What Are Your Biggest Fears In Pickup?

[Social Calibration]

I'd like to know guys, what are your biggest fears, frustrations and concerns about pickup? This can range from anything approaching to closing or anything similar.

-SoCal

 

[n00bPimp]

Mine biggest fear is to start stuttering, or get too nervous and do something really stupid and be embarrassed. Even worse to find that girl who i made a fool of myself with at another place again.

 

[SharinganUser]

One of my "fears" is getting into a confrontation with some cokblocker afc. I know I can hold my own in a fight, I just hate fighting though.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Honestly, it's confronting the "jealous ex boyfriend" of whoever I'm talking to. In my area, people do some stupid sh1t over girls, like I know a couple of stories of guys who shot each other up because they were fighting over a girl (an even more ridiculous story is that a guy got killed over a hat). I just don't wanna one day have to face through a situation like that.

 

[DonGorgon]

I guess i feel exposed when i really like the girl... my affection gives her instant power..

 

[leftForDeadPhoenix]

fear

 

[macking]

My Body Language ... I have to learn more in that.

And I AM scared when I am in a set, and girls start to look each other. DAMN

 

[HandyAndy]

having boring conversation, being like every other guy, farting

 

[GaryUranga]

success, OH SNAP

 

[Kid Style]

The most common fear....rejection! I've gotten used to rejection and my confidence outweighs it, but I still fear it everytime.

 

[LostAndConfused]

not knowing what the **** to say. and the **** happens too so my fears actually have substance.

its hard as hell especially when either the girl doesn't hold up her end of the conversation, or if she's too shy to do so.

actually this isn't a fear, its a legitimate problem. small talk seems lame as ****.

 

[ARrocket]

Having boring conversation...not being able to make her laugh.

 

[Miguel]

Simple, that gut ripping feeling when you can't seem to get your game on. it;s the worst experiance in the world. You know that your a nice, cool, sexy man... but when you game just doesn't go, I feel like CRAP, then I curl up into a ball and have to spend like 2 days psycin myself back up so I can pick up. It's horrible, and the one thing that I fear more then anything in this game... is my own social shortcommings and lack of skills at time.

 

[Groovy]

Choosing the wrong one.

I like to be playful and I naturally kino a lot,, the problem isn't to keep the convo going, but sometimes I encounter a rude chick that doesn't like to have fun... And she may be like "STOP touching me YOU CREEP"

Apart from that... What's there to be afraid of?

 

[Snow Plowman]

Success...

...and hurting the woman's feelings when they really are attracted and I don't bother to close in any way shape of form...(Done by choice)

 

[romangod]

Throwing my back out.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

Trucks. Trucks are my biggest fear. I constantly worry about getting run down by a truck while gaming women. I always look behind me to make sure that there are no stray trucks looking to hit me. They're everywhere. Clubs, Bars, Malls- No where is safe from trucks.

 

[MrNotebook]

simply rejection...but I'm getting betta at not giving a dang.

 

[Rhoto]

Throwing my back out.

I lol'ed for real at that. :crackup:

But really, this thread is silly. The ONLY fear when doing a "pickup" is that you may miss a better female while gaming your current target.

 

[Social Calibration]

Bringing this up once again! It's a new year! Have your overcame your fears? Are your fears the same or have new ones came to surface? Speak your mind!