what are best ways invoke a womens emotions on dates?

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Ok i get simple gist of it say something u like about it then tease her but how the hell do i mentally put myself like this im seriously generic with women i really have 0 of these skills i just say whats up and try to hangout and im only thing when i go out with her i just like to hangout do whatever like i do with guy friends i dont got any women friends help please i need to internalize and understand this
 

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- Keep the date fun/funny as much as possible

- Don't talk all serious but do plant the seed to let her know that you are a man who works and takes care of your children (if you have any) and business over everything else

- Don't talk about any potential future with each other

- Don't talk about the problems in your life. If she does hers, just listen but offer little or no advice

- Neg/bust/tease on her a little bit

- Neg/bust on yourself a little bit too but don't overdo it or it can backfire big time. Shows confidence.

- Make her wonder more about you, be a man of many mysteries (ex: I confuse so many people by dressing like the country redneck that I am but I listen to rap music and talk radio. WTF, right? )

- Let her know you are sexual but don't push sex at the very, very beginning. (take her to an adult bookstore, that's my favorite way to do this)
 
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On 2nd time i saw a girl i took her porn shop she was freaked out that and said was weird that i knew where everything was and i didnt i was just pointing things out. Explain
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
On 2nd time i saw a girl i took her porn shop she was freaked out that and said was weird that i knew where everything was and i didnt i was just pointing things out. Explain
that was... kinda dumb.

sorta made you look like a weirdo pervert, but I like the idea weed out the prudes by showing you're sexual, maybe that was a little strong though.
 
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So how are you supposed to be sexual then? I still have no idea how to flirt naturally? Basically i have to feel un natural lie and make up stories and stuff? How do u plant seed? How do you neg yourself enough or neg her? Help how do i know what ill b doing? If someone is complete newb how they can truly learn these things??? Any place
 

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You have to try, inevitably fail, and then learn from those failures so you get better. Everyone goes through the same thing.

You shouldn't have to lie or do anything that feels unnatural. Hell, just be nice. I know that is a radical approach, but if you use a lot of kino and touch her all you can, and then she how responds, it will work. Nice guys finish last not because being nice doesn't work, but because they won't close the deal. Be nice. Then touch her and see what happens. If she shrinks away, she's not that into you. If she likes it, then she is, so escalate. That's Game 101. You have to learn to crawl before you can learn to walk. After you get that down, then start thinking about more advanced ideas like negging and being sexual. You have to work on your fundamental skills first.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Acting like a MAN is the best way. Just don't be a beta white knight and she will naturally feel emotions around you.

The alpha mindset alone creates female intrigue. You're lack of need for her approval and validation frees you to actually be "interesting" and different from your typical thirsty PUA or agreeable walking on eggshells beta loser.

Men using "game" might as well be in handcuffs. They are constantly adapting their behavior to get the right reaction from the woman instead of just not giving a sh!t.

Always go for the ass grab on the first date. It will let you know if you're dealing with a feminine woman with high interest who respects men or a feminist c*nt who wants to be "in charge" and run the show.
 
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Oki appreciate the advice but im seriously a beginner and have no fking clue how to do those things on dates. Can you please elaborate or give me more indepth how i can do these things on my own style and things like that?
 
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Oki appreciate the advice but im seriously a beginner and have no fking clue how to do those things on dates. Can you please elaborate or give me more indepth how i can do these things on my own style and things like that?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Oki appreciate the advice but im seriously a beginner and have no fking clue how to do those things on dates. Can you please elaborate or give me more indepth how i can do these things on my own style and things like that?
There's no hope for you. You've been asking the same questions every day and gotten answers yet you're as clueless as ever.
 
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U dont understand i got the advice but only basic understanding i need to know how to ACTUALLY DO IY AND INTERNALIZE IT SO I DO IT ALL THE TIME
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Poon King said:
Acting like a MAN is the best way. Just don't be a beta white knight and she will naturally feel emotions around you.

The alpha mindset alone creates female intrigue. You're lack of need for her approval and validation frees you to actually be "interesting" and different from your typical thirsty PUA or agreeable walking on eggshells beta loser.

Men using "game" might as well be in handcuffs. They are constantly adapting their behavior to get the right reaction from the woman instead of just not giving a sh!t.

Always go for the ass grab on the first date. It will let you know if you're dealing with a feminine woman with high interest who respects men or a feminist c*nt who wants to be "in charge" and run the show.
LOL.

There is no better answer than this lol.

Purely being alpha will illicit the response you want.
 

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Be funny get her laughing. Build report and speak of things you do and like from an emotional perspective. Don't just say "I like football." Relate a story from an emotional perspective that demonstrates why you like it. A story from your childhood is always good. I usually tell the story of when my dad took me to a football game... my earliest memory of my dad and I doing anything together...didn't know what was going on but remembered the team he was rooting for won and some other female fan grabbed him from behind and kissed him... when I got home I told my mother the it was fun and daddy was kissing girls.

It's true... funny... And gets her thinking about kissing. See how this works?
 
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Unfortunately i dont have any stories like that only like how i went wrestling as a kid and saw shawn michaels or playing little league baseball wait i just remembered a story. When i was kid i was at my uncle's and me and my niece were playing in backyard and i didnt see her and swung the bat and smacked her upside the head and she had to go hospital is that a good story to tell? If so how do i go into that?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Unfortunately i dont have any stories like that only like how i went wrestling as a kid and saw shawn michaels or playing little league baseball wait i just remembered a story. When i was kid i was at my uncle's and me and my niece were playing in backyard and i didnt see her and swung the bat and smacked her upside the head and she had to go hospital is that a good story to tell? If so how do i go into that?
LOL!!! Your posts crack me up... you are either the most pathetic dude in the history of humanity, or a funny sarcastic guy. If you are the latter you will do just fine with women. If you are the former, then I suggest you join a monestry and get some happiness working is a garden or building furniture.
 
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