what did i get myself into

[dice]

Okay so I've been talking to this girl for awhile. She is HB10 to a tee.
Absolutely gorgeous she looks and is shaped like angelina jolie. Anyway im a 21 yo virgin. So last night i was ****y and funnying her on the phone and I was really on my game and I could tell she was getting more and more into me. And then she finally breaks and says she wants to come over to my place tomorrow night (tonight) and ride me.

She probably thinks because of my looks and personality that I've been with a bunch of girls and know what im doing, but the fact is if I had to put money on myself I would say I wouldn't be able to last even a minute with this girl, although i dont know cuz IVE NEVER DONE IT.

I'm so horny and proud and happy and excited and nervous and scared that I know I can't trust my own judgement right now. Someone talk some sense into me. The worst part is we know eachother through friends and she will be reporting to them im sure how horrible i was if i **** up.

The best plan I've come up with is either

a. keep making excuses why i cant hang out with her, work hard to bang a lesser chick so that I have some experience and confidence in my sexual abilities and THEN do her

b. just do it even though i will disappoint

 

[trd323]

just do it. My advice for you is, really pay attention to the girl's body and when you feel her tense up then you are doing something right and do not stop doing it. A lot of guys think that they need to go faster and harder but only do that if she tells you. I am sure you have seen A LOT of porn so do the basics. and foreplay is your friend. Tease her to the point that she is screaming for you ram her. Remember that 60 - 75 % of girls do not get an orgasm through intercourse.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

You have two choice, either do her, or dont do her. If you do her, then you well be getting practice, she will realise you lack experince , she may or may not want to keep seeing you. On the other hand you could leave it, at which point you get absolutly nothing and no practice! Gee i wonder which option you should take?!?

 

[dice]

what should i say to her to explain my suckyness? Sry ive only been with one girl (cuz telling her ur a virgin is bad I know this from expierence) but ill get better?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

what should i say to her to explain my suckyness? Sry ive only been with one girl (cuz telling her ur a virgin is bad I know this from expierence) but ill get better?

Dont tell her anything.

 

[Distant Light]

Don't worry about what others think just do what you do, if you popped after 30secs who cares you still did the deed (lol) your alittle happy and abit disappointed but you only live once so just go for it.

 

[brucevangeorge]

what should i say to her to explain my suckyness? Sry ive only been with one girl (cuz telling her ur a virgin is bad I know this from expierence) but ill get better?

1/ My last girlfriend was a dud.

2/ I've only done a (small number) of inexperienced girls.

3/ Say absolutely nothing.

4/ etc.

But only AFTER. Why would you explain it before and c0ckblock yourself?

 

[ev3nst3v3n]

Dude, checkit out.

DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT make excuses or try to bone some other chick first.

DO NOT!

HOLD THE PHONE HERE DUDE, HB10>?>>>>>?????

HB10?????

did you say HB10?????

REALIZE the AWESOME, AWESOME position you are in.

The girl is not only an HB10, but she straight up told you she wants to RIDE YOU! FVCK MAN, that is a GOOD place to be. DO NOT FVCK it up by assuming you will be bad in bed.

I realize the sticky situation with the friends of friends deal, but FEAR NOT MY FRIEND, FEAR NOT!

OK, you have convinced yourself you will suck in bed, and for the actual intercourse part you are mostly right. However:

1) If you rock her world/please her enough outside of the fvcking, it will overshadow the 2pumpchump factor. Ie, rub her box, munch the box, make her wet, squealing, etc. Then, when you don't last long, just say some sh1t like "it's been a little while, give me a half hour"

AND THEN WAIT 20-30 minutes and FVCK HER AGAIN, most likely longer.

2) Jerk off before hand, but not too close to when you're going to see her. Maybe 4-5 hours before. You might surprise yourself.

3) I personally last the longest, and I mean WAAAAY longer than normal when I am drunk. It sounds bad, but it's true. My last gf of 2 years, even after 2 years I would still sometimes be quick. But if I was drunk, look out, I was rockin her porn star style. But that's me you have to know yourself because it can go the other way, i.e sometimes if you're too drunk you get whiskey d1ck and can't get it up.

MOST OF ALL, ENJOY the fact that you are with an HB10 man. SERIOUSLY. FEEL LIKE A PIMP just because the HB10 is so into you and wants you. I'm in a nasty drought so I wish I was in your shoes. Fear is your enemy, don't let it control your actions with this girl. EN FVCKING JOY.

thats all i can say.

 

[whatdude]

Yo dude.. I'm in the same exact predicament you're in man. I'm a 19 year old virgin and this girl I've been seeing is absolutley fvcking gorgeous, and she has had boyfriends before and told me that shes a nympho, not a slut but just loves sex.

Dude, I was talkin to this chick and she was telling me I was making her so fvcking wet, i didn't believe it one bit because I didint think that could happen. Sooo... she guided my hand down her pants into her panties.. n wow, it was sopping... almost gross.

But hey, I've come to the conclusion.. so what if im a virgin, like you guys said before.. you only live once. This is going to get our experience up man. We need to just grab our **** n bang the **** outta them.. who cares if we're 1 pump chumps.. we got hot babes dude.. lets rock it!!

Later

 

[shiningshadow]

Rub one off before you nail her, you'll last longer.

 

[Badmannaz]

Rub one off before you nail her, you'll last longer.

That's a good idea....but i've got some great advice....

instead of rubbing one off...howabout you rub it off in her...switch condoms and keep banging her...you will be looked at as a guy who's DONE it before...there's a huge difference from a guy cumming and QUITTING to the guy who CuMs and keeps going...

NOW THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO...

okay now w/ the do's

A.Do her do her good

B. WATCH SOME PORN!!!!! IT'S THE ULTIMATE SEX ED!!! study the women's parts..check out the rythms and positions...

C. RelaX...it's sex.....it's gonna be EXTREMELY GOOD and the reason you came to this site in the 1st place to find that hb10 to bang...

D. like i said if you *** switch condoms and keep f*cking her

don'ts

A. DON'T explain to her that you suck in bed...your showing weakness

b. W/E YOU DO DON'T BLOW HER OFF!!!!

c. DON'T tell her your a virgin


okay so go out and do what you've never done before...and i hope it's all you've ever dream...and now your a REAL MAN

 

[Badmannaz]

btw im in the same position your in 18 virgin w/ a girl waiting on me to plz her....that's all what I plan on doing and that's w/n the next week YAY ME!!

 

[Vampire]

Don't rub one off before you see her. Why? Because you might get nervous when you're about to have sex, and not getting it up is so much worse than not being able to last. I've been in both situations.

Lots of guys bust early. Don't worry about it too much. Just relax and enjoy it. A lot of guys, honestly, last pretty long their first time. The most important thing is to get into a relaxed state... having a few drinks might help, but don't have too many.

Worst case scenario: you bust early, but you lose your v-card to a super hot chick. Sounds good to me.

Thing is... I've been with a decent amount of girls. I would like to think I was great in bed with most of them, but I've had some, err, "problems" (whiskey **** or nutting early) with a handful of them. As far as those girls and their friends are concerned, I "suck" in bed... but truly, every guy has those experiences. It doesn't blacklist you in any way.

Good luck.

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

The best plan I've come up with is either

a. keep making excuses why i cant hang out with her, work hard to bang a lesser chick so that I have some experience and confidence in my sexual abilities and THEN do her

b. just do it even though i will disappoint

Dice, you've got to quit telling yourself all of that negative crap. For my first time, I never said a word about my lack of experience to her. Hey, I was getting laid for the first time and was intent on having the best time possible. I suggest you do the same.

Don't talk yourself out of it. EVERYONE HAS A FIRST TIME. You're a man. Just let mother nature take over and you'll be just fine.

DON'T EVEN try to guess what she is thinking, because you'd probably be wrong. Whatever it is that she IS thinking, go ahead and let her think it. She is hot for you, so leave it at that.

 

[Wyldfire]

Erm...put more focus on foreplay...put off actual intercourse as long as you can and unload once about a half hour before she comes over. That will help you avoid being a two pump pony.

 

[dice]

wow okay so heres how it went..

she actually showed up which surprised the hell out of me bc im so used to being blown off by girls lower than her. We hung out until like 4 am and had a blast then we go back to my place. She tells me that she's liked me since the first time we hung out. We started getting hot and heavy and she was actually trembling and kept saying OMG i cant believe this is happening. Then towards the end of our foreplay we're about to do it she says, u know i have a kid. I said ya and that I was cool with it. I go to stick it in her and she grabs my **** and says I CANT DO THIS. She starts crying and gets up and leaves.

i've never felt pain like I was feeling yesterday, I literally began to feel that I am cursed to always be a virgin. I was so close, yet I got nothing after ALL THAT. I just laid around all day feeling sorry for myself which I know I shouldn't do, but I honestly couldn't help it.

Finally I talked to her last night and she says she is sorry she just doesnt want to be a ONS girl bc she wants someone to love herself AND her daughter. She said that she just wasnt ready bc she hasnt been with someone since she had her kid.

I didn't know it was possible to have the best night of ur life and the worst night of ur life in the same night, but I'm an optimist so here are the good sides of what happened.

- I gained experience hanging out with an HB10
- She was an unbelievable kisser and I learned so many things
- Never again will I doubt my ability to attract women, if I can get this girl that I thought was out of my league for so long to more or less fall in love with me, I can get any girl.
- I need to study some "oneitis" posts from this forum because honestly I can't stop thinking about her even now, or perhaps I have found "the one"

 

[StrongBad]

That sucks dude

Yo man sorry to hear about that but that's how things roll sometimes. You went in with the mentality that you were going to do her, and when she resisted because of her kid/emotions, you were right to not force her (I can only imagine how frustrating that must be being a virgin and being naked on top of a 10!).

But...all is not lost and from your post it sounds like she is still very into you and just has some personal stuff to work through. If you're willing to stick this out I see an opportunity in the future for you.

Here's what you DO NOT do now:
Don't become a clingy needy *****!! Be cool with her but don't smother her, it's the last thing she wants now. Read those one-itis posts and see if you can get her out of your mind with other women or hobbies.

Best of luck!

 

[SCRPBodybuilder]

PURE GOLD! :rockon:

 

[Badmannaz]

I go to stick it in her and she grabs my **** and says I CANT DO THIS. She starts crying and gets up and leaves.


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OMFG that is ****ing insane I would have probably been sitting there for like an hr thinking how in the f**k did this happen?? Does she know wTF she has done??? does she?? im seeing you are literally inches away from true manhood and it's blocked..as if GOD was playing some sick joke dangling you like a puppet right above pvssy...i would have probably been depressed for the next day...then jacked off and went hunting for some new meat


no but seriously i think i would have hit her with a rock and f*cked her....LMAO JK JK i would never...lolz

 

[ev3nst3v3n]

sorry to hear that dude. but like you said, you know waht to do... don't let it get you down.