What are you thinking?

[TheMonkeyKing]

I'm thinking the new site is good. It needed a little update to be fair!

Life is good. Am finally getting cleaned up, debt free, really starting to hit stride physically and mentally; outcome independence is finally returning in its truest form. I've got hold of two birdies in as many weeks and could have had a few more if logistics and conscience had allowed it....

Some times I just need to air a few thoughts that can't be shared anywhere else.

How are you all doing, what's been happening, what are you thinking?

 

[deltabeta]

Atm, I'm thinking how isolating it can be to study things like abstract math. You can't share what you learn with others(non-math/physics majors) and tell them about the pure beauty of it. Yes, other people in the field will get it. But sometimes I just wanna tell my friends and family about what they're missing and how there are so many approaches to perceiving this world. I have simply while talking to them but then you also lose the precision. Either way, I'm glad to have taken this course(complex analysis).

 

[old_skoolr]

I'm finishing a 4 month trip in Europe. Met some awesome people and a lot of fun, but in the back of my mind, I've been planning my return moves and what I will do job wise, since I'm technically unemployed.

I've got 2 jobs with some interest and I've applied for another 2. Plus I got like 5 plates when I get back, and one I met on my holidays who's travelling to see me in December. But work first, women second, can't wait to get home.

 

[GS750]

I've been seeing a new girl for the past month or so. No talk of exclusivity yet, I never bring that up. But it's actually going pretty well. After my last breakup I've been on high alert for any major red flags and not letting the NRE cloud my common sense. Other than that I've been in strict NC with the ex for about 6 months, I've accepted that I will very likely never see or speak to her again and I'm okay with that. Career-wise I'm good but I'm seriously considering switching employers. Overall life is good.

 

[stevo]

Thinking I might have been too harsh indirectly cutting ties with a female friend, semi plate.

But again maybe I'm so used to her hurting me that I'm not comfortable with hurting her and I just liberated myself from her inconsistency.

With life, everything is perfect, not one complain.

With women, I'm at a place of consistency, no mind fcuking. You're either in or out, you either do what you say you would or you're out.

There's too many fishes to be stuck on one beach.

There's too many beaches to be stuck on one fish.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Today I'm thinking life can be as easy and stress free as long as we take care of the fundamentals. I have a couple of luke warm broads, one of whom is moving to UAE early next month. Not convenient, but maybe a prospect for future reference.

The ex turned 25 yesterday and I held off on the birthday wishes. To be fair she cut ties in the summer and tried to put me in orbit. But I walked. It was fcking hard, but I am proud of myself for not contacting. She didn't really deserve it any way, the way she left things. Two or three years ago, I would have reacted very differently. I have come a long way, and learned a lot in that time. She viewed my LinkedIn last week, obviously knowing full well that I'd see the fact. Haaaa.

Work is good and am being given some mad responsibility.

Banged a squirter last weekend. Fck, I fcking love that sh!t. She blew me out tonight for work, but still seems keen for round two.

Crack on lads.

 

[Young OG]

I'm thinking that I'm getting close to doing many cold approaches soon and trying out Tinder at the same time. I'm pretty ripped now but I want my abs to be more defined. My teeth are almost close to movie star white. I got rejected the other day and I don't even care. It was her loss, she really wasn't all that lol.

 

[Mr Wright]

I'm thinking this winter I will once again actively remove myself from the dating pool for the foreseeable future until I put on 5kg, take a course with a view to get a raise/new job so I can get a better job once I come back from travelling and I can move out because being at home is seriously frustrating when it comes to having a sex life. I had a pretty productive summer so it's time to keep my head down and move forward. I like looking back to this time last year and saying "yes, I have grown as a person and I'm of myself" I want that every year.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Atm, I'm thinking how isolating it can be to study things like abstract math. You can't share what you learn with others(non-math/physics majors) and tell them about the pure beauty of it. Yes, other people in the field will get it. But sometimes I just wanna tell my friends and family about what they're missing and how there are so many approaches to perceiving this world. I have simply while talking to them but then you also lose the precision. Either way, I'm glad to have taken this course(complex analysis).

Some people will understand what you are talking about. Most won't. I live in that world where the majority don't understand what I do, nor why I do it. But it is absolutely fascinating to me and some immediate peers, including my boss. And that's all that matters. My first mentor told me that when you walk out of the office, you leave work in there. Unless people show genuine interest or fellow-feeling, leave it there. Work and play are polar opposites.

The course sounds very very interesting. At least to me.

 

[deltabeta]

Some people will understand what you are talking about. Most won't. I live in that world where the majority don't understand what I do, nor why I do it. But it is absolutely fascinating to me and some immediate peers, including my boss. And that's all that matters. My first mentor told me that when you walk out of the office, you leave work in there. Unless people show genuine interest or fellow-feeling, leave it there. Work and play are polar opposites.

The course sounds very very interesting. At least to me.

What do you do?

Is the course interesting? Yes but it can really overwhelming sometimes. That's why I usually don't get time to game chicks. I do approaches but don't bother much. I'm just focused on getting the most of university and concentrating on my inner game.

 

[ubercat]

New look is good. Miss having ages on the profiles coz I used to follow Tictac etc.

But some of the young guys r damned sharp so probably not a thing.

Women - just getting back to it after 8 mths off. Had 2 cold approach flakes. Looks like I got a real one for drinks with an OLD chick tonight. Still in work but waiting to hear about a new job on Monday.

Had injuries, health drama with my dad and work stress over winter. But summer s here now, Dad s cleared all his Ops, job s stabilized and I can train and work on my house again. Beat a good 23 YO tradie bloke in tennis last night .... I m baaaaaack

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

What do you do?

Is the course interesting? Yes but it can really overwhelming sometimes. That's why I usually don't get time to game chicks. I do approaches but don't bother much. I'm just focused on getting the most of university and concentrating on my inner game.

I work in clinical research ethics. Medics are on my back every day coz they just wanna do whatever they wanna do, sometimes with pretty fundamental flaws in their rationale. There are lots of good reasons why research is governed in the west.... the primary being, up until 20 or 30 years ago, there was very little governance whatsoever. The critical thinking is what gets me up in the morning.

I sometimes wish I'd studied harder at uni. But, I had a good time and I came out with honours. It's a tough task in our early 20s. I'd say work hard but don't let it take over completely. I've met plenty of academics who are dull as dog sh!t coz all they ever did is studied. Enjoy what you do, but enjoy different things, for different reasons. You know that old saying about all work and no play.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Too fckn right mate. There aren't many things I look for physically other than pretty face and a nice rack. But when they do that, fck, that gets me going too. One ex was with for about 6months basically had to change the bed clothes every time. I mean, the whole room was soaked, no joke. Shame she turned out to be bat sh!t mental.

This bird last week said he cl!t was throbbing after we'd finished for the morning. I've had three or four do it now, starting to think I must be doing something right =D

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

This week I'm thinking that if a guy wants a girlfriend, he should go to Eastern Europe.They are loyal (as far as I can tell) the are passive and want to settle quickly.

Personally, I find them a little boring. No challenge and too clingy. Had this Ukranian asking me what I want on a dating site. She said she wants kids within 2-3 years... honest if nothing else. My mate is basically getting married to a Polish within the same time frame, I reckon. I was briefly with a Polish this summer and she was bascially getting the same way after only a few weeks.

Going out with an old acquaintance next week. We are probably gonna bang as we would have already had her friend not ****-blocked me at my own house party... She pretty much messaged me last week, after viewing my linkedin every week for a month! I stopped working with her friend a couple of months ago, and I kept messages to one line and asked her out after 3-4 messages back and forth.... cant' wait. She's got an epic rack, like E's I reckon. It just feels like one of those foregone conclusion situations, where she's gonna make it really easy for me.

I'm thinking that when you know how they work, and how you yourself should operate, women are really quite predictable.

 

[dustmuffin]

I'm thinking that I'm getting pissed easily. Could be my testosterone shots or it could be that I keep my emotions inside and they are coming out. Idk...nothing used to bother me.

But I let people walk all over me. I have got to change.

 

[skinnyguy]

My main chick has been denying me sex so I've been banging my side chick.

Work is killing me. I want to go to a warriors game some time soon.

 

[NSX-R]

Took a break about hunting chicks and going to hold it till the end of 2015. The difference is when i see a good chick that wants something with then i just grab the opportunity.

There are some other more important things than chicks going on currently in my life ,so i say its worth the small pause.

 

[ubercat]

First 4 dates back on the scene have been a bit grim. Had a couple of makeout sessions - so not much profit. Of course I'm rusty so many mistakes. Now the hard work - got to look at the FRs and see if there's any consistent mistakes I need to fix first. I've had dates from on and off line so its certainly not hopeless but I am ****ing up the dates.

Work I've had yet another politics making bvtch trying to steal my job. Fortunately just like the last one she's already pissed off my boss. And of course I'm feeding his paranoia ;-)

Booked my trip back to NZ to see the relatives. I'll setup a profile on an NZ dating site before I go over see if I can at least keep practicing and join a couple of meetups over there in case my NZ friends are busy.

Body's slowly responding to the exercise. Next week I'll start looking to buy a stationary bike to add a bit more exercise at home.

My old house is slowly progressing. Got all my paintings up on walls so NO more concrete drilling for a while

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Today, I'm just thinking I need to get out more!

I went to a charity gig last night organised by one of my mates which I did some artwork for. We had a roast at one of the girl's houses and polished off a few bottles of vino, then went to the venue early evening.

I just chatted with people, new and old and had a couple of brief conversations with a couple of birds,including the best music act of the night. Fck, when a woman can really sing like she can, that is a massive thing for me, I kind of realised last night. Quite a few of the women I've been with have been great singers. It's like the moment when they have my complete undivided attention. This girl probably did the best acapella I have heard. And she was probably a good 8 on he aesthetic as well. I might just turn up at her gig again.

I'm sh!t at talking to people, especially those I don't know. Need practice.

 

[BorisMoris]

I'm thinking how can I get to 38 and have so much experience in life and still find that the only thing that winds me up in life is women.