What do u think of this?

[Steel Dragon]

Hi, I'm new here obviously and I'm not going to dumb, so lets cut to the chase.

I am in 10th grade and I have a friend who I just started to hang out again. I've noticed his sister has grown to a more mature, attractive state (she is a senior by the way). He had a sleep over and I was flirting with her a tad just to see if she would bite and she smiled quite a bit and had no problem with talking to me. Got any comments on rather I could lose a friendship over her if I went for her? She's like a 9, so I feel pretty fortunate to have the easy access to her. What do you think?

here's some pieces to her interest:

My friends and I were watching tv when she walked in with mud all over her jeans (don't ask, IDK), and the guys were like "What did u do, get in a mud wrestling match?" she replied, "No, like I would do that." and as she was walking into the laundry room I said, "Yeah right" in a flirt tone. She turned around and smiled at me.

Then later that night my friend and I wanted a radio to listen to while we played cards and we went upstairs and was going to ask her but we both tagged along together and played cute with her. She was sitting on the cpu and we was sayin, "boy, i wish we had a cd player to listen to." to make her feel guilty and she smiled and said, " I might have one, let me see." and just like that we got her to bring her own radio down. We made some nice eye contact and smiles.

Should I make my visits more frequent or, just leave it alone and make the best of it when I come around? I dont' wanna look to invasive.

 

[TheSplat]

:::My friends and I were watching tv when she walked in with mud all over her jeans (don't ask, IDK), and the guys were like "What did u do, get in a mud wrestling match?" she replied, "No, like I would do that." and as she was walking into the laundry room I said, "Yeah right" in a flirt tone. She turned around and smiled at me.::::


That's not flirting, that's being ridiculously late for an obvious pseudo-neg hit.



Anyway, you should check with your friend before you try anything on the sister. I've only dated one friends sister, and he was completely cool with it. If he says it's cool, then go for it, with caution. If he's like " Dude, fvck you" then i'd keep it to light flirting.

Then just call and ask to talk to her, talk for 5 -10 minutes and let her go. Go visit your friend w/ a different girl every time so she can see that you're a ladies man. Oh yeah, and READ THE BIBLE!!!

 

[dbot]

BAD idea, don't mix up chillin with your homies with chillin with your girlfriend. What are you going to do, designate certain days to go to your best friends house to chill with your best friend, and other days to go to your best friends house and make out with with his sister? haha

 

[Julian]

Man dont be her boyfriend. JUST BONE HER.

 

[seloifter]

You need to re-define your idea of "flirting"....
plus a girl smiling at you is not a shoe-in sign of "I want you to rip off my clothes now and have your way with me you manly man!".... girls smile. At alot of people. They smile at their grandparents, but they don't especially want to date them

 

[seloifter]

oh ya, and I forgot to mention...... always check with your friend first...... no stupid girl you probably don't even ahve a chance with and even if you did the relationship would last a couple weeks and then you'd have no chick or friend, is worth a friendship

 

[Steel Dragon]

I really appreciate the info, and yes my flirting definition is messed up. Sorry for my ignorance. One more thing, my friend i do recall said he don't mind that his friends hit on his sister. (probably because he thinks that we have no chance) I wanna shoot at her a couple more times and see if there is any slack, if not I'll just forget about it and leave her alone. Again, i appreciate the good info for my noob status, its greatly obliged.

 

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