I hope to God (and have prayed that) nothing will actually come of this, but let this be a lesson to everyone - young and old.
I was on OkCupid last night - browsing horny and without sense, and I send a message to a girl that I had exchanged a couple messages with. It said: "give me your phone number and I'll send you nude pics" (I'm one of those perverts that gets off on sending/receiving pics). She immediately messaged me back her phone number, and I sent a confirmation text saying: "if I send my pics are you going to return the favor?" Her response being: "sure." I send my pics, and she responds with: "sending to police."
I honestly thought she was just f*cking with me and trying to scare me, but the next morning I have a message in my cell from a deputy at a sheriff's department about an hour away: "This is deputy so-and-so. Give me a call back at (number)."
Now, I've researched this cvnt thoroughly and have found her full name, Facebook, twitter, and other dating site account, and her age on everything is 20 (birthday December 1992). If something bad does happen, hopefully the charges won't be too serious because she's over the legal age. She also gave consent for the pics two different times (on OkCupid and through text). With her age and consent, I should technically not be charged for anything, since sexting between two consenting adults is perfectly legal, but you know our terrible legal system...
Oh, and I returned the deputy's call but couldn't get a hold of him. Probably a good thing, because I've sought out advice on the matter and just about EVERYONE has said to ignore the police completely until/unless they arrest you, then ask for an attorney before answering any questions (if it comes to that).
I've also screen-capped her profile to prove her age. Unfortunately I deleted the texts because I thought it was a joke and she wasn't seriously going to do it. I wonder what she told the police? And I wonder why a department an hour away is contacting me? There's literally a police department right down the road...
I know my behavior was stupid. I've already deleted every pic on my phone and in my e-mail. Literally EVERY picture that could be considered even the slightest bit obscene. I will NEVER send another picture.
Anyways... Advice is appreciated if you think it would help me. And yes, I know what I did was idiotic, but in my defense she's 20 and asked for them and we all do stupid sh!t once in a while...
I was on OkCupid last night - browsing horny and without sense, and I send a message to a girl that I had exchanged a couple messages with. It said: "give me your phone number and I'll send you nude pics" (I'm one of those perverts that gets off on sending/receiving pics). She immediately messaged me back her phone number, and I sent a confirmation text saying: "if I send my pics are you going to return the favor?" Her response being: "sure." I send my pics, and she responds with: "sending to police."
I honestly thought she was just f*cking with me and trying to scare me, but the next morning I have a message in my cell from a deputy at a sheriff's department about an hour away: "This is deputy so-and-so. Give me a call back at (number)."
Now, I've researched this cvnt thoroughly and have found her full name, Facebook, twitter, and other dating site account, and her age on everything is 20 (birthday December 1992). If something bad does happen, hopefully the charges won't be too serious because she's over the legal age. She also gave consent for the pics two different times (on OkCupid and through text). With her age and consent, I should technically not be charged for anything, since sexting between two consenting adults is perfectly legal, but you know our terrible legal system...
Oh, and I returned the deputy's call but couldn't get a hold of him. Probably a good thing, because I've sought out advice on the matter and just about EVERYONE has said to ignore the police completely until/unless they arrest you, then ask for an attorney before answering any questions (if it comes to that).
I've also screen-capped her profile to prove her age. Unfortunately I deleted the texts because I thought it was a joke and she wasn't seriously going to do it. I wonder what she told the police? And I wonder why a department an hour away is contacting me? There's literally a police department right down the road...
I know my behavior was stupid. I've already deleted every pic on my phone and in my e-mail. Literally EVERY picture that could be considered even the slightest bit obscene. I will NEVER send another picture.
Anyways... Advice is appreciated if you think it would help me. And yes, I know what I did was idiotic, but in my defense she's 20 and asked for them and we all do stupid sh!t once in a while...
