What do you do if your GF plays the C&F on you?!

[Fela Kuti]

Usually I just counter-C&F her. But as our relationship goes further, I got tired of her act. I'm thinking of telling her, please stop the C&F. Any advice?

 

[HoneyHitter]

Don't TELL her. That's just whining about your own insecurity, because that's why you can't handle it properly in the first place. If she's trying to act like you should put her on a pedestal, show her she's only getting in her own way by doing that. You (should) have other options. In other words: spin plates.

 

[Randallpink83]

i would just negative reinforce it, like...

"mmm baby you're fiesty ****y attitude is totally turning me on... Lets try anal sex again!!!!... C'mon I will race you to the bedroom" tag her and run away "you're it!!"



lol, honestly though you could just be cool about it and tone her down... Whenever she is being a ****y little *****, just be like "aww babe you can act nice and be YOURSELF whenever you're alone with me... Don't worry I won't tell your friends, You can still act like a badass around them"... she will get the hint.

 

[The Sperminator]

Thats why I don't date girls who do that in the first place. It starts to get on my nerves after a while. I would tell her to knock it off or I would just dump her.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

I kinda like girls that act fiesty, or think they are tuff. its some much more fun to tame em wit my stroke. =) I say loosen up a little.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Usually I just counter-C&F her. But as our relationship goes further, I got tired of her act. I'm thinking of telling her, please stop the C&F. Any advice?

What exactly is she doing/saying?

 

[Fela Kuti]

What exactly is she doing/saying?

i'm paraphrasing here:

"you're lucky to have me"
"i don't love you that much anyway"
"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."

all were said in a joking tone though. but still..

 

[MooseGod]

My main one used to be when she'd tell me she loved me...

and I would reply "Thanks, I love me too."

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

i'm paraphrasing here:

"you're lucky to have me"
Francisco: "Perhaps, but you've always been luckier than me."

"i don't love you that much anyway"
Francisco: "I know... You worship me, there's a difference y'know.."

"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."
Francisco: "Those aren't technically my messages, I submitted your email addy to the 'Amputee Midget Love' forum.

Don't take what she says personally, it's just playful flirting; play along.

 

[Bonez]

play along.

I tink da wittow baby got his feewings hurted. He don't wanna pway no more, its time for war!

 

[Randallpink83]

i'm paraphrasing here:

"you're lucky to have me"
"i don't love you that much anyway"
"my inbox is filled with your messages. i think i'm getting sick of it."

all were said in a joking tone though. but still..

kick her in the man nuts....:trouble:

maybe you just can't handle this girl???

Try fvcking her younger sister... that always works for me. :woo: :cheer: :rockon:

 

[Randallpink83]

My main one used to be when she'd tell me she loved me...

and I would reply "Thanks, I love me too."

....are you reading the same thread we all are?

 

[navyseal2101]

My new gf does that and I think it's cute. I like ****y women, its fun to argue with them.

 

[Fela Kuti]

My new gf does that and I think it's cute. I like ****y women, its fun to argue with them.

yeah, at first it was fun. but now, i don't know. well maybe i'm getting insecure now. haha.

 

[Fela Kuti]

anyway, isn't the c&f better be toned down (if not eliminated) when you're in a LTR?

 

[Ace of Flames]

anyway, isn't the c&f better be toned down (if not eliminated) when you're in a LTR?

Just depends on what you like in a girl. In your case, it seems you don't like it, so try the things that have been provided in this thread and see if you get results you like.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just depends on what you like in a girl. In your case, it seems you don't like it, so try the things that have been provided in this thread and see if you get results you like.

The thing is if c/f is a part of her nature (she was that way before they started dating) it may be a bit difficult if he wants her to change. Now, if he agrees to work on his insecurities if she agrees to tone down the c/f....