Well, that was fun!

[In$tinct]

Are some women just the "diva" type? Ie they just have to have that "feeling" all the time?

Bingo! You answered your own questions. Some women just lose sight of what is important. It doesn’t matter if you do everything right, you can be "Alpha", “Masculine”, a freaking “DJ”! But, when they make decisions based on what that beating muscle in their chest feels… Well... there is just no right answer. Besides hitting eject so you don’t crash and burn with them.

 

[Colossus]

My question is, how does it come to this? The guy was an alpha type. He never got jealous, it seemed to me anyway. Are some women just the "diva" type? Ie they just have to have that "feeling" all the time?

Fair question.

There is always more to the story than meets the eye. Not implicating Desdinova in anything, but I'm sure there are other factors that would make sense of things if we knew them.

Crazy stuff though....divorce doesnt just happen to chumps.

 

[Reyaj]

Hey all, I don't write much about my personal life on here, but in the near future, I'll be on here much more regularly. After being out of the game for the last 8 years, the time has come for me to get back into it. I'm getting divorced.

I'm happy to say that we're both putting in the effort to make the split as easy and as peaceful as possible. The split is taking some time... a little more time than I would like it to. I'm so bloody anxious to get back out there and polish up my game, but I have to be patient for things to be more finalized before that happens. I also have a child which will make things a little bit more interesting.

As Tom Petty said, "The Future Is Wide Open". I want to revamp the entire house, have a big-ass party this year, and I need to get the rust off my game. Once the time is right, I'll likely put myself through the boot camp for a quick refresher - unless I discover I don't need it

And what about the ex? Don't worry about her. I'm not

Looking forward to your field reports!

 

[squirrels]

Bingo! You answered your own questions. Some women just lose sight of what is important. It doesn’t matter if you do everything right, you can be "Alpha", “Masculine”, a freaking “DJ”! But, when they make decisions based on what that beating muscle in their chest feels… Well... there is just no right answer. Besides hitting eject so you don’t crash and burn with them.

You're right...except that particular "muscle" isn't located in the chest.

I also question whether "some women" should read more like, "all women". I'm of the impression that any woman can be played if you know what strings to pluck. Some of them are just more "stable" than others.

 

[catman]

I also admire how calm and collected you are and hope you can get shared custody if at all possible. Women sure can be some heartless SOBs thats for sure:trouble:

 

[Desdinova]

You think everything is going to go OK with custody as you had foreseen? If you can avoid that "gotcha" and she is OK with letting you have custody, then you've pretty much had the ideal break.

It hasn't gone the way I wanted, and I've had to adapt. But I realize that women's actions are more valid than their words. She wants shared custody, but her actions tell me she doesn't enjoy the time she spends with the child.

As far as "new women" are concerned, I don't think you'll have a problem getting THAT going again.

Yeah, but it's this transition period that's so bloody difficult. I have to play the waiting game before I can jump right back out there and have fun, and I'm so anxious to do it. But, I need to make my moves carefully. I don't think I'll have a problem with that again either

My question is, how does it come to this? The guy was an alpha type. He never got jealous, it seemed to me anyway. Are some women just the "diva" type? Ie they just have to have that "feeling" all the time?

I've been doing a lot of thinking about this as well, and I've boiled it down to two things. First of all, she's very selfish. Everything she does, she does it for her. Second, she's spoiled. She's used to getting everything she wants. When she doesn't get it, she looks elsewhere. I basically ended up with an attention wh0re who put on a very good disguise for the first couple of years we were together. She was a chameleon who adapted to my idea of a successful, goal-oriented future. We talked about our goals, our values, the things we enjoyed doing together, and so on. After the honeymoon was over, it all changed and I admit that I was quite devastated. I hoped it was a phase, but it wasn't. It was the real HER.

The cheating was the golden opportunity to finish it all. She obviously wants out and is quite happy with her new prospect (at least for the short term). She's being a chameleon to him as well, taking an interest in his activities and participating in them. He's in for a surprise

And Jayer, I really can't wait to start posting FRs again. I don't think most of the people here were around when I was single before. I pulled off some crazy 5hit back then and continually surprised myself at what kind of stuff would drive women to go as far as fighting over my attention. I'm hoping that this Saturday will give birth to a damn good FR.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Desdinova,

My man, stoked to see you back in the game and excited to get back in contact with you.

We can start trading field reports again like we did a couple years ago! haha

There's never a shortage of AW's that tend to gravitate towards me, so I'm sure we can pick up right where we left off.

Life's too short to be locked down in a state of confusion and misery; glad you stepped up and did what needed to be done.

Stay positive, stay calm and give us a shout whenever you need us, were here for you bro.




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