Went on a blind coffee date - I'm convince most millenials will be alone in old age

[SW15]

How low is this guys value isf a 36yr old hag nexted him lol

37-42 year old men get nexted by 36 year old hags all the time.

 

[Solomon]

You sound butthurt. At least your Aunt tried. It is a numbers game so she needs to do that again.

LOL this chick wasn't feeling OP at all so he makes a Kevin-Samuels-incel type thread to cope and try to shame her for her age
Sorry OP but this chick was able to meet you with little effort and she will be able to meet another guy again

She won't be alone you're just copemaxxing hard

 

[BackInTheGame78]

LOL this chick wasn't feeling OP at all so he makes a Kevin-Samuels-incel type thread to cope and try to shame her for her age
Sorry OP but this chick was able to meet you with little effort and she will be able to meet another guy again

She won't be alone you're just copemaxxing hard

And complains he had no idea what she looked like but could easily have had her text a pic, as if he has no other choice but to meet her without being able to do this.

This thread makes no sense

 

[Suave88]

So this weekend my aunt sent over my pic to this "young" lady that's a patient of my uncle (uncle is a doctor with his own private practice).

She did this without even notifying me first. Then out of nowhere she texts me and says that this "young" lady thinks I'm handsome and would be interested in meeting me. My aunt gave me her number.

I texted her and asked if she would like to meet for a quick 15 minute coffee introduction. She did, and we meet up.

This "young" lady has my pic, she knows exactly what I look like. But I went into this totally blind, I had no idea what she looked like, no idea what her socio-economic status is, no idea about her living situation.

The meet lasted about 20 minutes. I had to carry the conversation most of the time while she only contributed minor input into the conversation.

Later that day she texts me and said she doesn't think we're compatible...... I'm thinking to myself "well then why did you ask my aunt to relay your info to me and why did you agree to meet me?"

I didn't respond to her....

She's not "young" btw, she's 36, which means she doesn't have much value from procreating standpoint. I can tell by her mannerisms that her standards are ridiculously high even though she's not even attractive - Kevin Samuels would say she's average at best.

I encounter so many women like her: middle age, no kids, not financially secure, fading looks, entitled with ridiculously high standards for men while having no standards for herself.

During the conversation I was actually tempted to ask her "Aren't you worried about the future? Aren't you scared of being alone with no family to support you?"

I've noticed a large portion of millenial women are either divorced with no kids, or divorced single moms, or have never been married. The same with millenial men.

Zoomers lookl like they're doing better because I see zoomer women more willing to consider marriage.

It looks like the millenial generation will go down in history as the loneliest generation - Boomers, Gen X and Zoomers don't look like they have it as bad in the dating world.

Do not reply to her.

It is a little difficult and different to see testimony from your standing point of view. Most of what you expressed is "opinion".
I would have to interact with her to see if I can get the same type of understanding you got from interacting with her, but based on your comment, I wouldn't communicate with her unless she tries to start anything.

Some people put the foot in the mouth and go for ages to regret it.

 

[Solomon]

And complains he had no idea what she looked like but could easily have had her text a pic, as if he has no other choice but to meet her without being able to do this.

This thread makes no sense

Asking for pics should be mandatory espeically if she has pics of you at least
Heck we live in this age were a lot of women love to facetime if you have an iphone
OP walked into an ambush and got caught lackin

 

[logicallefty]

If the old lady sent me such text saying we're not compatible I would just reply:

- You're correct. Hope you can find somebody soon. Good luck

^This is exactly how I roll with it. This blows their minds because it takes away some of their perceived power. THEY ended things, but when you agree, it's no longer all about JUST THEM.

The OP's 36 year old woman is coming to the very end of the road where the wall awaits. But still has a few good CC rides left before she must succumb to that. At 36 they are about as picky and b|tchy as it gets.

Did I ever post and tell you guys what I think of women in their 30s? (Yes Lefty many hundred times). OK so I won't again!

 

[MatureDJ]

You should have asked for her picture. That way you would know if it's even worth meeting her. Since 90% of women are ugly and the remaining 10% aren't generally going on blind dates, a blind date is almost guaranteed to be an opportunity to meet an ugly, fat entitled whale that wants you to pay for her lunch.

Yes, and the thing about fat chicks - aside from feeling like a loser just knowing you are on a date with her - is that they have a big appetite.

 

[MatureDJ]

So you texted her but couldn't have said "Hey, send me a pic so I know who I'm meeting"?

You went in blind because you chose to go in blind.

Exactly, a man without options can't afford to disregard the opportunity for a blind date.

 

[SW15]

Did I ever post and tell you guys what I think of women in their 30s? (Yes Lefty many hundred times). OK so I won't again!

Feel free to do a copy and paste job on it.

Exactly, a man without options can't afford to disregard the opportunity for a blind date.

Men with limited options will always accept the opportunity for a social circle setup. It's the men who can generate a lot of options from some combination of swipe apps, Instagram, and real life stranger approaching that won't need to bother with that.

 

[Xenom0rph]

Exactly, a man without options can't afford to disregard the opportunity for a blind date.

Not sure if this is a lowkey diss, but I'm still handsome, so I have options. And I'm also a wh()remaxxer, so I don't suffer from thirst.

 

[MatureDJ]

Not sure if this is a lowkey diss, but I'm still handsome, so I have options. And I'm also a wh()remaxxer, so I don't suffer from thirst.

Are you short?

 

[Xenom0rph]

Are you short?

Yes, I'm 5'11" .... which basically means I'm a manlet by modern standards.

 

[member160292]

If you're a manlet then I'm a dwarf

 

[member160761]

During the conversation I was actually tempted to ask her "Aren't you worried about the future? Aren't you scared of being alone with no family to support you?"

Should've dropped this and a nuke after. Middle-aged women are beyond repair but a 20 something girl would benefit from a dose of reality.

 

[SW15]

Yes, I'm 5'11" .... which basically means I'm a manlet by modern standards.

I am 5'10", so I am considered a manlet as well.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I am 5'10", so I am considered a manlet as well.

Dude you are fine

 

[MatureDJ]

Auntmaxing. Every man should maximise the power of their aunts. I'm going to call my aunt right now and tell her to find me another entitled fatty.

So should an uncle NieceMax?

 

[SW15]

So should an uncle NieceMax?

Yes, but that seems unlikely to happen. A lot of uncles don't live near their nieces. An 18-25 year old niece likely has a uncle in his 50s. The niece's 20 something friends are unlikely to be interested in the 50+ uncle, even if both the uncle and niece lived close to each other.