devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
The way I see it is that if she has sex with you in like a month, she's just putting a label on being a normal girl.Don't know where you got that, it's a false assumption.
Demisexual doesn't mean no (or less) sexual attraction, desire or enjoyment, it means her sexual attraction is based on feeling emotionally connected versus looks, status, job, car etc.
She could very well have an extremely high sex drive but again she must MUST feel that emotional connection above all else, the physical doesn't mean much to her.
I actually used to think I might be demi, but as I became more self-aware, I realized physical attraction is equally as important, I need the right balance of BOTH for my sexual desire to heat up and become alive and when I find that balance, boy does it ever! Lol
If it's based entirely upon her feelings, that sounds like a setup for hot rich guys (or any other totally arbitrary preference that boils down to interest level) conveniently forming a deep connection immediately and regular guys being hung out to dry.
So if a girl is actually demisexual in my opinion, it means she needs a deeper connection than the average girl to want to have sex, Which means dating for months before you get sex. Which sounds like a pretty low sex drive (or worrisome pair bonding abilities)
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