Well i'm back on the market again...

[Trump]

Bottom line, you live under my roof that means no hanging out in bars with dudes half your age.

What if she wanted to hang out in lounges with guys 3/4 of her age?

Her request told me that not only is she getting buddy buddy with these dudes, but that the relationship is growing and evolving and she wants to take it out of the office and being deceptive about it with me. Neeeeeext, theirs plenty of fish in the sea biitch. Always be ready to walk in any relationshiit. A little attitude I can deal with, extra ****s I can't. Overall i'm pretty happy with how I dealt with things and I have this forum to thank for it. Old me might have tried to be Mr. Acceptance or Mr. Cool guy, I trust you babe. And gotten walked all over and cheated on like a biiitch.

You are giving up sex with a sexy woman because your ego can't handle some younger fit guys wanting to sleep with her. How many times has it been repeated that there is no benefit to emotionally commit to a woman?

No need to tell her to go to hell and completely cut off her because she doesn't love you. What girl loves any guy? Just downgrade her to plate status and keep having sex with her.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Well you played house for sometime & she failed miserably. She's definitely not marriage/gf material pulling that crap. Is that a sh*t test that blew up in her face? I think so. As others have mentioned a slippery slope & you made the right move.

You mentioned a "sit down", is that even necessary? Short & sweet, closure is her collecting her things & moving out. I'd suggest having a friend come over if there's a slight chance she decides to go nutz.

 

[Juanto]

Related to the topic of this conversation (being back on the market again), I just found an old OLD interest from some 5 years ago on Facebook. Back then we had a couple of good dates but I didnt escalate (bad move) and then ended up going another direction and not talking again with this girl. However she is attractive and I want to try again, but do you think this is possible after 5/6 years? She may not even remember about me.... Any tips on how to approach this?

 

[SgtSplacker]

Related to the topic of this conversation (being back on the market again), I just found an old OLD interest from some 5 years ago on Facebook. Back then we had a couple of good dates but I didnt escalate (bad move) and then ended up going another direction and not talking again with this girl. However she is attractive and I want to try again, but do you think this is possible after 5/6 years? She may not even remember about me.... Any tips on how to approach this?

I would play it cool a bit and find out what she remembers about you, so you have some understanding for what she is looking for/expects. Good luck.

Trump: Normally i'm with you on the things you posted. But she's living with me now so just plating her is not really an option. And having some disrespectful, argumentative woman living with me makes it tough to meet new people ya dig? The age detail is really not an issue, it's the combination of factors that makes this one a deal breaker for me.

Before we made things official I sat her down and had a serious discussion. I asked her if she wanted an open relationship, where we are free to do anything with anyone as long as were honest with each other. Or if she wanted a more old fashioned relationship where we don't really go hanging out in bars with single people. I can honestly see virtue in either life style, I just wanted to know up front what to expect so I can plan my life accordingly. We both agreed we wanted the old fashioned relationship. No messing around with singles in bars, and I did use that as an example because it's a big one. Anyways... who knows maybe we can be "friends" after she moves out. But right now she does not deserve to share a roof with me and is wasting my time and resources. I'm already being more open with some of the girls i've been keeping at bay because of our relationship, and got a pretty to the point IOI last week from one that lives nearby. So i'm not too worried about getting some new asses in my crib for banging. I live like 3 miles from the beach, with plenty of bars around.