What are your requirements to marry her?

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Assuming that you want to marry a girl either soon or in the future, what are your requirements or "must have" in order to finally go for it, if any?

She's rich?
She's super beautiful?
Both?
Love :D
 

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Must cook food.
Must clean house.
Must be trustworthy and loyal (not a slut who bangs the mailman or trash guy when you are not at home or gives a oral to her boss at work).


My additional requirement:
Must have a college (bachelor's) degree.
 

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Assuming that you want to marry a girl either soon or in the future, what are your requirements or "must have" in order to finally go for it, if any?

She's rich?
She's super beautiful?
Both?
Love :D
Top form SMV 18-23, thin, young, hawtttt as ****kkkk 15/10.

No ambiguity or anything cucky, weird, no deceit or lying followed by complete reform of divorce law, child custody, and the abolishment of feminism.

Even then, no marriage affiliated by the state.
 

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Okay I know this is an analogy question but for me the reality I would not get married with how the laws are so unfair to men. You're pretty much a slave after you sign the contract. The reasons you cited would be good for a Disney movie but this is reality. You have a better chance of winning the lottery meaning money than having a successful marriage. Now for me never married and no kids and my parents have been married for almost 50 years. So you would think I would side with marriage but I'm not. I've seen my dad been emasculated at some points and not even notice and the haze married men are in.
 

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- Has to be a great connection - physically, spiritually, emotionally.
- Has goals and dreams of her own.
- Takes care of herself - physically, mentally, spiritually.
- Doesn’t NEED me, but actively chooses me.
- Great sense of humour
- Communicates well
- Is open
- Loyal
- Trustworthy
- Believes in cultivating things with meaning
- Educates herself in whichever way and likes to try new things
- Values space but is deeply intimate
- Doesn’t try to control the relationship or how I interact with the world.
- Supports me in my life
- Believes in balance
 
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I want:

1. A Friend
2. A team player
3. Someone who communicates (and i can communicate too)
4. Someone who shares my dreams, goal, passions
5. A complimentary partner (someone who can do stuff i cant: like cook.. Or will be strong where i am weak and vice versa) to grow together

These 5 éléments are key, added she is physically attractive and keep in shape and has a Brain with a sense of humour
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Assuming that you want to marry a girl either soon or in the future, what are your requirements or "must have" in order to finally go for it, if any?

She's rich?
She's super beautiful?
Both?
Love :D
She's rich
She's beautiful
She's demure
She f*cks like a champ all the time, even when she doesn't want to
She never, ever nags
She's loyal to a fault
She has no orbiters
She lets the man lead

All of these are mission critical for marriage to succeed. If you are missing any of these, abort and eject.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A prenup tighter than a granite block.
 

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Likes traditional gender roles and doesn't find anything toxic about me being a man and her being a woman.
 

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It seem many men here just asking for what always men was asking for , but just hide it lately because of feminism
 

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Not getting married so no list. I live in a world of absolutes. I don't ever think about what if was like this because I know those women are few and far between.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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