if you guys read, she didnt leave him. she just said we're through while she was drunk. then she calls and begs for him back.
i think you handled it nicely though. i would want my girl with me to make me feel better, givin me massages and wat not,lol. but if she cares more about having fun with her friends than you, then i dont think it is a true relationship.
i dont feel u were being all that clingy. like someone said, if my girl was feeling bad, than i wouldnt just leave her and continue goofing off with my friends. that's something a friend would do, not a gf or bf.