What are the best ways to look out for STD’s and HIV?

[T-Mack]

I don’t have a lot of sexual experience with women and I’m still a virgin. I’ve been seeing this foreign exchange student. I tried to have sex with her for the first time last night, but I ended up losing my erection when I put the condom on because I got nervous. She did end up giving me a hand job later in the shower though when I got it back.

Well before that happened I went down on her and gave her oral. Then the next day I woke up and noticed white bumps around my lips that felt itchy. I’m almost positive it is HPV. I never asked her if we were safe or if she had any diseases. I know the best way to avoid STD’s and HIV is abstinence but I choose not to go that route. I want to have some fun, but be safe at the same time. I’m really disappointed in myself for not being more careful. I haven’t seen a doctor yet, but I will this coming week.

 

[Shyguy2003]

I used to have a female friend who was a complete slut and a *****. I don't talk to her anymore for those reasons. I found out she went with her boyfriend to a night club one night and he stepped out to the bathroom and she starting eye ****ing this particular guy she liked. They ended up swapping numbers and ****ed like a week later. He ended up getting Herpes from her and he felt really bad about it. He thought he had contracted it from some slut in the past and called her up and told her the news, that he may have given it to her. Her being the ***** she is said she didn't have the disease and had been checked...but that she'd check again in the future.

So the point of this is, chicks lie and they don't care for your well being. Not all girls are that evil, but their out there. Sorry to hear man, I hope it turns out to be nothing serious.

 

[LostAndConfused]

If condoms don't work against herpes, then what does? So girls are a mixed bag, you gotta just hope she hasn't gotten herpes? God I never knew that...

 

[Shyguy2003]

If condoms don't work against herpes, then what does? So girls are a mixed bag, you gotta just hope she hasn't gotten herpes? God I never knew that...

They don't. I don't have the info but I read in a health journal one time that they don't. The bacteria is very small and you can catch it even if you are wearing a condom. Keep in mind, you don't just get it on your ****, you could get it from doing things such as eating her out so that's how it goes sometimes. There is no such thing as "Safe Sex" unless you practice abstinance. You just got to hope you don't come across evil women, that's all you can do.

 

[Ryan69]

You just got to hope you don't come across evil women, that's all you can do.


It's not like the women know ? Don't mess around with people you don't know and everything will be fine. Plus the sex will be 100 times better since you won't have any fear of health risks or crap like that...you can just give it to her LOL

If you date a girl for a few weeks you can get a good read on the situation. If you just jump in once you meet a girl it's a risk.

Sucks beacuse one night stands can be fun...But these days way to risky

 

[Shyguy2003]

Since I've been thinking about it, I guess one way you can find out is by follow her when she goes to the bathroom. Stand by the door with your ear next to it and if you start hearing her yelling and screaming that it burns when she pee's, you've got a winner on your hands. Then just get your **** and run out the door. If you're at a restaurant, make sure to tell the waiter or whatever your date is picking up the check

But yeah, just try to avoid the one night stands if she's shady. Know your targets. Chances are if you find her at a dive bar, there's a greater chance she'd have an STD as oppposed to a chick in a library.

Some women will tell you, a lot will not! Women with STD's know they are not desirable and most guys don't want a piece of them. We all know women go through life seeking validation, so a lot of them just don't tell guys and **** away, thus spreading that ****.

A famous celebrity that has herpes is Jessica Alba, kinda sucks.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Knowing how girls are, even ones you know might not be clean...

I guess its all up to chance, plus a little judgement. Don't go with the total slut.

 

[The Inside Man]

I've only gone down on 3 girls, they were virgins at the time. I wouldnt go down on a girl unless I was really serious with her.

 

[T-Mack]

I went to see the doctor this past week. It turns out it was a cold sore, which isn't a life threatening type of HPV and pretty common among people. The cold sore only lasted for a day and was gone the next morning. I was just freaked out after seeing that **** on my lips the next day after giving the girl oral because I had no idea what it was. I got it from making out with the girl and not from giving oral.

I was told it is very rare to get the bad type of HPV from giving oral and if it was herpes it would have not gone away like the cold sore did and it actually takes a few weeks before symptoms actually occur. Well, that was good to know and I’m no longer worried about this crap. I can go back to macking chicks now

 

[Last Man Standing]

What are the best ways to look out for STD’s and HIV? .

I personally use a high power 100,000 times magnification telescope!!

 

[Leporello]

It is extremely hard to get HIV. Basically if you wear a condom you're safe 99.999% of the time. Otherwise you'd have to be dating a drug addict with open sores all over her body.

 

[bukowski_merit]

you guys make me not want to do anymore one night stands
lets make a cigarettes cause cancer thread now - so i wnat to give up my cigarettes too

 

[DonJuan11]

Also I once went down on a girl and got a severe infection in my throat a few days later. I showed it to a male nurse i knew and they were so conserned that they rushed me to the emergency room. I think it may have been ghonorreah, I may have spelt that wrong, anyhow I had to take anti biotics and get an injection but it tore up my tonsils bad and my throath swelled up so much it looked as though it might close up. So yes youve gotta be really careful and I suggest you get to know any woman before being stupid like I have been in the past.

That makes me want to lose my virginity tomorrow.

 

[Bible_Belt]

What are the best ways to look out for STD’s and HIV?

fuhgettaboudit

Seriuosly, unless you are bareback ass-****ing gang-bang hos and tranvestities - you're not gonna get HIV from sex. Or at least the odds are so small, they are not that significant. Countless people die in car wrecks and get hit by lightning, but you still drive and go outside. It's the same with sex.