What a great profile </sarcasm>

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...ALL THAT AND SHE STILL THINKS SHE DESERVES A GOOD MAN. Unbelievable.

It's like when a woman proclaims that she wants a "REAL man." I have come to understand that in "chick-cheep" (my new term for 'woman3s3') that means that they want a guy who will overlook her mistakes, even the really big ones and accept her and any related drama. I see tons of self proclaimed "nice guys" take on situations like this in order to prove that they are "real men." Yep, unbelievable.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

DEAR LORD. SHE'S DIVORCED YET JUST HAS A MISSCARRIAGE? She sounds like a Maury Povich guest.

"Ok so I actually only have one living child. She just turnd one on October 3rd. I just recently had a miscarraige and I well am not completly over it yet. My daughter is my life. I wouldnt take anything for her. Her daddy gets her every other weekend and sometimes maybe more if I ask. If you don't like kids then you wont like me. I dont care how much I have in common with a man or how good a relationship is, when it comes down to it my daughter is my number one. I will never chose any man over her so don't even go there. Shes a good girl. I done good raising her by myself for the first year. (Her dad is just know coming into her life good). She will put a smile on your face and her loves her mommy."

ALL THAT AND SHE STILL THINKS SHE DESERVES A GOOD MAN. Unbelievable.

"Ok so I actually only have one living child. TRYING TO ELICIT GUILT

I just recently had a miscarraige and I well am not completly over it yet. My daughter is my life RATIONALISING HER OWN SHAME

Her daddy gets her every other weekend and sometimes maybe more if I ask.HE'S THE BAD GUY, SHE'S THE VICTIM

If you don't like kids then you wont like me. I dont care how much I have in common with a man or how good a relationship is, when it comes down to it my daughter is my number one.I'M NOT WILLING OR ABLE TO BRING ANYTHING TO THE RELATIONSHIP, SO F**K YOU

I will never chose any man over her so don't even go there.I THINK ALL MEN ARE A**HOLES

I done good raising her by myself for the first year. (Her dad is just know coming into her life good). She will put a smile on your face and her loves her mommy.I'M AN UNEDUCATED K*NT

 

[ketostix]

Was Climax's first post deleted? lol

I think the mods had the good sense to delete all her rants and her DJ hate speech . Also I think Climax=Wyldfire, or at least some mutant copy of her.

 

[wayword]

Let me get this straight. You are a single mommy, and you were pregnant with another. Your profile has the word "mom" in it, and your pic has your toddler included.

This culture has become so pathetic that now women are bragging about being single moms. And men are desperate enough to fight to cuckold for them!

"I felt like, 'Hey you know what, we are still young and we feel we are attractive.' We are not these dowdy moms staying at home," Tan says. "We are hot."

"I get men e-mailing me every day wanting to join because they think it's a porn site," Tan laughs

And krreeeeeeiiistt, is Wyldfire back yet AGAIN???

 

[Last Man Standing]

Maybe she doesn’t have anyone to "lean on" etc, and this probably lead her to self pity, and even desperation to an extent.. She’s an emotional wreck at the moments due to her past mistakes and now she is just projecting her emotions. None of you have been in her situation and/or have gone through what she has, so in my opinion you have no right to pass judgment on her. It’s obvious that she did not make all the right decisions in the past, it’s obvious that she might not have all the "life tools" to deal with problems/consequences of her actions... so if you really wanted to contribute then why not message her and try give her some constructive criticism, as appose to pointing out all the faults in her.

Why are you defending wrong - only a criminal will defend a criminal's actions!! This is why our country is soooo fvcked - the wicked have banded together to shyt on the good!! Do you have a sense of what is right or wrong? I don't think so - you are a very dangerous person - check into the psychiatric ward today!!

 

[iqqi]

Whoever deleted Climax's first post... that was WRONG. I am shocked, truly shocked.

I can kind of understand the back and forth between Jophil and Climax from early this morning being deleted as it didn't really have anything to do with the topic, even though there wasn't really any awful flaming... so still questionable... but his first response was a simple disagreeing view point from the original post.

I am amazed.

 

[wjh]

I am amazed.

Get over it. I would bet the mods know a thing or two we don't.

I'm tired of iqqi's point of view. She brings nothing to the table other than rationalization and justification for typical female behavior.

Whether or not typical female behavior is right or wrong isn't the point.

Men must come to realize that they cannot base their entire lives around a woman or women. Most of the information in the MM forum is based around one premise that REAL MEN do NOT pander to a woman's desires simply because that is what SHE has stated or requested. If there is no rhyme or reason for it, do NOT do it unless it is necessary. Why? BECAUSE IF YOU DO YOU WILL GET BURNED OR USED.

Obviously, some people will call that being selfish, cold-hearted, etc. But I call it sensible. I call it reasonable. Just as no decent woman would give away her power for nothing (her sexuality) - no man should give away his power for nothing (his passion, his soul, his virtues, his resources).

I'm absolutely tired of women and trans-gendered men (climax) on SS rationalizing the IRRESPONSIBLE behavior of women. There's no excuse! If a MAN does not want a woman who has DEVALUED herself, why is he a BITTER and UNREASONABLE person for this? Then, to make matters even more ridiculous, they are SCORNED and SHAMED by "the Matrix" for simply RESPECTING THEMSELVES! It is RELENTLESS!

Ok I'm done with my rant.

 

[jophil28]

It's like when a woman proclaims that she wants a "REAL man." I have come to understand that in "chick-cheep" (my new term for 'woman3s3') that means that they want a guy who will overlook her mistakes, even the really big ones and accept her and any related drama. I see tons of self proclaimed "nice guys" take on situations like this in order to prove that they are "real men." Yep, unbelievable.

THis is GOOD, F' dA - I have struck this too in some women..

Their rationale seems to go something like this -
" I want a REAL man and he will be strong and self contained and have such self control to such an extent that he will not speak up when I do anything out of line. He will suck it up and "handle" it all like a REAL man SHOULD, and that means IN SILENCE. I want to do and say whatever I want and act in whatever way I want and my REAL man will not utter a sound because he is a strong REAL man who does not whine and complain.
If he ever does protest about my behavior, even if it is real bad, I will try to shame him back into his shell by telling him that he is NOT a REAL man for complaining .
However because I am a woman I am entitled to be "never wrong" and , anyways , whatever I do will always be because someone else MADE me do it. Therefor, if my man complains about me, his complaint will be unfair and not justified . He will be just nitpicking and REAL men do not do that.

Secondly a REAL man should devote his life to making a woman happy. He should give up the needs of his own life and take on MY wants and needs to be his own. He is here to serve ME. He is in MY life to make all the problems go away and give me a magic carpet ride. I am a woman and I am entitled to a life of comfort and luxury. A REAL man would provide that - and in silence. Any man who will not do that is a selfish JERK and a creep and not a REAL man.
REAL men devote themselves to women without asking or expecting or wanting anything in return . Having a women in his life is his reward and occasionally he will be paid with sex because that is all men really want deep down..

 

[wjh]

THis is GOOD, F' dA - I have struck this too in some women..

Their rationale seems to go something like this -
" I want a REAL man and he will be strong and self contained and have such self control to such an extent that he will not speak up when I do anything out of line. He will "handle" it all like a REAL man SHOULD, and that means IN SILENCE. I want to do and say whatever I want and act in whatever way I want and my REAL man will not utter a sound because he is a strong REAL man who does not whine and complain.
If he ever does protest about my behavior even, if it is real bad, I will try to shame him back into his shell by telling him that he is NOT a REAL man for complaining .
However because I am a woman I am entitled to be "never wrong" and , anyways , whatever I do will always be because someone else MADE me do it. Therefor, if my man complains about me, his complaint will be unfair and not justified . He will be just nitpicking and REAL men do not do that.

Secondly a REAL man should devote his life to making a woman happy. He should give up the needs of his own life and take on MY wants and needs to be his own. He is here to serve ME. He is in MY life to make all the problems go away and give me a magic carpet ride. I am a woman and I am entitled to a life of comfort and luxury. A REAL man would provide that - and in silence. Any man who will not do that is a selfish JERK and a creep and not a REAL man.
REAL men devote themselves to women without asking or expecting or wanting anything in return . Having a women in his life is his reward and occasionally he will be paid with sex because that is all men really want deep down..

You nailed the typical American woman perfectly. Anything else is just a deviation from this norm. Props.

 

[jophil28]

Whoever deleted Climax's first post... that was WRONG. I am shocked, truly shocked.

How dramatic IQQI "..truly shocked."

Go on over to LoseShack, they embrace guys like Climax over there and bar guys like me. You should be welcome there too -

 

[jophil28]

You nailed the typical American woman perfectly. Anything else is just a deviation from this norm. Props.

WE got 'em just like that down here too. So if you are thinking about relocating 'down under' for a better deal ,don't go to all that trouble. There is no better deal down here . Come on down for a vacation instead.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You nailed the typical American woman perfectly. Anything else is just a deviation from this norm. Props.

Yep, women who feel entitled not only having someone else fulfill their dreams but to also live through their nightmares. :nervous:

 

[iqqi]

How dramatic IQQI "..truly shocked."

Go on over to LoseShack, they embrace guys like Climax over there and bar guys like me. You should be welcome there too -

Lol, interesting, really, seeing as one of the number one complaints I have seen from you guys about that forum is the deleting of posts that contained a different viewpoint. Don't be a hypocrite.

One of the main reasons sosuave is such a respected forum is the fact that it allows everyone to express their viewpoints. Other forums get bashed because if someone (say a sosuave member) expresses a certain view that goes against their "eharmony disney" way of thinking, it is usually deleted. Even if it was well written.

Climax's post was well written, and obviously going against the common concensus on this board lately. However if you think that he is the only one who is alarmed at the negativity on this board these days, you are mistaken. Most people just aren't posting their views. (And to call you guys out right now: stop being pvssys! if you disagree, just one of two lines will suffice... i still love you guys). Probaly because when someone does, they are being flamed, or "degendered". Yeah... I must be a man, lol, and Climax MUST be a woman. REAL creative.

The fact is, there is a little search button at the top of this forum, and both Climax and I have much longer histories than most of you here. It is pretty obvious that we aren't trolls or "transgendered", or whatever creative insults and labels you decide to come up with to dismiss our differing viewpoints.

And sosuave takes a huge step away from the respect that comes from being a more free speech appreciating forum, when it deletes posts for no good reason. In the years I have been a member here, I have seen some pretty bad flaming, and his original post (and even the subsequent more personal back and forth between him and Jophil) comes nowhere NEAR that sh!t. His first post on this thread was just a differing view point, and yes, I am SHOCKED and even alarmed that it was deleted, on a forum where I have seen a gamut of differing viewpoints come and go, but always respected. His post was nowhere near even controversial.

I'd really appreciate it if one of the mods could tell me why (here or PM) why his first post was deleted.

 

[Maxtro]

Yeah I have to agree that it is wrong to have posts deleted unless they were completely useless, nothing but smiles or profanity stuff like that. But something that goes against the majority view point should not be removed. Censorship without a valid reason is just not right.

 

[iqqi]

It is a good thing a few of us quoted him in our replies, so everything he said is pretty much still there for the viewing.

You can look on the first page at those of us who quoted him and SEE for yourselves (if you are new to this thread), that what he said was NOT profane or even controversial at all. It was more "anti-negativity and anti-judgemental", more than anything else.

 

[Last Man Standing]

I believe all posts should be kept unless it is flame-baiting - this was starting to turn into a flame war but never got to that point but at least it shows passion for a person's position. Actually climax's post should be brought back because it only weakens his position and shows us his warped mind /stance regarding this issue of "I just had a miscarriage and now looking for a good man" wacko profile! How someone could defend her profile is alarming and tells us that we are near the end - this cultural/social pollution won't last much longer - maybe a grand war would put things back in perspective and bring back the natural male/female order!!

 

[iqqi]

How someone could defend her profile is alarming

Hey LMS, I kind of didn't think he was so much defending the chick, as he was disagreeing with the men who were using her as something to point at and spew insults and judgements against.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Hey LMS, I kind of didn't think he was so much defending the chick, as he was disagreeing with the men who were using her as something to point at and spew insults and judgements against.

A miscarriage is a very serious thing and VERY PRIVATE!!! It is not for public consumption - let alone for a personal profile to attract men.For her to do this shows us that something is so fundamentally wrong that it is alarming - judgments and insults are proper if relevant, as in this case!

How else can we show our alarm and disgust without severe chastisement? It is because we no longer judge ill behavior as ill that has us in such a societal mess - so much so that bad behavior is ok now, and not only ok but it should now be respected!!! HUH??

 

[iqqi]

I agree with you, LMS. Posting about a miscarriage is pretty alarming, and I already said that.

Too bad nobody here can find a profile of a decent woman to take apart and analyze.

I agree with Climax that this whole post is just not constructive, and is not going to provide insight to women at large. There are many degenerates in society, male and female.

 

[ketostix]

Too bad nobody here can find a profile of a decent woman to take apart and analyze.

Yeah, it's too bad there's not many women with decent profiles. But it would be pointless to analyze her profile if it seemed decent anyway. How common is to see a girl's page say something to the effect, "I'm not looking to date, hook up, have sex blah blah blah." Decent female right? NO. Come to find out these girl's turn out to be bigger slvts than average. Awoman's words are about useless and words she puts on a profile are even more worthless and unreliable.