"We've been together for one year"

[Krassus]

Recently, i've been trying to design and refine an all-new type of approach. It involves an extremely validating opener that translates into mid-game with deep rapport building and a lot of 'qualifying from a position of power,' given to you by her desire to live up to your high initial opinion of her. I decided to test is on a 9.5, and not surprisingly, my delivery sucked because i was using all-new material for both the opener and mid-game. She brought the boyfriend up after only a few minutes. "We've been together for one year." But a funny thing happened when she said that. Instead of thinking "damn, now i can't have her," i thought "one year! whew, that coulda been me!" McMaax mentioned to me earlier today that seduction is very addictive. He's right, it's become a hobby, and the thought of spending an entire year with a one girl is a little scary all of a sudden. For an entire year, imagine not being to approach another girl. Imagine not being able to make another dirty sexual joke. Imagine not being able to get a single phone number. Imagine not being able to **** a single other girl. Imagine having a proverbial leash tied around your neck, limiting you from doing what you really want... for an entire year! With these realizations, i am now moving away from seeing girls as potential girlfriends. Instead, i'm starting to see them as sources of fun and excitement, or rather people i can share with the excitement that is already in my life. Hopefully, this insight can provide some guidance to those who still see girls the way i used to. Remember, when it comes to dating, what you seek will always elude you. Guys who really want girlfriends can never find one! Guys who are terrified of having girlfriends have girls chasing them!

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Have you been with a girl for a year? If not, then how do you know that it isn't amazing?

 

[Miles Davis]

So true, Krassus.

Running your game on women requires that you have that mindset to seduce. Whether it's intense or light matters not, just that it's there. A guy who is so focused on having a girlfriend cannot effectively seduce, his mind is just not set in the correct place for that to happen.

I enjoy reading your tips.

 

[Trumpetman]

I've seem to notice this too. You get one girl to be your g/f and then you can't do anything with all the other girls. For a whole year, that would just seem to get boring for me idk.

Brandon

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
Have you been with a girl for a year? If not, then how do you know that it isn't amazing?

Never said it wouldn't be amazing. There are huge benefits, BUT there are also huge disadvantages. Unfortunately, most men only see the benefits, and their perception of this matter is distorted.

 

[SuSHI]

I would rather spend a year with one amazing girl than with countless pointless relationships

 

[thecraftylefty]

Originally posted by Krassus
Imagine having a proverbial leash tied around your neck, limiting you from doing what you really want... for an entire year! With these realizations, i am now moving away from seeing girls as potential girlfriends. Instead, i'm starting to see them as sources of fun and excitement, or rather people i can share with the excitement that is already in my life.

That is what it is all about. Because when you're out carousing with and meeting new, different, and exciting people constantly, not only do you learn about these cool people, but you learn about yourself. You learn what you would eventually like and expect out of a LTR later on down the road, if that's what you really want (which most of us do, however far down the road it happens to eventually occur). And those kinds of experiences are priceless.

You'll kick yourself in the ass later on when you're 30 or 40 because you decided to stay with your high school sweetheart instead of awakening the person you could have been simply because you were blinded by what you thought you wanted, without knowing and experiencing the variety of fine men and women around the world that life offers.


thecraftylefty

 

[aBAzLLnA]

You'll kick yourself in the ass later on when you're 30 or 40

Not unless you're with who you want to be with.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by SuSHI
I would rather spend a year with one amazing girl than with countless pointless relationships

I'd rather spend the year with a few amazing girls