Weirdest rejection ever or worst excuse ever?

[Robert28]

So a friend said she wanted to set me up with a friend of hers, I said sure why not. I saw a pic and she was plenty good looking so I said set it up. She texts me today “there’s a problem, you dated her friend back in 2007 and then y’all went on a date in 2009 and she liked you but couldn’t date you because of that”. The fvck? I don’t even remember going out with this girl but I do remember dating her friend......12 fvcking years ago! Who’s now married btw so who the hell cares? How long do you have to wait before you go out with a friends ex? Apparently 10 years isn’t enough.haha

 

[sangheilios]

Honestly, whether or not that is a legitimate reason as to why she can't date you or is just some made up excuse is irrelevant. The real take home is this, would you ever want to have such an immature individual in your life?

The answer is no, so don't even put any energy or thought into this.

 

[Robert28]

Well she’s 33 and still goes to Disney every year, she’s obsessed with it. Apparently when my friend told her I don’t remember going out with her she got mad. I mean who the hell can remember a date they had 10 years ago? I’ve gone out with hundreds of girls since then!

 

[sangheilios]

Well she’s 33 and still goes to Disney every year, she’s obsessed with it. Apparently when my friend told her I don’t remember going out with her she got mad. I mean who the hell can remember a date they had 10 years ago? I’ve gone out with hundreds of girls since then!

Well, theme parks like Disney world are fun lol, most people like stuff like that.

Again, I wouldn't even waste any of your time discussing this woman. The fact that she clings on to something like that from 10 years ago and behaves/thinks in such a manner indicates that she is really immature and probably not all that intelligent. Just do yourself a favor and don't expend any more of your energy on this, seriously.

 

[LOOKS]

So a friend said she wanted to set me up with a friend of hers, I said sure why not. I saw a pic and she was plenty good looking so I said set it up. She texts me today “there’s a problem, you dated her friend back in 2007 and then y’all went on a date in 2009 and she liked you but couldn’t date you because of that”. The fvck? I don’t even remember going out with this girl but I do remember dating her friend......12 fvcking years ago! Who’s now married btw so who the hell cares? How long do you have to wait before you go out with a friends ex? Apparently 10 years isn’t enough.haha

So she was fine with going on a date with you two years after her friend dated you and had already thought that first date would = a relationship that she couldnt get involved in because her friend dated you two years prior....Now 10 years later she thinks a second date with you = getting involved in a relationship that she can't do because her friend dated you 12 years ago.

Makes perfect sense. You dodged a bullet. That woman sounds like a fruit loop. No wonder though she's attractive, she's single and needing to be set up.

After her friend text you with the problem you should have told her: Only 12 years?? Ah hell nah. Hit me up around the 25 year mark and if im single at that point I'll assess the situation again and text my decision the next leap year.

 

[Robert28]

So she was fine with going on a date with you two years after her friend dated you and had already thought that first date would = a relationship that she couldnt get involved in because her friend dated you two years prior....Now 10 years later she thinks a second date with you = getting involved in a relationship that she can't do because her friend dated you 12 years ago.

Makes perfect sense. You dodged a bullet. That woman sounds like a fruit loop. No wonder though she's attractive, she's single and needing to be set up.

After her friend text you with the problem you should have told her: Only 12 years?? Ah hell nah. Hit me up around the 25 year mark and if im single at that point I'll assess the situation again and text my decision the next leap year.

Well my friend did tell her “you do realize he’s dated hundreds of women since then right? He probably doesn’t even remember going out with you.”

 

[Robert28]

It's the whole "every woman wants to feel special" syndrome. This woman has a triple dose of it. It's just for validation purposes. She wants to stretch how memorable she is. It would have boosted her ego into outer space if you had remembered her....but she really had no intentions of dating you. You did the right move by not remembering.

Any other effort on your part from this point forward would be free validation for her.

Well I’ve only communicated with her through my friend, haven’t talked to her one on one. My friend claims she still wants to go out sometime though. Guess she had a change of heart all of a sudden.

 

[sangheilios]

Personally because I have options and I hate women d1cking me around, I would respond with "Ohhh I'm sorry, I already found someone." This is not advice though. This is just something I would do. I love rejecting hard-cased women. Mostly because I don't associate with low level people period.

I agree, why would any man want to associate with a woman who behaves like this?

 

[jaymbrs]

Dumbest excuse ever. Dumbest lie ever.

 

[Mike32ct]

I had a chick cancel a date like this...

She said texted me something to the effect of, “Sorry I’ll have to pass on tonight. I’m way too tired. I was up all night at my friend’s house. I stayed over at his place, but umm ya know, it was separate rooms.”

 

[Epic Days]

Women screw each other's boyfriends and husbands all the time. Its a game they love to play, if they can get away with it without upset and open sl*t shaming.
So maybe you shouldn't listen to her? Maybe she has a go-to right now anyway. Just think, she could be doing your friend's boyfriend while she was trying to set you up. That could get interesting.

 

[Robert28]

I had a chick cancel a date like this...

She said texted me something to the effect of, “Sorry I’ll have to pass on tonight. I’m way too tired. I was up all night at my friend’s house. I stayed over at his place, but umm ya know, it was separate rooms.”

Haha well at least she was honest about she slept over at her fvck buddies house.

 

[Robert28]

Women screw each other's boyfriends and husbands all the time. Its a game they love to play, if they can get away with it without upset and open sl*t shaming.
So maybe you shouldn't listen to her? Maybe she has a go-to right now anyway. Just think, she could be doing your friend's boyfriend while she was trying to set you up. That could get interesting.

Oh no my friends boyfriend HATES her, he even told her “don’t do that to that guy, he’s cool and he doesn’t need all that crap from her.”haha

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So a friend said she wanted to set me up with a friend of hers, I said sure why not. I saw a pic and she was plenty good looking so I said set it up. She texts me today “there’s a problem, you dated her friend back in 2007 and then y’all went on a date in 2009 and she liked you but couldn’t date you because of that”. The fvck? I don’t even remember going out with this girl but I do remember dating her friend......12 fvcking years ago! Who’s now married btw so who the hell cares? How long do you have to wait before you go out with a friends ex? Apparently 10 years isn’t enough.haha

Not doing it right.

Should have requester her hotter younger barely legal sister.

 

[Mike32ct]

Haha well at least she was honest about she slept over at her fvck buddies house.

And he lasted all night lol.