Okay a few days ago I had posted saying to you guys that my gf told me she gave me the LJBF speech. BUt it was bcuz her mother doesnt know we are going out and that she figured if "acted like friends" and where really friends, she wouldnt have to lie to her mother about me. Her mother doesnt know that we are going out.
Here is the deal, Im indian, and im not catholic and my gf is italian and she is catholic and her mother told her, she doesnt want her going out with me bcuz im not catholic. My gf told me that her mother said "If i find out that your are lying to me and are going out, ur not gonna have much of a summer, and it would be better if he was a catholic" My gf told me that her mother likes me but she only wants me to be her freind and not go out with her cuz im not catholic. I HATE THIS MAN. I love her too death and so does she, i want to ring the mothers f***in neck.
I dont know what to do. We have thought of everything. We thought about how we could keep lying to her, that wont work cuz sooner or later SHE WILL find out its only a matter of time. It would be much worse then.
Second we decided that we could just be friends, and her mom would then only think we are friends but when we see each other we would do what we would normally do. Right now her mother doesnt have any proof, but she isnt stupid and she is catching on. SO if we come out and say it directly that we are JUST friends it might work for a while. Cuz she then would let me see her more often. Right now I can only see her once a week, cuz more than that then my gf has to HEAR alot of **** from her mother about how its not right and how she is leading me on.
So now thirdly we could just come out and tell her, but my gf told me that if we do that, that her mother would hate it and always try ot make up excuses so we would not see each other. ANd she wouldnt let my gf use her car and that she would interfere and create lots of problems for us. My gf is afraid that her mom would actually stop her from seeing me. My gf doesnt care if her mom is unhappy butnot be able to see me at all, her mom would stop her. sob.
Im 18 and she is 17 and she will turn 18 in Novemb, and my gf tells me that when she turns 18 there is not much her mom can do about her going out with me. but i dont know how thats gonna make things easier.
I just dont know what to do, we are both gonna go to college in sept and she has some night classes and day classes and we are gonna go to the same college and my gf tells me she might have an excuse to see by telling her mother that she was in the library.
Today she came into my arms and cried for 3 minutes, i was almost close to crying to. she just wouldnt stop. I feel so bad, we lov each other so much but we dont know what to do.
Here is the deal, Im indian, and im not catholic and my gf is italian and she is catholic and her mother told her, she doesnt want her going out with me bcuz im not catholic. My gf told me that her mother said "If i find out that your are lying to me and are going out, ur not gonna have much of a summer, and it would be better if he was a catholic" My gf told me that her mother likes me but she only wants me to be her freind and not go out with her cuz im not catholic. I HATE THIS MAN. I love her too death and so does she, i want to ring the mothers f***in neck.
I dont know what to do. We have thought of everything. We thought about how we could keep lying to her, that wont work cuz sooner or later SHE WILL find out its only a matter of time. It would be much worse then.
Second we decided that we could just be friends, and her mom would then only think we are friends but when we see each other we would do what we would normally do. Right now her mother doesnt have any proof, but she isnt stupid and she is catching on. SO if we come out and say it directly that we are JUST friends it might work for a while. Cuz she then would let me see her more often. Right now I can only see her once a week, cuz more than that then my gf has to HEAR alot of **** from her mother about how its not right and how she is leading me on.
So now thirdly we could just come out and tell her, but my gf told me that if we do that, that her mother would hate it and always try ot make up excuses so we would not see each other. ANd she wouldnt let my gf use her car and that she would interfere and create lots of problems for us. My gf is afraid that her mom would actually stop her from seeing me. My gf doesnt care if her mom is unhappy butnot be able to see me at all, her mom would stop her. sob.
Im 18 and she is 17 and she will turn 18 in Novemb, and my gf tells me that when she turns 18 there is not much her mom can do about her going out with me. but i dont know how thats gonna make things easier.
I just dont know what to do, we are both gonna go to college in sept and she has some night classes and day classes and we are gonna go to the same college and my gf tells me she might have an excuse to see by telling her mother that she was in the library.
Today she came into my arms and cried for 3 minutes, i was almost close to crying to. she just wouldnt stop. I feel so bad, we lov each other so much but we dont know what to do.
