Weird TXT Message? Female Game?

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Okay my ex, TXT me out of the blue.

Here is how the convo went. Let me know what you think this means and what I should do now.

Her: TXT me when you get home from work.

Me: Okay, I am home.

Her: Ok.

No phone call or anything, even though I was on the phone with a friend, but she could have called my cell. Why did she just say okay? Should I call her tommorow or should I ignore her? I am lost.
 

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Don't call her back.. You did what she asked and she didnt follow up.. So its her responsibillity now to make sure she gets back in touch with you. Don't act like you need to know what she wanted from you.
 

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yeah dude, dont call her back or nuthin....and when she does call you keep convo short...becasue your a busy man with stuff to do.
 

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Originally posted by Paid, Laid & Made
Her: TXT me when you get home from work.

Me: Okay, I am home.

Her: Ok.
"Puppy-training."

TXT her back "TXT me when you orgasm next."

See if she responds.
 

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First just to make sure you guys know this. I TXT'ed her back 5 hours after she asked me, therefore not being her little puppy dog. Secondly, she TXT'ed me back today saying "I am sorry, I was suppose to call you last night but I forgot." I never asked her too and well did not respond to her message the entire day, cause well I dont need her that badly. I hung with the guys and got myself a makeout session on Friday.

I will try the orgasm TXT next time, thanks for the tip ;)
 

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dude that is weird

call her out on it, dont be afraid to be a man

if she calls you or txts you again just say:

that was a really weird message, why would you simply want to know if i was home or call me? if theres something on your mind go on and tell me, there is no use in hiding what your thinking from me...

if she keeps BS'ing tell her, look i dont have time for games, i have to go, CLICK


SHE IS YOUR EX
 

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dude that is weird

call her out on it, dont be afraid to be a man

if she calls you or txts you again just say:

that was a really weird message, why would you simply want to know if i was home or call me? if theres something on your mind go on and tell me, there is no use in hiding what your thinking from me...

if she keeps BS'ing tell her, look i dont have time for games, i have to go, CLICK


SHE IS YOUR EX FOR A REASON
 

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Oh I know, she is getting desperate I can tell. I used all the techniques on her at the beginning of our relationship. C+F and jealousy and a bunch of other things, but I always remaind AFC and did everything just as I was told. Now I dont talk to her for a week at a time, do stuff with other girls which she find out through a mutual friend and well barely reply to her messages and dont have any hidin meaning in them or material she could read into.

Her: What ya doing?

Now remember I never replyed to her apology from this morning. I could seriously care less. She wrote this at about 6:17. I will respond later but in a rather casual manner. Phone convo will be held short as I got people to see and well things to do.
 

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Originally posted by Paid, Laid & Made
Oh I know, she is getting desperate I can tell. I used all the techniques on her at the beginning of our relationship. C+F and jealousy and a bunch of other things, but I always remaind AFC and did everything just as I was told. Now I dont talk to her for a week at a time, do stuff with other girls which she find out through a mutual friend and well barely reply to her messages and dont have any hidin meaning in them or material she could read into.

Her: What ya doing?

Now remember I never replyed to her apology from this morning. I could seriously care less. She wrote this at about 6:17. I will respond later but in a rather casual manner. Phone convo will be held short as I got people to see and well things to do.
if you seriously could care less about this girl then why do you care if she texts you... and why would you post her msg on a forum asking to translate it?

be honest with yourself... we cannot help you if you arent
 

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Okay, I care about what she is telling me. Cause I like wonder if I missing out on a great piece of ********. LOL, she is just flaky. I meant I care less about her. I have no sexual feeling towards her, I am boggled at the fact though, evertime I seem to get away, she does another very female thing, to capture my attention and waste my precious mental resources deciphering her flakyness.
 

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dude, you should know exactly what she is doing...

you said you are having a great time/show no interest in her/are going out with lots of girls... and she found all this out through a friend... so you didnt brag to her about it

she is realising what she has missed out on... she has been stuck on her ass doing nothing and sees you having the time of your life and wants some of it

the moment you start acting AFC again she will see she has control of you still and get tired of you... like she did before
 

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Oh yeah no ****. This very moment, she wrote me back again.

Me: "Nothing. Working till 8:30"

Her: "U SUCK. Call me later."

Now here she is demanding I call her, even though she wants to initiate in a convo with me. Secondly, I sense her giving me some lip service and her thinking she can get away with it. Now for all these other DJ'ers post your suggestion on how I should handle this situation right now. I am not about to go AFC again, I have been more traumatized by dating this girl then watching 90 year old people getting it on.
 

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I gave her a ring at like 10:06. Here is the story and how I ended it with dignity.

Her: "I am getting a kitty cause I can't join the Air Force."

Me: "That's nice?"

Her: "Yes and I am hanging on Friday with Michelle (Friend I tried to hook up with)"

Me: "That should be fun" *Sarcastic*

Her: "You sound upset at me or something"

Me: "Nah, girl everything is gravy, but I am still talking to you so ..."

Her: "What is that suppose to mean!?"

Me: "Read into anything you want ..."

Her: "**** You"

Me: "Sorry girl, I am the EX can't accept the offer"

Her: "Ohhhh ... sure"

Me: "Give me a sec" *Girl calls Cell*

Her: "Okay"

I have setup convo with the girl, to do something tommorow, so I decide to tell the EX I will call her back. Never did. Call time 4m 30sec.
 

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"Oh I know, she is getting desperate I can tell. I used all the techniques on her at the beginning of our relationship.

You're full'a shyt man. You are very transparent. I know we've butted heads in the past but your ego is just out of control Lets face it, you're still hung up on your ex. You're still hurting because of her. I can see it in everything you write. If not, you wouldn't be writing an entire thread based on a text message she sent you. You have a lot of spite towards her because she must have hurt you pretty bad. That is fine, and I don't think it's something you should be ashamed of. It happens to all of us. But where you're going to run into A LOT of problems is when you start projecting this onto other women.

You don't have to be an ass hole and have your guard up and pretend this is a war because it's not. That is a huge misperception that you have, and it's going to breed unnecessary, fvcked up actions that are going to kill a lot of your interactions before they have the time to develop.
 

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I know the both of us had this discussion before. I already admitted about my ego, having been slightly scratched. But in all honesty, the reason I made this thread is not to get back with her, but just to show a perfect example of some of the unpredicatable $hit women do. This thread is about a messed up TXT message associated with irrational female behaviour, not me wanting to hook back up with her. Also, I am not making a war out of this, I am playing childish games with her. I do not like playing them, but I like experiencing and learning new things. Everything she does is something new and pertains in one way or another to some topic posted before on this site.

Some guys on this site like dealing with $lutty girls in clubs, others with church going ones. I specialize myself in all of the above and take special interest in deciphering my ex's behaviour. If I would be the only man on this board writing stuff on the topic of their ex, you would not see posts about Oneinitis. My threads normally contain a bit of wisdom or something helpful for other DJ's and we both know it.
 

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Dude, this is worse than just having one-itis or whatever you want to call your strange fixation with your ex. It is an obvious case of OVER-ANALYZING. You practically admit it yourself in every post. We've heard more about your ex here in the last month than probably any other single girl in history. You claim that these posts are "unique" and "pertain to matters on this board" but I beg to differ. I don't see anyone else posting AIM conversations and text message logs with girls that they claim to have no interest in. I don't know what question you're trying to ask in this text-message post, but I already know the real answer: WHO GIVES A SH-T. Unless she text-messages you "come over and fcuk me right now", it honestly doesn't matter what she says or whether she calls you or anything else. It shouldn't matter to you, and it certainly doesn't matter to anyone else here.
 

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Fine, no problem. EX GF "over analyzing posts" will cease. LOL, I am in a more understanding mood now, she came over and I got head from playing these f'ed up games, proving that some chicks just dont work in a normal way. So I am very happy :) and dont have to post my hatred threads anymore.
 

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Its all good, its hard forgotting about that special girl, I know what your talking about. But yeah, maybe take a break for a few days / weeks collect yourself and come back and be all you can be. Right now you seemed distraught and fairly a wreck. It can't be healthy thinking about this girl as much as you do.
 

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StudMeister = Paid, Laid & Made

Why are you commenting on your own posts?
 
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