Hey guys, quick update on what happened from my previous post.
So this chick messages me today in the morning (we met at a house party, we fooled around all night (slept together but didnt have sex) and she says she really likes me and wants to get to know me better but she dosen't want commitment.. We were drunk, next morning she was still making out with me when she was sober saying she wants to get to know me, blabla) asking me if I'm still up for going to the movies with her. I say yes, for sure. She replies, "Ok see you then )"
So we meet up at the theatre. She hugs me, and she pulls her cheek toward me, not her lips, for a kiss, but I was honestly just not paying attention, which I should of been, and I just hugged her (I honestly think that's no big deal, little hard to get never killed anyone).
We get in the theatre and her body language is out of whack. Her legs are crossed entirely in the opposite direction from me with her hands tied together, so I get a bad feeling. I do some kino, brazing her shoulder, but I was such a chump for some reason that I didn't even try putting my arm around her.
Then she got extremely quiet even when I was trying to converse with her. Asked her if everything was ok (by the way, I'm smiling the entire time I'm saying this, I was showing no fear or sadness), she instantly says yes. Tried to hold her hand halfway through the movie, told her I had a suprise for her, two dinner tickets to the theatre (got em for free from work) and if she wanted to go on Sunday (I don't know why the hell I did this), she says maybe, she pulled her hand away probably after 4-5 seconds of holding it.
We get out of the movie and I ask if she wants to get a bite to eat but she says shes tired (said it in the theatre before the movie started) and she'd rather go home. Told her I was busy 'til sunday and maybe I'll see her then.
She drives me home (car is down). I move in for a kiss (I was an idiot and never touched her hair, dunno what was wrong with my game tonight.. sure Im gonna hear a lot of it from you guys), she pulls her cheek towards me instead and I kiss her cheek, she kisses mine back. I smile and say, "You're pretty shy it seems" She says, "No, im just really tired."
Bam that's that. I know I made a lot of errors tonight. Bah.
I know to obviously not text her for a couple days but is there any other advice you guys could give me? Should I just move on, or do I still have something here?
So this chick messages me today in the morning (we met at a house party, we fooled around all night (slept together but didnt have sex) and she says she really likes me and wants to get to know me better but she dosen't want commitment.. We were drunk, next morning she was still making out with me when she was sober saying she wants to get to know me, blabla) asking me if I'm still up for going to the movies with her. I say yes, for sure. She replies, "Ok see you then )"
So we meet up at the theatre. She hugs me, and she pulls her cheek toward me, not her lips, for a kiss, but I was honestly just not paying attention, which I should of been, and I just hugged her (I honestly think that's no big deal, little hard to get never killed anyone).
We get in the theatre and her body language is out of whack. Her legs are crossed entirely in the opposite direction from me with her hands tied together, so I get a bad feeling. I do some kino, brazing her shoulder, but I was such a chump for some reason that I didn't even try putting my arm around her.
Then she got extremely quiet even when I was trying to converse with her. Asked her if everything was ok (by the way, I'm smiling the entire time I'm saying this, I was showing no fear or sadness), she instantly says yes. Tried to hold her hand halfway through the movie, told her I had a suprise for her, two dinner tickets to the theatre (got em for free from work) and if she wanted to go on Sunday (I don't know why the hell I did this), she says maybe, she pulled her hand away probably after 4-5 seconds of holding it.
We get out of the movie and I ask if she wants to get a bite to eat but she says shes tired (said it in the theatre before the movie started) and she'd rather go home. Told her I was busy 'til sunday and maybe I'll see her then.
She drives me home (car is down). I move in for a kiss (I was an idiot and never touched her hair, dunno what was wrong with my game tonight.. sure Im gonna hear a lot of it from you guys), she pulls her cheek towards me instead and I kiss her cheek, she kisses mine back. I smile and say, "You're pretty shy it seems" She says, "No, im just really tired."
Bam that's that. I know I made a lot of errors tonight. Bah.
I know to obviously not text her for a couple days but is there any other advice you guys could give me? Should I just move on, or do I still have something here?
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