thelonewolflegend said:
I thought u guys said dont buy girls dinner now yall saying do wtf?!
I'm not one of the DJ's who believe spending light cash is a bad thing to do. But I do believe in equality, so a woman who has a job should reciprocate efforts to date you. It doesn't end out 50% / 50% but it shouldn't be 100% / 0%.
If you date a broke b1tch, that's on you. So you can't expect her to pay.
I don't believe in spending endless money on someone who won't do anything for you or doing favours that are not returned.
I also believe a woman should chase a man if she is really interested, I don't think a man should do all of the work.
The belief about not spending the cash is part of a "player" plate system that involves hot girls and orbitters. You are there for the sex, if she wants someone to spend money on her she can get one of her male friends or orbitters. That's a 100% sex thing with a female. It is something you can put into play, and perhaps men should structure this kind of thing at one point in their life to show that they can do it.
But if you want real dates, real gf's you have to treat her like one. So you will spend a little cash and if she works she should spend a little too.