weirdest girl Ive ever met

[pyros]

So here is our 'story' in short:

0 Met her while dancing salsa, talked to her for 15 minutes, got her number.

1 Some days later I asked her out. Met on Saturday night. Went to grab a coke. Kiss closed her at the end.

2 Messagedher next Wednesday on FB. She replied Thursday evening, apologised for answering so late and said it was because she barely uses facebook.
Asked her out but said she was really busy because of her examns, and suggested next week.

3 Next Tuesday I texted her. She replied half a day later but in a enthusiastic way.
I asked her out for next Saturday night.

4 Met on Saturday. Went to grab a drink and to dance salsa. We had a great time. Heavy make out at the end I thought I was gonna bang her but she did not want to.

5 Texted her on Tuesday, no reply. Texted her on Friday. She apologised again and seemed willing to meet. I set a date for Saturday.

6 Saturday night we met. Went to grab a drink and to play pool. She said she did not know how to play pool. The place was crowded so we ended up playing some ice hockey. The place was full of kids eventhough it was late at night.
I suggested to have another drink at a friend's bar but she gave me a lame excuse, and told me she had to get up early. I drove her home, small make out. I sensed something was wrong.

7 Texted her next Wednesday. She replied on Saturday evening saying that she already had plans with a female friend and that I could meet them in X salsa club if I wanted to. I did not go, and I did not reply.
At this point I had enough of her 'replying 12h or 40h later'.

8 I realised that I initiated too much, in the sense that she never ever texted me first, and neither she suggested any date. So I decided to forget about her.

9 BUT, today Saturday, one week with no contact on my part, she texted me just asking how I am doing etc.



This is the weirdest girl I've met. I understand she has low interest but I just wanted to see what you think.
I'd like to bang her but...its getting annoying.

 

[LMFAO]

She's probably getting banged by several other guys.

You did the right thing by going NC and to let her do some chasing.

You've already invested in her so no harm in trying one last time. Invite her somewhere close to the sex location (your place), then go back to your place afterwards and bang her.

If she's not up to it, forget her.

 

[Bingo-Player]

So here is our 'story' in short:

0 Met her while dancing salsa, talked to her for 15 minutes, got her number.

1 Some days later I asked her out. Met on Saturday night. Went to grab a coke. Kiss closed her at the end.

2 Messagedher next Wednesday on FB. She replied Thursday evening,

LOW INTEREST

apologised for answering so late and said it was because she barely uses Facebook.

LIES

Asked her out but said she was really busy because of her examns, and suggested next week.

more lies

3 Next Tuesday I texted her. She replied half a day later but in a enthusiastic way.
I asked her out for next Saturday night.

more low interest


4 Met on Saturday. Went to grab a drink and to dance salsa. We had a great time. Heavy make out at the end I thought I was gonna bang her but she did not want to.

jesus dude come on

5 Texted her on Tuesday, no reply. Texted her on Friday. She apologised again and seemed willing to meet. I set a date for Saturday.

getting silly now wheres your self respect

6 Saturday night we met. Went to grab a drink and to play pool. She said she did not know how to play pool. The place was crowded so we ended up playing some ice hockey. The place was full of kids eventhough it was late at night.
I suggested to have another drink at a friend's bar but she gave me a lame excuse, and told me she had to get up early. I drove her home, small make out. I sensed something was wrong.

7 Texted her next Wednesday. She replied on Saturday evening saying that she already had plans with a female friend and that I could meet them in X salsa club if I wanted to. I did not go, and I did not reply.
At this point I had enough of her 'replying 12h or 40h later'.

8 I realised that I initiated too much, in the sense that she never ever texted me first, and neither she suggested any date. So I decided to forget about her.

9 BUT, today Saturday, one week with no contact on my part, she texted me just asking how I am doing etc.



This is the weirdest girl I've met. I understand she has low interest but I just wanted to see what you think.
I'd like to bang her but...its getting annoying.

look in the nicest way possible

IF A GIRL IS ACTING "WIERD" its either

A) because your not as important to her as you think you are
B) she's got high value c0ck on tap


either way you won't be getting in her panties anytime soon so back off and go find some more chicks to practice on

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Pyros: Why are you always going out on Saturdays? Make her follow your lead and to do that you should keep things fresh by being unpredictable.

It sounds like she had/has interest in you, but the time you two have spent together on these few dates hasn't ELEVATED that interest.

Her reaching out to you is a good sign, but you can't fall back int your routine.

What was the conversation like on those previous dates?

Did the conversation get sexual at all? Did she give you any obvious or subtle buying signs?

While there could be other guys etc, none of that really matters. If you elevate her interest and attraction for you, she will want to bang.








PIMP

 

[VladPatton]

Nothing really weird here, just a chick who doesn't know what she wants and/or low interest. This is what you have to go through when dating. When you see a broken vehicle in the right lane you pass it and move on.

 

[pyros]

Pyros: Why are you always going out on Saturdays? Make her follow your lead and to do that you should keep things fresh by being unpredictable.

It sounds like she had/has interest in you, but the time you two have spent together on these few dates hasn't ELEVATED that interest.

Her reaching out to you is a good sign, but you can't fall back int your routine.

What was the conversation like on those previous dates?

Did the conversation get sexual at all? Did she give you any obvious or subtle buying signs?

While there could be other guys etc, none of that really matters. If you elevate her interest and attraction for you, she will want to bang.


PIMP

I have not had any sexual conversation with her because I never do that. I've never done that with any of the girls I banged. I just have normal conversations about them, about whatever...I tease them, they laugh etc, I kino escalate and that's it.
In our second date, after a heavy make out I suggested to go to her apartment but she declined.

Last time we met (third date) I dont know why but I felt something was off cause she seemed excited about going out with me but by the middle of the date she 'had to get up early' and she looked tired. Besides, after that date she took two days to reply to my last text.

I think it is a + b:
a) she's 'seing' some other dude.
b) we're not that compatible. (I can talk to her etc, but she's has not the type of personality I like, and I think she thinks the same about me lol. She's more serious and shy, and Im kind of the opposite, but hey, she's cute).

Now, it would be a bit ackward to see her after three weeks (considering we meet next week).

Ive just arranged dates on Saturdays cause I felt she had little interest (never texted me first. She texting me today is a first) so I did not want to look over-eager, and cause she has a lot of classes, papers etc to do.


What do you recomend PIMP?

P.S.
I did not reply to her previous text one week ago, and Im not replying to her last text until tomorrow. Now Im playing the same game she plays.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I have not had any sexual conversation with her because I never do that.

Time for you to add a new weapon to your arsenal Pyros.

In our second date, after a heavy make out I suggested to go to her apartment but she declined.

This is something I expect to hear from a beginner. You should continue to escalate, get her so horny that she won't be able to resist. Asking prematurely like you did, will get you shot down.

but by the middle of the date she 'had to get up early' and she looked tired. Besides, after that date she took two days to reply to my last text.

You didn't get her excited or hold her interest.

I think it is a + b:
a) she's 'seing' some other dude.
b) we're not that compatible. (I can talk to her etc, but she's has not the type of personality I like, and I think she thinks the same about me lol. She's more serious and shy, and Im kind of the opposite, but hey, she's cute).

a) Who cares
b) a great seducer knows how to appeal to a variety of personalities. Its not that your not compatible, you don't know how to escalate attraction with this girl.

Now, it would be a bit awkward to see her after three weeks (considering we meet next week).

Why would it be awkward? It will only be if you make it that way.

Ive just arranged dates on Saturdays cause I felt she had little interest (never texted me first. She texting me today is a first) so I did not want to look over-eager, and cause she has a lot of classes, papers etc to do.

Saturday's are a prime day for people to go out. So I don't understand your logic in saying you set up dates for Saturday's due to low interest. It should be the opposite. Also by always calling during the week for a Saturday, you quickly become predictable.

Do you know you set up the frame to be more difficult than it had to be? A girl with high interest will make time for you . Who cares about her school schedule, papers etc; let HER tell you she's too busy, don't reject yourself before you try

I did not reply to her previous text one week ago, and Im not replying to her last text until tomorrow. Now Im playing the same game she plays.

And what is that going to accomplish? Pyros your making this more complicated and over thinking things.

Do you want to bang her? Yes

Then call her back, set up a time to hang out and see how it goes.

Relax, have fun and good things will happen, esp since she's chasing you now.








PIMP

 

[Meisterman]

Wtf bro, you mean to tell me you initiated six times in a row without her contacting first once? Da fuq? No wonder she lost interest when you're blowing up her phone even after she ignored your last text. And she took 4 days to reply to 1 text? That's disrespectful as fu*k. If some chick did that to me I wouldn't even give them the time of day or respond to it. You finally had the brains to go NC, even though you should have done it Much earlier. Then surprise, surprise, once she sees your interest level declining (or at least perceives it to be), she reaches out again.

And you call this girl "weird?" Well then I got news for you buddy, GET USED TO IT. Cuz the kind of sh*t you just described is EXACTLY the type of behavior I would expect from a typical woman. They may not be all the same, but it's pretty damn close. Have some self respect next time and stop being the "Nice guy" which is simply an advertisement for giving away your self respect in exchange for approval and social acceptance. Paradoxically it's these "Nice guys" that get the LEAST respect and the LEAST approval out of anyone. Ha! Figure that one out. :crackup:

 

[pyros]

Wtf bro, you mean to tell me you initiated six times in a row without her contacting first once? Da fuq? No wonder she lost interest when you're blowing up her phone even after she ignored your last text. And she took 4 days to reply to 1 text? That's disrespectful as fu*k. If some chick did that to me I wouldn't even give them the time of day or respond to it. You finally had the brains to go NC, even though you should have done it Much earlier. Then surprise, surprise, once she sees your interest level declining (or at least perceives it to be), she reaches out again.

And you call this girl "weird?" Well then I got news for you buddy, GET USED TO IT. Cuz the kind of sh*t you just described is EXACTLY the type of behavior I would expect from a typical woman. They may not be all the same, but it's pretty damn close. Have some self respect next time and stop being the "Nice guy" which is simply an advertisement for giving away your self respect in exchange for approval and social acceptance. Paradoxically it's these "Nice guys" that get the LEAST respect and the LEAST approval out of anyone. Ha! Figure that one out. :crackup:

I didnt blow up her phone with texts. I texted her once a week for three weeks to ask her out, except when the day of the date came and we had to arrange some details so we exchanged a few more texts.

She never initiated, not even the "hey whats up?" message after a couple of dates. Besides, she always takes from 8h to a day an a half to reply. This is not normal, and even if she has little interest she is playing a game I dont like at all, cause, really, she is taking a day or more to reply to my texts on purpose? wtf? what kind of evil game is that? how fuc-kep up on the head is she? this is a first.

PIMP,

I took one day to reply to her last text cause I wanted to let her taste what she does, childlish but true. See this, now its been 1.5 days and she hasnt replied to my text, CAN YOU BELIEVE IT? she's totally nuts, and my interest level for her is on the ground now.

Ive never met a girl that took a day or more to reply to every single text, and on top of this I made out with her three times, but she's been playing this game since day number 1.

Fu-ck that bit-ch, Im not playing anymore her stupid, evil, childlish games. Go to hell!

 

[Meisterman]

She never initiated, not even the "hey whats up?" message after a couple of dates. Besides, she always takes from 8h to a day an a half to reply.

Then why have you stayed in the "game" as long as you did. There comes a point where you take your losses and move on, and commit to NC (probably forever). For me this is probably after the 2nd or 3rd flake in a row with her not committing. You may not get the girl but you at least salvage your dignity. Plus it's an empowering feeling to know she's probably thinking "How the hell did this dude drop me so easily? He really cares that little?" And even better is when you actually DO care that little. You know you're better than that, and now that your actions are in alignment with a true DJ. If at first you didn't believe it, now you are starting to because you fake it till you make it. And with that comes confidence and security, which in turn the more you have, the less you care of seeking it from this girl. So you stay NC without a second thought while she's still spending considerable amount of time wondering where things took a turn for the worst (For her).

Try to invest less in her faster and detach completely after you leave the ball in her court. Ignoring at first is never a good idea to get a girl. But after numbers are exchanged, you've showed your interest, hit her up, went on dates, whatever, it's up to her to reciprocate the interest back or be bumped. Worst case scenario you're back where you started from and best case scenario she starts doing the chasing and pursues you while you don't give two fu*ks about it and aren't afraid to piss her off.

As I said being nice is an advertisement for showing you will give up self respect for social approval. You shouldn't be trying to get her approval at all. Your mindset should be "I am who I am. If that's not good enough for her that's her fault not mine. I am not outcome dependent and my happiness isn't based on her approval, so I really couldn't care less about trying to "win" her over.

The goal of her game is fu*ked up and basically to make you look like a little bi*ch and be flooding with insecurities. But you go NC it conveys that you don't give a ****, those insecurities have nothing to do with you and have better, more important sh!t to worry about. So since you're not there to catch them because you choose not to, they get reflected back at her and she gets a taste of her own medicine.

This is probably why she texted you again after a week of NC. She felt like her plan was starting to fail so she had to turn the tables to try to get the upper hand again. Each time she tries harder to turn the tables, and each successive time you show her you don't play those games or speak that language anymore, the same bullsh!t she tried to convey on you will bounce right back at her because there's nowhere else for it to go.


Ive never met a girl that took a day or more to reply to every single text, and on top of this I made out with her three times, but she's been playing this game since day number 1.

That's why I'm surprised you're even still invested at all whatsoever in this chick (Which you may not be as much now, but you were enough to make this thread). Texting back days later is worse than not at all. She's basically treating you like her last used tampon. She couldn't give two fu*ks about it but she's scared to throw it away completely so instead she just let's it hang around "just in case."

...

 

[pyros]

yep.

I'd like to know what is really going on (is she really replying one or two days later on purpose? really? how sick you have to be to do that?), but as I said I do not care.
I just started this thread to share the experience, and to listen to some opinions but as I wrote before, she can go to hell. I'm not seing her again unless she tells me to go fuc-k her.


Sayonara!

 

[Bingo-Player]

I'd like to know what is really going on (is she really replying one or two days later on purpose? really? how sick you have to be to do that?), but as I said I do not care.

how old are you pyros ?

your lack of experience with women and they're ways is slightly worrying

ALL women have the ability to play the "il reply 2 days later game" if you allow her to do it

you show her your not about playing games and if that means walking into the sunset SO BE IT

 

[Pimp-sicle]

how old are you pyros ?

your lack of experience with women and they're ways is slightly worrying

ALL women have the ability to play the "il reply 2 days later game" if you allow her to do it

you show her your not about playing games and if that means walking into the sunset SO BE IT

Well said

Pyros the idea is to working so many different options, that you don't even notice when a girl flakes.

Women do this because like you (should), they have so many different options. If she's taking a couple days to reply, as you mentioned your a low priority because you didn't do anything to stand out from the crowd.

When you disappeared, it was predictable that she would come chasing.

Women run off emotion

Get those emotions on a roller coaster and you will be in the driver's seat.





PIMP