What do you do if she's a dona juan? (she knows the game)

[jeffthechef]

OK...i've gone through high school so far..and i've seen all types of girls..great experience..

now..i've tried girls who were hb's, popular, most knew it...but they didn't really play games...they simply rejected me or gave me their numbers..good

BUT..i've finally come across a girl who seems to know these types of games...but i honestly don't know if she does or she's naturally like this

situation: she's a hb8-9ish..lots of my friends have tried to get her number...she'll usually give the number to my friends who have asked...but they usually "ask her out" in the literal sense and get rejected and so have other guys i'm sure..and so far i dont think she's had a bf..in high school at least, that i know of...anyways, it's halfway through summer and i haven't talked to her since our class together..i wasn't too interested in her back then..i was no afc...just there..i know i'm not in the friendzone right now..kinda in limbo..and i had a reason to get her aim for a school related thing...

my only way of contactin her was email..and so i emailed with simple intentions..she replied within a day...but then i ask for her aim cause i didn't want to use our school email..cause i have a feelin they read the students' emails...now she waits 2 days before replying..she did this a lot during the school year..she would give me lots of attention..then ditch class for a day (it was an extra-curricular)..then she would constantly glance/stare and look away when i tried to look back..then the next day she would not say a word

ANYWAYS..i don't want you to analyze her actions...but if you feel like giving a quicck guess..that would be nice..
does she know what she's doing or is she naturally this way?

But my real question is...
what do you do if a girl is playing games? (push pull, hot/cold, etc.)
i'm not quite sure..do you call her on it, do you play games too to show higher value (make her feel like you have a more important life), do you move on, be more direct...those are the solutions that come to mind.

sorry for the long post..and thanks

 

[MisterMcGee]

don juan stuff has nothing to do with game at all

 

[Captain]

There is no game. Don't react to her, keep in control. If you're an attractive man and you don't grovel on the ground for anyone, you'll walk away if she tries to play stupid immature games, and she'll respect you all the more for it.

 

[KontrollerX]

As enlightened men we get to pick our battles.

If you sense she is smarter than you its perfectly fine to not persue her and go after an easier target.

However if you are in the mood to play games and test all that you've learned proceed with her.

All in all though never do anything you don't want to do.

If you don't like that a girl is clued in to our DJ ways then feel free not to date her.

It will be a constant battle for control which the truly feminine desireable woman will not put you through.

 

[jeffthechef]

hmm..love the advice
i think i'm going to try something like this..
hold back for a day or two...so probably ask her teh school stuff on saturday night...have a brief but exciting conversation...then see where it goes from there...i'll probably be busy next week..so i'll get some hot/cold most likely

i think you guys are right htough...dj's shouldn't be playing in game or view it as a game..

and if she continues to mess around, then i should move on

but i do want to, as kontroller said, test my skills first..
thanks for the input...if you have more or anyone else does..feel free to post

 

[fckmyashol]

if she plays games, do what chris brown did.

-fckmyashol

 

[GQzSwagStarFamous]

man i had a gf like that mooooveee on i tried testin my skills and she would always come out on top she used push and pull she would ignore me for days and come back casually man she did everything i ever read to me ...then she admitted she read the players black book ...i dumped her couldnt put up with the games plus i fell in love so moooooovvveee onnnnn plzzzzzz

 

[Rogue]

Don't fool yourself. Every girl is a player.