What are some friendzone signs
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1) If she uses the word "nice" to describe you. "You are nice". "That was nice of you". "You are the nicest guy!"
2) If she uses the word "friend" and you in the same sentence.
3) If she never touches you.
4) If she talks about other guys when she is with you.
5) If she doesn't hold eye contact when she is speaking with you.
2) If she uses the word "friend" and you in the same sentence.
3) If she never touches you.
4) If she talks about other guys when she is with you.
5) If she doesn't hold eye contact when she is speaking with you.
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She talks about other guys she is hooking up with.
-She avoids any topic close to sex or intimacy.
-She doesnt mind showing you ugly physical sides of her
-She makes fun of what you say
-She doesnt consider you able to get women and has no problem telling you
-worse of all,she leads and suggest to do the opposite of what you propose
and in her plans you have a secondary role
Just imagine how a sister deal with her 10yrs old brother,unpleasable to say but usually women don't have a great esteem
of friendzoned friends or orbiters,they seem to fail to see them as men in most of the cases.
-She doesnt mind showing you ugly physical sides of her
-She makes fun of what you say
-She doesnt consider you able to get women and has no problem telling you
-worse of all,she leads and suggest to do the opposite of what you propose
and in her plans you have a secondary role
Just imagine how a sister deal with her 10yrs old brother,unpleasable to say but usually women don't have a great esteem
of friendzoned friends or orbiters,they seem to fail to see them as men in most of the cases.
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She keeps her back to you the ENTIRE time she's grinding you in the club. (She's essentially avoiding a makeout and scanning the room for taller and hotter sausage).
This entire thread makes me uncomfortable because its all so true. Everybody's been there and reading this stuff makes me go ooh, ouch, damn, that hurt! 
I'll add another one:
If you feel like you're trying everything imaginable to "get her" and its not working, you're a friend.
I'll add another one:
If you feel like you're trying everything imaginable to "get her" and its not working, you're a friend.
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Typical sign is:
Responding well to rapport seeking vocal tonality and getting uncomfortable around neutral tonality(breaking rapport).
It's because she sees you as a girlfriend and then you go getting all sexual and she gets cognitive dissonance from it.
Either that or she'll friendlykino you, like pat you on the shoulder when you touch her butt, kiss you on the cheeck when you do kissclose routine etc.
Responding well to rapport seeking vocal tonality and getting uncomfortable around neutral tonality(breaking rapport).
It's because she sees you as a girlfriend and then you go getting all sexual and she gets cognitive dissonance from it.
Either that or she'll friendlykino you, like pat you on the shoulder when you touch her butt, kiss you on the cheeck when you do kissclose routine etc.
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That's good, but this is not an exhaustive list. There are many, many signs of friendzone.JPlaya said:
If you would like to know if you are in friendzone with a particular chick, we need more information. We would need some history such as when you met her, what the conversations have been like or about, whether you made any moves on her and how she reacted, etc.
There are several guys on here that are good are figuring that out. Igetit especially comes to mind.
I'm not an expert on this, but have been friendzoned enough times to be able to help.
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The biggest one of all, I'd say, is you're so unsure that you have to make a thread about it. You probably already know.
Whatever this is/was, its not what you want it to be anymore.
Whatever this is/was, its not what you want it to be anymore.
There is no set rule for "friendzones".
But there are things to watch out for. For example, the usually the longer you wait (2 months, 3 months+) your chance slowly diminishes. However this IS NOT an ironclad rule.
If your hanging out or talking to her all the fvcking time and you haven't done anything sexual.
Flaking. Most girls in this universe will never say an outright NO to a guy's face in fear of hurting him. So they do a form of "soft rejection". This is done usually by CONSTANT flaking. Or whenever you try to get alone with her, she is magically with another friend so you two are NEVER alone. Many guys interpret the girl not directly saying NO as she's playing hot and cold when in reality it could be farther from the truth. Everything about her besides words is saying get away from me. That's why we look at actions not words.
But there are things to watch out for. For example, the usually the longer you wait (2 months, 3 months+) your chance slowly diminishes. However this IS NOT an ironclad rule.
If your hanging out or talking to her all the fvcking time and you haven't done anything sexual.
Flaking. Most girls in this universe will never say an outright NO to a guy's face in fear of hurting him. So they do a form of "soft rejection". This is done usually by CONSTANT flaking. Or whenever you try to get alone with her, she is magically with another friend so you two are NEVER alone. Many guys interpret the girl not directly saying NO as she's playing hot and cold when in reality it could be farther from the truth. Everything about her besides words is saying get away from me. That's why we look at actions not words.
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Spot on.vatoloco said:Looks good. But you know what the ultimate, "for sure you're in the FZ" sign is? A LJBF/denial response to closing.
There's only one way to find out for sure, my friend.