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what do you do when you get in a rut?

Knicknack

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it's been like 3 weeks since my last 1-month relationship ended, and i've been in damn rut ever since. i've been going out 2-3 times a week. number closing chicks. approaching. none of them turn into anything though. what do you do when it seems like every opportunity is a strike out?
 

Blaaaaat

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Keep on going, this is the only right answer, keep on going.
 

seulaxplaya

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uh get out of your rut. talk to more chicks and dont look for something more just meet chicks and be funny and smile and after that it will just come and u will have so much youll be complaining about that
 

NewMan

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I was there..... what I tend to do is one of a few things.

Keep plugging away with women

Or I go away for the weekend - just by myself. To the beach or to Vegas. Recharge my batteries, have some fun. That usually works.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I agree with everyone else. Focus on just meeting new people, don't put so much emphasis on meeting someone for a LTR. Just enjoy the scenery along the way, you'll know when you have reached your destination.
 

MrNiceGuy

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I agree with everyone else. Focus on just meeting new people, don't put so much emphasis on meeting someone for a LTR.
Thats been my problem all my life.. looking too hard for the elusive LTR, meaning I never made any moves till it was way too late..

yeah, keep on trying thats the answer,
 
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