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What do you do when you're too busy to date?

MoreThanSmooth

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I know it sounds soft but I feel like a bit of a d*ck today for flaking on a lass.

I had a cute girl lined up for a date this weekend, she was into playing videogames, watching geeky movies and all these other tomboyish hobbies. I'm a fan of that because it means fun nights in are super easy to arrange and she seemed really easy going.

We were going to get some drinks on Sat. But I've cancelled and said I'm really busy because...I'm just really f*cking busy!

My work life is mad to the point of keeping me awake at night at the moment and I'm not even getting anywhere near the productivity I want. I've cancelled dates with like 4 girls now, usually get ghosted afterwards of course.

Do you just stop dating entirely when you're working hard, or do you just go for it regardless?

If i stop dating entirely I feel like a f*cking monk and I just go testosterone mad, if I date I get stressed out because I'm d*cking about with my professional career and so in the end it goes nowhere anyway.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Low priorties get forggotten about.

Nothing wrong with going after your goals.
 
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