Hi there, gentlemen and rogues of SoSuave.
I'm wondering what each of you guys are trying to achieve. What is your current situation with women, and how do you see your situation in, say, 5 years? What do you really, honestly WANT?
I'm hoping some of you will leave pretence out of this, and be honest.
I'll go first: Right now I'm sleeping with one woman, non-committed, and I'm going to break that off pretty soon. I've been single since late last year, doing a bit of meeting new people and sleeping around. I want to be by myself - I like my life, I like myself and I can see myself developing as a person in the time I've been by myself.
That said, I think if a REALLY great woman came along, I'd consider lowering the guard for a relationship. But the chances are extremely slim. Looks aren't a huge deal for me - certainly they have to be attractive to me, but I'd actually rather someone I find a cute 7 than an 8-10, purely because of the inherent hassle that comes with going out with someone who is extremely hot in a mainstream way.
The first step to getting what you want is KNOWING what you want. Perhaps this thread will provoke you, if you're unsure, to consider what you want and act accordingly.
I'm wondering what each of you guys are trying to achieve. What is your current situation with women, and how do you see your situation in, say, 5 years? What do you really, honestly WANT?
I'm hoping some of you will leave pretence out of this, and be honest.
I'll go first: Right now I'm sleeping with one woman, non-committed, and I'm going to break that off pretty soon. I've been single since late last year, doing a bit of meeting new people and sleeping around. I want to be by myself - I like my life, I like myself and I can see myself developing as a person in the time I've been by myself.
That said, I think if a REALLY great woman came along, I'd consider lowering the guard for a relationship. But the chances are extremely slim. Looks aren't a huge deal for me - certainly they have to be attractive to me, but I'd actually rather someone I find a cute 7 than an 8-10, purely because of the inherent hassle that comes with going out with someone who is extremely hot in a mainstream way.
The first step to getting what you want is KNOWING what you want. Perhaps this thread will provoke you, if you're unsure, to consider what you want and act accordingly.