OP: "im looking for the possibility to get to know someone, who knows who you might meet? Let's figure it out, right?"
I use Tindr quite abit. IMHO most 28-35 are looking for a (potential) LTR, or at least the possibility of finding one, most use the 3 date rule. 18-23yo are probably looking for "fun, adventure", and maybe sex.
Maybe in M'urica its different...
Finland-Europe, follow my first paragraph
China, looking for LTR, marriage
I do very good on the T and view it as a DATING app, not a smashing app
Success rate:
18-22yo = introduce, they want to try something different, smash 3 this year (no illusion og LTR)
33-40yo = 3 date rule unless you flirted them to build a buzz and groomed it towards a svexual vibe (smash 5 this year)
being that im 53 I ignore 23-32yo, nothing over 40 unless HB8
I want a LTR, but nothing swinging that way... yet.
my opener:
Hi My name is MrWood, an American living in Helsinki. I like your style, cute smile... let's get acquainted and see where it goes, what do you say?
hint: Instagram is gold for dating