Well boys think I’m throwing in the towel

[captain55]

Met this chick six months ago. Chased her hard and with persistence got her..things were good but there were a few red flags. Major intimacy issues.

She’s going through some issues at work and is constantly stressed, she takes a lot of her anger out on me. I don’t feel like she cares about me or my goals. She doesn’t really have any friends either. She texts me 24/7

She was on a trip with family recently when her flight got canceled because of a storm. She texted me she was extremely sad about it. I responded to her saying im sorry that happened and asked her if maybe they could go somewhere else local for the trip and she completely ignores my text. So...i took the message that she didn’t want to talk because she was upset and gave her some space.

36 hours later she texts me saying I don’t give a **** and she’s stranded at the airport. Saying I should of at least checked in on her and we should stop seeing eachother.

I’m like well you didn’t respond to my message so I figured you didn’t want to talk...If you really needed to talk you could of called me.

She doesn’t get it.... she’s 26 and I feel like I’m taking to a ****ing 18 year old.

Beautiful, 26, huge natural tits, doesn’t party and has a great career so I don’t wanna cut this off but she’s not making me happy anymore fellas. Haven’t ended it yet but I don’t feel the same about her

 

[djdfuser]

What else disrespectful has she done?

 

[Murk]

Cut loose, communication is a two-way street, a road goes both ways.

Girls that don't get this are a headache and best left alone. You had your fun, now find a stable minded woman to relationship.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Your head knows .. listen to it before your d1ck takes over.

 

[Desdinova]

36 hours later she texts me saying I don’t give a **** and she’s stranded at the airport. Saying I should of at least checked in on her and we should stop seeing eachother.

Grant her wish and end it. That's what I do when women threaten to break up. If they're gonna threaten it as a power move, guilt trip, or whatever the fvck she's trying to do, then give it to them. There's no reason to put up with that bull5hit.

 

[Spaz]

The threat of breaking up is a power move to get you to be submissive. Don't fall for it.

At this point ur only option is breaking off with her.

She can either come back begging with you maintaining power or she walks away for good.

In relationships, there's no such thing as equality, there's always 1 party being dominant over the other.

And it's a given rule that man must maintain overall dominance in the relationship.

 

[elunium]

Answer

"ok"

nothing more than that. And she will be apologizing in a couple of hours.

This way you are communicating without being offensive that this kind of behaviour should not be tolerated between you two

 

[lamath]

Don t argue with her its a waste of time, she wont see your point of view ( your 100% correcte there btw)
She is too bitchy, taking her anger on you not acceptable.
She got some issue.
Bad relationship pattern/power balance already in place, very hard to fix.
When you pursue a women too much you give her all the power
If that has been happening for a few month already it is a lost cause.


Only way to get your power back is to reject/dump her.

Answer her like poster above wrote

OK

Then dont initiate any contact with her

 

[Ranger]

The threat of breaking up is a power move to get you to be submissive. Don't fall for it.

At this point ur only option is breaking off with her.

She can either come back begging with you maintaining power or she walks away for good.

In relationships, there's no such thing as equality, there's always 1 party being dominant over the other.

And it's a given rule that man must maintain overall dominance in the relationship.

OH HELL YES IT IS!!!
That threat of loss is a major tool to get a man to submit to her. Men get crushed by this this. I have some serious experience with this one. Smile and tell her..."see ya baby. I wish you all the luck in the world." BOOM! Frame reversed. Fuk you and your silly girl stuff. lol

 

[CMNILS87]

Man, if you have to think about this you need to work on your inner game. A chick yelling at you about how you don’t care about her.

Ok...bye...*****...see ya

 

[R.U.G.]

Going to have to agree with @Spaz. He's right on the money. It's best to just walk away. Also, in the future, don't try to solve things for her. Just say, you understand and then throw it back to her. The only exception is when she explicitly asks what should she do. Then you can opine. Remember, with women, less = more. Where as, the less attention you give them, the more attention they give you. The more attention you give them, the less attention they give you. You want to give just enough to where she thinks she has you in a safe place, but not really. Whereas, yea, you'd stay with her for now, but you have no issues with leaving and replacing her azz if she gets out of line.

Silence mode. Should she reach out, the only think you guys do is invite her over, and fvck. She doesn't want to, no problem. NEXT.

 

[captain55]

The difference is I’m at a point in my life where I’m ready for a relationship ...I’ve ****ed enough women in my life. So I put up with her constant bitching about life’s issues and her texting/phone calls. Normally I wouldn’t because most of the time I never commit to one woman. The issue is she is not bringing anything to my life anymore

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The difference is I’m at a point in my life where I’m ready for a relationship ...I’ve ****ed enough women in my life. So I put up with her constant bitching about life’s issues and her texting/phone calls. Normally I wouldn’t because most of the time I never commit to one woman. The issue is she is not bringing anything to my life anymore

Watch Mr Locario youtube on no woman is relationship material.

Locario has more a player smooth approach vs AMS.

 

[lamath]

Dont put up with her in a LTR it will amplify

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Watch Mr Locario youtube on no woman is relationship material.

Locario has more a player smooth approach vs AMS.

That player smooth approach will lend itself to raising social strength with ALL people. Men ans woman. AMS is more a bully treat em like trash approach.

 

[captain55]

Going to have to agree with @Spaz. He's right on the money. It's best to just walk away. Also, in the future, don't try to solve things for her. Just say, you understand and then throw it back to her. The only exception is when she explicitly asks what should she do. Then you can opine. Remember, with women, less = more. Where as, the less attention you give them, the more attention they give you. The more attention you give them, the less attention they give you. You want to give just enough to where she thinks she has you in a safe place, but not really. Whereas, yea, you'd stay with her for now, but you have no issues with leaving and replacing her azz if she gets out of line.

Silence mode. Should she reach out, the only think you guys do is invite her over, and fvck. She doesn't want to, no problem. NEXT.

I agree with most of what you said. However. If a chick is really into you and wants more...and you just see her as a plate to **** she will catch on eventually. Some will chase you harder, some will just move on. One thing I’ve learned for sure in this game, don’t be afraid to be emotional. And by being emotional I don’t mean be a ***** I mean listen to your gut sometimes and not logic. When it comes to women, usually what you feel they feel. From a cold approach at a bar...to a girl you’ve been banging for months...what you feel they feel.

 

[Tilex]

She sounds like a narcissistic spoiled drama queen.
Have you had sex with this chick yet?
If you haven't, then just drop her like a bad habit.
These type of women are very toxic. You'll end up with constant anxiety down the road if you're dealing with them for too long.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She sounds like a narcissistic spoiled drama queen.
Have you had sex with this chick yet?
If you haven't, then just drop her like a bad habit.
These type of women are very toxic. You'll end up with constant anxiety down the road if you're dealing with them for too long.

They fvck up your game to all huh? Possible damage which takes years to recover.

 

[captain55]

She sounds like a narcissistic spoiled drama queen.
Have you had sex with this chick yet?
If you haven't, then just drop her like a bad habit.
These type of women are very toxic. You'll end up with constant anxiety down the road if you're dealing with them for too long.

Yes. She is narcissstic and spoiled as hell but I love abusing her in bed and ****ing her face until she gags and the make up runs down her face. It’s nice revenge for the bull**** she puts me through

 

[Ranger]

She sounds like a narcissistic spoiled drama queen.
Have you had sex with this chick yet?
If you haven't, then just drop her like a bad habit.
These type of women are very toxic. You'll end up with constant anxiety down the road if you're dealing with them for too long.

They are all narcissistic in relationship to a man. That’s how they are wired. We would not be roaming the earth if they weren’t.

 

[R.U.G.]

The difference is I’m at a point in my life where I’m ready for a relationship ...I’ve ****ed enough women in my life. So I put up with her constant bitching about life’s issues and her texting/phone calls. Normally I wouldn’t because most of the time I never commit to one woman. The issue is she is not bringing anything to my life anymore

Bro, you're not getting it. Whatever you want from a woman, do the opposite. Weird, I know, but that's how it seems to work with women these days. She's too comfortable with you. With this one or any other one, you need to add a bit of mystery and wonder about you. Women say they want to know everything, but if you give them this, it actually turns them off. As for this one, I'd still keep her around if you enjoy fvcking her, just keep your distance. As for looking for a relationship. Funny thing.. They usually happen when you least expect it. If you are gunning for a relationship, the opposite tends to happen. If you're just taking it as it comes, then it can naturally turn into one; should it happen.