork on the planet and of course it's a slight bruise to my ego since I know they much be having a very deep talk. That's when it really hits me and I have to ask myself what the hell was I thinking. You know one of the light bulb going off moments when you think to yourself wow she really isn't the person I thought she was or tries to project to the world. And to think that I wanted to spend time with such an shallow boring woman that appears to be addicted to a very stupid video game.
So to make a long story short I deleted her number out of my phone the last text messages and VMs and vow not to visit the place for long time. The moral of the story is no matter what you may think in your mind of what she is like and what she is after the truth may be very far from where you stand!