what do I make of this?

papawapa

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Just met this chick the other day. Got her number, been texting. This afternoon she tells me she wants to have a conversation, can she call me. Delayed and called her, made small talk, built rapport. Talked to her again tonight and am not sure where I stand.

She says she wants to make new friends, doesnt want a relationship. But I get this vibe that she really does want a relationship and is just momentarily jaded.

We talked about my work, I travel a lot, and she asked me how I could have a relationship if I am always gone. She also said something about me getting some strange out on the road. She made it a point to let me know she has a booty call. Then later she said she hurt her neck today but didnt want to say how. I got her to tell me, it wasnt difficult at all, she said she did it masturbating this morning.

She responds quickly to texts and laughs at all my jokes. I know there is some level of attraction. But I am confused by the mixed messages.
 

narcissist

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base her motives on her actions not her words..

shes interested, but sh1t testing u.. dont fvck up
 

Purefilth

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narcissist said:
base her motives on her actions not her words..

shes interested, but sh1t testing u.. dont fvck up
Don't fvck up? wrong - YOU should be testing HER, not the other way around - just because she shows a little interest she gets your head in a tizz.

for a narcissist you sure have a lot to learn about self preservation.

Yes judge by actions, not words - ruling here is



ATTENTION WH0RE - NEXT!!
 

HyperAnalyze

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The only real way is to invite her out and escalate.

Don't waste time with this friendship conversation BS.

If she feels comfortable talking about her masturbating and not giving you any good signals that's a sign that something fishy is going on.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

El Suave

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Exactly what HyperAnalyze said. She wants to bang. Don't waste time with BS and give her what she wants. :cheer:
 

Albatross953

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Totally agree she's baiting you. Call her bluff. Escalate.

I had one this week complain to me about showering alone, but she went ghost when I escalated. Sometimes its just for attention.
 
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