weird

[Ryan Adams]

ok met chick at bar was all over me all night brought her back to my place.... made out messed around no sex. should wouldnt let me. both passed out. she drops me off next day. now she hates me for some reason. I dont really care but it's odd what could it be? I did make out with her friend the night before maybe thats it? is that bad though?

 

[The Duke]

Could be that her friend and her compared notes. Or what is common is these girls start feeling guilty after they do things like this. They hate you instead of hating themselves.....its how their fragile ego's protect themselves.

 

[Ryan Adams]

does it look bad on my part to be making out with her friend or is it a good thing

 

[Ryan Adams]

Could be that her friend and her compared notes. Or what is common is these girls start feeling guilty after they do things like this. They hate you instead of hating themselves.....its how their fragile ego's protect themselves.

their loss

 

[sazc]

if you really want to know, take on the caring dude angle and text her and say you seem upset is there something we need to talk about? She might actually respond and tell you the truth and then you would know

 

[Ryan Adams]

I cant tell if your being sarcastic or not? haha

 

[sazc]

I cant tell if your being sarcastic or not? haha

im serious, what's it going to hurt? im not saying to pander to her but, if u know she's legit upset, send her a text saying "you seem upset, is there something we need to talk about?" and see what she says.

Maybe it is the friend you smacked on, maybe she IS feeling remorseful about slutting it up with you and is employing ASD, maybe it's something totally different like you didn't text her for a FULL hour after you guy parted ways.

This is a situation where, since you have outcome independence, it's not going to hurt to ask

 

[Ryan Adams]

I'll give it a shot.