What a ****ty night, got ****blocked by my friend and stranded

[Kal0051]

Last night I went out with my best friend and a few of her girl friends. She ended up getting really drunk and a few guys were trying to take advantage of her. Well for whatever reason I didn't like that (more on that later), and when all her friends left (with their bfs) I had to step in.

Anyway I just started dancing with her; she was grinding up against my **** and I'm pretty sure she grabbed it a few times (so by this point I had the craziest hard on and would have fvcked her then and there). So I just put my thigh between her legs and she started grinding her pvssy against it. It was at this time that the bouncer came up to me and told me that my "gf" was too drunk and had to leave. So we leave and take a cab to her place. The entire ride she's sleeping with her head in my lap, which concerned me a bit because of my hard on but she didn't seem to mind, she just ran her hand up and down my inner thigh.

So after 20 mins and $100 later (40 fare plus an extra 50 since she threw up in the cab) we're at her place. She opens up the garage door, we walk to the door to the house and she tells me that her parents are too strict and I couldn't stay, and she closes the door on my face.

I was pretty pissed then, wrote her a couple of texts saying that she owes me a **** load of money, and that next time I'll just let those random guys take advantage of her (this was a dumb thing to say).

Anyway here's the problem, I've known this girl for a long time and the entire time I didn't have any feelings for her beyond friendship. Well, I think at some point that changed, I'm not sure but I think I may have feelings for her. She has a bf though and seems happy, so I don't know if I should messed with it or just leave it alone. If I leave it alone I won't get a chance to be with her though, I think she sees him as a LTR (probably has something to do with a bunch of her friends getting married), when I said that she's probably be single again someday she just said maybe not (she's probably settling for him since they've only been dating since Nov).

Just wanted to vent, if you guys have anything to share please do.

 

[Maxtro]

Dude I'm a pro at saying the wrong shit at the wrong time and you did just that.

It sounds like she was ready to fuck you but because her parents were there she didn't feel comfortable. How come you didn't take her to your place? Also since she was throwing up I don't think she really put much thought into her words and actions.

I was pretty pissed then, wrote her a couple of texts saying that she owes me a **** load of money, and that next time I'll just let those random guys take advantage of her (this was a dumb thing to say).

Yup, that was an extremely stupid thing do say. You should have been a man and just paid the bill and not complained about it. Then maybe later on next time you saw her, if she brings up that night you can mention what happened. Good luck making something with her happen now.

 

[scottfall]

This girl is a slut. It dosent matter how you treat her, shes a slut, theyre EVERYWHERE. Shes not worth $100 or anything more than a drink to get into her pants.

 

[Kal0051]

Dude I'm a pro at saying the wrong shit at the wrong time and you did just that.

It sounds like she was ready to fuck you but because her parents were there she didn't feel comfortable. How come you didn't take her to your place? Also since she was throwing up I don't think she really put much thought into her words and actions.


Yup, that was an extremely stupid thing do say. You should have been a man and just paid the bill and not complained about it. Then maybe later on next time you saw her, if she brings up that night you can mention what happened. Good luck making something with her happen now.

I really should have brought her back to my place but figured she'd better go home. And I can't exactly just pay the bill, I'm broke right now, she knows it, so I don't have the money to waste on some girl like that. If she let me stay the night I would have split the bill with her (only fair) but since she basically stranded me in the suburbs I want her to pay the whole bill (ended up having to walk an hour to the nearest bus station and had to wait another 1.5 hours til the bus service started).

 

[Kal0051]

This girl is a slut. It dosent matter how you treat her, shes a slut, theyre EVERYWHERE. Shes not worth $100 or anything more than a drink to get into her pants.

she's not a slut. I've known her for a long time and other than this one shady relationship (which she only told me about 2.5 years after the fact) she's more or less a regular girl. Other than her girl friends I was the only person she danced with at the club.

 

[Maxtro]

I really should have brought her back to my place but figured she'd better go home. And I can't exactly just pay the bill, I'm broke right now, she knows it, so I don't have the money to waste on some girl like that. If she let me stay the night I would have split the bill with her (only fair) but since she basically stranded me in the suburbs I want her to pay the whole bill (ended up having to walk an hour to the nearest bus station and had to wait another 1.5 hours til the bus service started).

What?! dude you must have been really drunk because you obviously weren't thinking. Maybe it's just based on my experiences but I would never plan to stay the night at a girls house. I'm sorry to say but you didn't have a plan B and you got screwed.

Mistakes happen and it's hard not to look back and think, "OMG I wish I did xyz." All you can do is learn from what you did wrong and try your hardest not to do it again.

For now I'd text or call her and ask how she's doing. Something llike.

"Damn last night was crazy? You still alive or do I have to revive you?

If she's still cool with you, try to get her share of money from her at a latter date.

 

[Kal0051]

What?! dude you must have been really drunk because you obviously weren't thinking. Maybe it's just based on my experiences but I would never plan to stay the night at a girls house. I'm sorry to say but you didn't have a plan B and you got screwed.

Mistakes happen and it's hard not to look back and think, "OMG I wish I did xyz." All you can do is learn from what you did wrong and try your hardest not to do it again.

For now I'd text or call her and ask how she's doing. Something llike.

"Damn last night was crazy? You still alive or do I have to revive you?

lol, yeah I was pretty drunk. But like I said I didn't want to just abandon her at the club. It does suck what happened at her house but there's not much I can do now (what's done is done). Ya, I'm gonna try to get her share of the money at a later date, well her share is 1/2 of the basic fare plus all of the $50 charge for her throwing up (that's fair right?).

 

[scottfall]

she's not a slut. I've known her for a long time and other than this one shady relationship (which she only told me about 2.5 years after the fact) she's more or less a regular girl. Other than her girl friends I was the only person she danced with at the club.

Some of the stuff you posted screamed slut to me...

She ended up getting really drunk and a few guys were trying to take advantage of her.

Anyway I just started dancing with her; she was grinding up against my **** and I'm pretty sure she grabbed it a few times (so by this point I had the craziest hard on and would have fvcked her then and there). So I just put my thigh between her legs and she started grinding her pvssy against it. It was at this time that the bouncer came up to me and told me that my "gf" was too drunk and had to leave.

The entire ride she's sleeping with her head in my lap, which concerned me a bit because of my hard on but she didn't seem to mind, she just ran her hand up and down my inner thigh.

She has a bf though and seems happy.

I mean, its cool that she got dirty with you on the dance floor but I think she would have gotten dirty with a broomstick. Really sucks that you got yourself into a situation where you had no way home but I bet it never happens again

 

[Maxtro]

Ah hah! I realized what happened. You had HER best interests in mind and not yours. You didn't give a shit what happened to you. You wanted to make sure that she was safe. What you did was noble, but it didn't get you play.

If a similar situation happens again, be a little more selfish.

Yeah trying to get the $50 from her when you two are cool is fine.

 

[Kal0051]

Ah hah! I realized what happened. You had HER best interests in mind and not yours. You didn't give a shit what happened to you. You wanted to make sure that she was safe. What you did was noble, but it didn't get you play.

If a similar situation happens again, be a little more selfish.

Yeah trying to get the $50 from her when you to are cool is fine.

well, she does have a bf so I doubt I would get any play, so doing the noble thing was probably the best thing to do. Just didn't expect her to not let me stay.

 

[ZhaoYun]

With the **** she was doing with grinding on your **** and all I doubt she gives a damn about a boyfriend.

In fact, many girls simply have a bf to give them some kind of status and an outlet in case they don't find something else to jump on any given night.

You could have easily ****ed this girl if you wanted. Now that you ****ed up don't be surprised if you don't get this opportunity with her again. You thought you two were just "friends" before, look out for what she really thinks about you now.

 

[kal_0051]

With the **** she was doing with grinding on your **** and all I doubt she gives a damn about a boyfriend.

In fact, many girls simply have a bf to give them some kind of status and an outlet in case they don't find something else to jump on any given night.

You could have easily ****ed this girl if you wanted. Now that you ****ed up don't be surprised if you don't get this opportunity with her again. You thought you two were just "friends" before, look out for what she really thinks about you now.

damn 10 post maximum

anyway, while I know she likes her bf well enough your probably right about the reason she has a bf, he was probably just something fun to pass the time (at the time I was busy with another girl). I don't know what she thinks of me now, she did call me when she woke up but she still sounded drunk so I told her to call me when she recovers (plus I couldn't understand a thing she was saying). We were just friends before (though we always acted flirty with each other), she even told one of her friends that we were just friends last night when there was the assumption that I was taking her home (this was when we were changing venues).