what a joke

[joekerr31]

and people wonder why women have their heads up their *sses.

it's not like the media is encouraging them...


http://www.philly.com/mld/inquirer/13294176.htm

J

 

[Evan_M]

Since I've gotten back into the dating scene (I'm 31) I realize how much easier it was ten years ago.

Women in their 20's can be a lot of fun but they talk and think exactly like those in that article. Part of the problem is that there is no sense of commitment. Once they get past their first loves, get a real job and have disposable incomes men become more like a pair of shoes for them to try on, buy, wear for a season and then discard. On the same token these same women hate being alone. They always want a man somewhere in their life. This is when it gets ugly as like shoes women start accumulating partners. You don't really want to know how many men the typical 20-40 year old female has slept with. I would go on to argue that the modern 20 something female doesn't become trully commited until child birth when she has a real responsibilty. Unfortunately knuckle heads like Dr. Phil are now saying one parent 'familes' (an oxymoron if I've heard one) are perfectably suitable and in many ways better than the tried and true nuclear family model.

That's why I kind of envy my parents and those who met in college, dated a couple of years and then got married. They were able to enjoy life together without all of the superficial games which in the end lead to lonelyness and regret.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by joekerr31
and people wonder why women have their heads up their *sses.
it's not like the media is encouraging them...

The actualy reason is the jobs that women can get anywhere in the US. Jobs mean money, and a woman with money will treat men like somepairs of shoes: today this one, tomorrow that one...

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Evan_M
Since I've gotten back into the dating scene (I'm 31) I realize how much easier it was ten years ago.

Women in their 20's can be a lot of fun but they talk and think exactly like those in that article. Part of the problem is that there is no sense of commitment. Once they get past their first loves, get a real job and have disposable incomes men become more like a pair of shoes for them to try on, buy, wear for a season and then discard. On the same token these same women hate being alone. They always want a man somewhere in their life. This is when it gets ugly as like shoes women start accumulating partners. You don't really want to know how many men the typical 20-40 year old female has slept with. I would go on to argue that the modern 20 something female doesn't become trully commited until child birth when she has a real responsibilty. Unfortunately knuckle heads like Dr. Phil are now saying one parent 'familes' (an oxymoron if I've heard one) are perfectably suitable and in many ways better than the tried and true nuclear family model.

That's why I kind of envy my parents and those who met in college, dated a couple of years and then got married. They were able to enjoy life together without all of the superficial games which in the end lead to lonelyness and regret.

In some cases a single parent family is a better option than the parents living together. My situation fits the bill there. My ex husband was a terrible husband and is a terrible father. The only thing he's ever taught our kids is how NOT to be. I've raised my sons to be masculine and resist the negative messages sent to them. I've defending them against sexism in school and they don't worship girls. Girls chase them, though.

Bottom line...if having both parents together makes for a volatile, abusive or negative environment it's far better for one parent to raise the kids and the other to be as big a part of that process as is possible and beneficial to the children.

 

[ElChoclo]

Interview their boyfriends

One of them says that men are trying to evolve into Deepak Chopra types. In his book "Timeless Mind, Ageless Body" Deepak claims that there just isn't any scientific explanation for aging and that it must all be in the mind. Personally I think Deepak had women in mind when he comments in the book, that for some people, the most meaningful thing which they can do, is to die.

I can however see how we might try the Deepak approach. "No, you haven't gotten fatter over the years, there aren't any wrinkles. It's all in your mind, there there."

The author of the article excels with his conclusion that despite all their faults, women still want men. As Cool Hand Luke said, " Boss, I sure wish you'd stop being so good to me."

I think that they really should have interviewed the boyfriends of the buzzards quoted in the article. I suppose the theme for the article is, after 30 years of feminism, men are now the women, we are all equal, and all is well. The idea of what is going to be around in another 30 years won't be quite as rosy. Men like me who are raising their sons are giving them the unvarnished facts. My 13 year old son tells me he is not getting married, he just wants to be economically successful and have a hobby farm.

Feminism is like mesothelioma. Things seem OK for 30 years but then you are stuffed.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Once they get past their first loves, get a real job and have disposable incomes men become more like a pair of shoes for them to try on, buy, wear for a season and then discard. On the same token these same women hate being alone. They always want a man somewhere in their life. This is when it gets ugly as like shoes women start accumulating partners. You don't really want to know how many men the typical 20-40 year old female has slept with.

This is my ex-wife's life story. She is crushing the hearts of short Indian men everywhere.

 

[Evan_M]

My ex husband was a terrible husband and is a terrible father.

Why did you marry him then? Didn't he show these signs before hand? In my experiences, people don't change. You were either blinded by love or else.

As far as abusive relationships go, well from watching shows like Jerry Springer I get the impression that women get emotional satisfaction from them. Not all are like that but I assume the ones that are seek it out. It's debatable which type of relationship a woman is more likely to get a divorce from: an abusive one or the boring marriage to a nice guy. I've known more divorces that happen to nice guys than abusive ones.

 

[Evan_M]

Re: Interview their boyfriends

My 13 year old son tells me he is not getting married, he just wants to be economically successful and have a hobby farm.
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He's only 13 for sakes. Marriage is something that should come naturally for two people when they feel it's right.

 

[Jamo]

hehe

*deleted* Negativity does not help...

 

[KarmaSutra]

I have an eleven year old who was having an issue with a boy at school. I pick her up from school one afternoon and she looks at me with her big browns and says " Papa, this boy won't stop pushing me and calling me names." I explained to her about attraction and what he was doing in his own way was telling her how much he liked her. She is an articulate and slightly arrogant young girl and very bright ( Thanks to my influence!) I further let her know that she would just have to tell the boy that she was interested in her grades and not in him.

Couple days go by and she comes home with a shiner on her knee from this kid pushing her to the ground. I told her she is to first psychologically traumatize him and then kick him in his daddy button.

What I suggested she say to him was that no matter how he felt about her and girls in general he would always suffer from having a tiny willie. Then she proceeded to kick him square in his sac.


Now he's fvcked in the head and his d1ck.

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
In some cases a single parent family is a better option than the parents living together. My situation fits the bill there. My ex husband was a terrible husband and is a terrible father. The only thing he's ever taught our kids is how NOT to be. I've raised my sons to be masculine and resist the negative messages sent to them. I've defending them against sexism in school and they don't worship girls. Girls chase them, though.

Bottom line...if having both parents together makes for a volatile, abusive or negative environment it's far better for one parent to raise the kids and the other to be as big a part of that process as is possible and beneficial to the children.

kids need a father, wether blood or step.

 

[MightyMate]

**** it.

 

[bobbob]

Originally posted by KarmaSutra
I have an eleven year old who was having an issue with a boy at school. I pick her up from school one afternoon and she looks at me with her big browns and says " Papa, this boy won't stop pushing me and calling me names." I explained to her about attraction and what he was doing in his own way was telling her how much he liked her. She is an articulate and slightly arrogant young girl and very bright ( Thanks to my influence!) I further let her know that she would just have to tell the boy that she was interested in her grades and not in him.

Couple days go by and she comes home with a shiner on her knee from this kid pushing her to the ground. I told her she is to first psychologically traumatize him and then kick him in his daddy button.

What I suggested she say to him was that no matter how he felt about her and girls in general he would always suffer from having a tiny willie. Then she proceeded to kick him square in his sac.


Now he's fvcked in the head and his d1ck.

Oh god, I feared the worst, you went and had kids. Yeah your daughter won't turned out screwed up with a father like you ...

poor girl. I hope she makes a lot of money, she'll need it for therapy.

 

[bobbob]

By the way, absolutely nothing in the article showed women as "having their heads up their asses" as the original poster put it.

Either you guys read a different article than me, or you have some serious insecurity issues going on ...

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by bobbob
Oh god, I feared the worst, you went and had kids. Yeah your daughter won't turned out screwed up with a father like you ...

poor girl. I hope she makes a lot of money, she'll need it for therapy.

So you've gone from overusing commas to overusing elipsis marks.

Like I said you jacka$$, Everyone here knows you're a beligerent fool who jockeys a keyboard.

Get a book on grammar and then some Proactive to clean your fvckin' pimples and leave the thinking and rhetoric to grown ups.

You obviously have no sense of the DJ paradigm ( you'll have to look that word up 'cuz I'm positive you don't know what it means ) and I won't vilify my daughter to the likes of a dullard such as you. Suffice it to say it was a girl who kicked you in your little c0ck tht's why you're so benign.

Die of cancer, fvckface.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Evan_M
Why did you marry him then? Didn't he show these signs before hand? In my experiences, people don't change. You were either blinded by love or else.

As far as abusive relationships go, well from watching shows like Jerry Springer I get the impression that women get emotional satisfaction from them. Not all are like that but I assume the ones that are seek it out. It's debatable which type of relationship a woman is more likely to get a divorce from: an abusive one or the boring marriage to a nice guy. I've known more divorces that happen to nice guys than abusive ones.

I married him because I was 18, naive, inexperienced and stupid but thought I knew it all, just like the vast majority of the young guys on here. I take responsibility for the part I played in my own suffering. I left him a long time ago once I got a bit wiser and have never been with anyone who treated me badly since.

 

[bobbob]

Originally posted by KarmaSutra
So you've gone from overusing commas to overusing elipsis marks.

Like I said you jacka$$, Everyone here knows you're a beligerent fool who jockeys a keyboard.

Get a book on grammar and then some Proactive to clean your fvckin' pimples and leave the thinking and rhetoric to grown ups.

You obviously have no sense of the DJ paradigm ( you'll have to look that word up 'cuz I'm positive you don't know what it means ) and I won't vilify my daughter to the likes of a dullard such as you. Suffice it to say it was a girl who kicked you in your little c0ck tht's why you're so benign.

Die of cancer, fvckface.

I'm working on my DJ skills so that when your daughter gets a little older, I can bang the crap out of her.

Lakeland is close to Orlando right? good times ...

 

[speedo_meme]

Guys can be as much to blame for letting this sort of belief happen. I personally have made up my mind to think with my head and not my c*ck from now on. When man can master the power of the p*ssy, he can rule the world (and pretty much get all the p*ssy he could ever want).

I don't need women and you guys don't either, but the women in that article certainly think we do. We have to combat that by being more of a man than we did 20 years ago. H*ll, if the girls keep turning into sl*ts in their 20's, good for us...we can just screw em and leave em without any nervewracking drama.

I am lucky to have a woman that compliments my life, but by no means makes it...

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by bobbob
I'm working on my DJ skills so that when your daughter gets a little older, I can bang the crap out of her.

Lakeland is close to Orlando right? good times ...

30 miles away. Whenever you feel froggy fvckhead, go ahead and jump. I'm right here.

Nice to know on top of being a a complete a$$bag you're a pedophile too. You definitley need some help b1tchboy.

Too bad no woman would give you a chance to have a kid you loser.

As I said before, everyone here knows you're an idiot anyway.

Say goodbye coolness

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by bobbob
I'm working on my DJ skills so that when your daughter gets a little older, I can bang the crap out of her.

The last mistake you'll ever make is talking about my daughter.


Take this as a promise. IT'S THE LAST ONE.

You want to feel like a big boy? I'll tell you when and where and we'll handle our business.