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Went on a date

FlirtLife

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Yesterday, I went on a date... or more like a meet and greet. I met the woman on Hinge, text chats were good, then I organized a meet.

Went to a wine bar, and talked for about an hour and a half. Conversation was great, no awkward silences. I thought it went well.
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Any advice?
I guess you missed the first part of my earlier post:
I think people need more detail than "Conversation was great" to analyze your date.
 

FlirtLife

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What specifically would you like to know? It was just your usual 'get to know you' conversation.
I don't know what happened, and you don't seem willing to describe what happened. If "Went on a date" is important, why are the details not important? At any rate, provide details on your own or don't, as I'm done asking.
 

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When she says there was no spark, here's what that can mean:

-Lacking chemistry.
-No emotional feelings.
-He didn't get her to open up.
-He didn't listen well enough.
-He didn't ask about her and what makes her tick.
-Too much boring, surface talk.
-He comes across as too safe.
-Lack of physical attraction.
-Lack of mental attraction.
-He lacked charisma.
-He lacked confidence.
-No edge on him.
-He lacks style.
-He didn't lead enough.
-He Lacked sincerity.
-He was afraid to show her who he is under the surface.
-You didn't create the environment that generates feels/tingles/butterflies.

Mmmhhh... You are probably right. If I went on a 1st date and the girl told me afterwards that there was no spark, I would have just assumed that´s girl speak for "You dont give me Vaginal Tingles".
 
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