Im a big muscular good looking guy. I get hot women to go out on dates with me all the time but I feel like if I can't get in the girls pants within the first night it usually never happens so I have learned to be successful with women by escalating quickly.
I am EXTREMELY good with first impressions...getting numbers, approaching women, getting women to go out with me and getting them interested is my STRENGTH. They respond positively to my aggressive attitude and I project my sexual energy onto them very well. Its not uncommon for chicks with boyfriends to be sending me pictures after meeting them in supermarkets for example. Its also not uncommon for me to meet a girl at the gym, or out somewhere and have an hour conversation with her, and then after the first actual date she loses interest in me.
What am I doing wrong here? Its almost as if my frame of mind switches once I get past that initial close and I become somebody else