What do I do? (ladies im lookin for ur help)

[Osiris7250]

all right basically what happend is I tryn to get with this girl but the problem is she not only likes me but also likes this scum bag that lives up the street from her that has had an off and on relationship with her for years. But every1 including her friends think that i am a much better guy for her because all he does is pick her up and drop her when ever he wants to, and for some reason she is still sort of stuck on him. Now the kid and i dont get along at all and all of a sudden because i like her he does too. and i was doing pretty good until one night he went to her house and they ended up hookin up. Yet she tells me that she still likes me. What should i do? Should i move on or still try to win her over. Please aid me in this decision.

 

[Porky]

She's playing you and you're falling for it. You deserve respect from whoever you date.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Why in the blue hell are you playing these $hitty games with her? Seriously, just let go of it. If its been on and off and she still has not gotten rid of him the girl is mentally used goods.

 

[Julian]

Sounds like the guy is using DJ tactics "because all he does is pick her up and drop her when ever he wants to" and you're dissing him for it.

COUGH AFC COUGH*

 

[Biphoria]

I read the first sentence and that's all.
A woman never likes 2 guys. 1 of you is getting ****ed and I think it's you

 

[blienk]

Yeah, she likes you...as a friend. If it was more than that, how come she's hooking up with this other dude and not you?

Judge a girl by what she does, not what she says.

 

[Osiris7250]

yah i kno it seems like im getting playd but this i would talk to her just about everyday for hours at a time. I hav hooked up with her too, but her best friend told me in person that she would rather her be with me and the only reason she is having trouble deciding is if she does end up with me 4 of her friends that like me will hate her. yah i probably am being a fool but the ***** im up against is a smooth talker. i hav takin beatin the **** out of him into consideration but i dont kno if that will only make her mad. i will take note of all criticism/advice....

 

[blienk]

Originally posted by Osiris7250
i would talk to her just about everyday for hours at a time.

This is not a good thing! You don't want to make yourself "too available" to her. I know this sounds illogical at first, but think about it. People always value what is difficult to come by. Gold wouldn't be so expensive if you could find it lying around anywhere! You want to start spending LESS time with her, and naturally she will come to appreciate your company more.

 

[PapaLongDong]

easy question

ANSWER: Trash the *****

- Chris

 

[jonny football hero]

Dj some other women, if she likes you she'll get jealous. simple

 

[CuT3L1LB1onD3]

hey, im kinda new at this discussion thing, but I don't think she's your type, unless your type is a player and user. I'm going through that, well, I just went through it and it's a crappy situation, I'm sorry. You're better than how she's treating you!

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Cute Lil Blonde, The Dude aint a player and/or a user. He's taking advantage of the situation. The girl likes him and he likes the girl, nothing wrong with a hook up.

Osiris, Stop Being a chump. Stop talking to her, next that girl. You don't need old attachments to move into the DJ world. Or you can try to pursue her, i personaly would never talk to her again because she's hookin up with all other guys and doesn't like you enough to be exclusive to just you.

 

[mdsoccer16]

don't work yourself over this girl.

Well......its sounds pretty bad and you know people who say oh it doesn't matter well I can tell you I am in the situation and I feel really bad because you shouldn't be treated like that it sounds like that you are her second choice and you shouldn't be first. It sounds like if it doesn't work out she has a person she can go to, but since I don't know this girl shse might really like you but wouldn't you rather be first choice rather than soebodys second. My oppinon would be to just be friends with her and then maybe when something goes wrong you can hook up with her but start it off slow I think would be the best idea.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

If things don't work out? Emotional Sloppy Seconds? Come on give me a break, NEXT and find yourself another girl. Focus on other girls, your her second choice and you could be first with plenty of other chicks. Keep that in mind.

 

[PapaLongDong]

8::::::::::::::

Hit It
Split It
And Quit It

 

[Capt.Jack Sparrow]

Well......its sounds pretty bad and you know people who say oh it doesn't matter well I can tell you I am in the situation and I feel really bad because you shouldn't be treated like that it sounds like that you are her second choice and you shouldn't be first. It sounds like if it doesn't work out she has a person she can go to, but since I don't know this girl shse might really like you but wouldn't you rather be first choice rather than soebodys second. My oppinon would be to just be friends with her and then maybe when something goes wrong you can hook up with her but start it off slow I think would be the best idea.

.. Osiris, never take advice from a chick about a chick

 

[PapaLongDong]

osiris quit being a queer..... I RECOMMEND TO EVERYONE.... D/L THE PARIS HILTON VIDEO..... that **** is right

- Chris

 

[Osiris7250]

ya poppa long dong ur the only queer cuz the only way u gettin lucky is with mary palm and her 5 sisters. but i did quit that chick tho n thanks for all yall help.

 

[PapaLongDong]

osiris ur lame kid, stfu and take a seat, i bet ur still a virgin, and btw i bet ive hooked up w/ more broads than times youve jerked ur ****, so just bow...

- chris

 

[Osiris7250]

hahah funny u f*ckin faggot, no im not a virgin and ur a loser tryn to make up for the jerk of joke when u were the one who said "I RECOMMEND TO EVERYONE.... D/L THE PARIS HILTON VIDEO..... that **** is right

- Chris" and i dont bow to b*tches but i bet u would like to bend over jus because the probablity that some guy will f*ck u in ur as$. lata