so i was out with my friends. WM1 WM2 hb7 hb7.5 and hb9. we were just out doing teenage stuff. hb7 and WM2 are "basically going out" WM1 and HB9 are f-buddys.
my friend(WM2) doesnt like me being a jerk. he always says stuff like "stop being so mean" or "you gotta stop being a jackass" "stop being such an *******" but not in front of girls but just when were alone. Is this normal or what? He says stuff like im wrong and they are right. Hes a really good friend and i dont think hes saying that to agree with them but more because he wants me to be nicer or something. I think also so that i will get along with his girlfriend (hb7). the jerkish things i do are like when they were squishing 4 people in the back of a car and they wanted to get out i said "im not getting out til you apologize." the other mean thing i said was "squishing in the back make it more fun, because we have something to joke about" then hb9 and hb7 say "Well thats easy for you to say because you sit up front" [i thought it was the alpha male thing to do, to get shotgun] then i said "okay well do you think its fun for me to listen to you guys ***** and complain about how you have to squish. how come hb7.5 and wm1 dont complain ever.
i guess my questions are, 1. if my friend doesnt want me to be a jerk, should i change my jerk somehow? also, 2. since hb9 and wm1 have a thing also hb7 and WM2 have a thing. how should i treat/talk to hb7.5 im thinking she already feels uncomfertable because its hinting us to get along/be intiment.
it was a ****ing weird ass night because hb7 hates me. says stuff like "i dont want him to go" but hb9 and wm2 think im cool. WM1 is more trustworthy than anyone else i know. then wm2 and hb9 are like "go talk to him/why dont you talk to her?" hb7.5 is also really quiet, the most socializing i did with hb7.5 is ask her to play cards. she just wanted to lay on the couch. was this prolly because she felt uncomfertable or because she was actually tired.
thanks
my friend(WM2) doesnt like me being a jerk. he always says stuff like "stop being so mean" or "you gotta stop being a jackass" "stop being such an *******" but not in front of girls but just when were alone. Is this normal or what? He says stuff like im wrong and they are right. Hes a really good friend and i dont think hes saying that to agree with them but more because he wants me to be nicer or something. I think also so that i will get along with his girlfriend (hb7). the jerkish things i do are like when they were squishing 4 people in the back of a car and they wanted to get out i said "im not getting out til you apologize." the other mean thing i said was "squishing in the back make it more fun, because we have something to joke about" then hb9 and hb7 say "Well thats easy for you to say because you sit up front" [i thought it was the alpha male thing to do, to get shotgun] then i said "okay well do you think its fun for me to listen to you guys ***** and complain about how you have to squish. how come hb7.5 and wm1 dont complain ever.
i guess my questions are, 1. if my friend doesnt want me to be a jerk, should i change my jerk somehow? also, 2. since hb9 and wm1 have a thing also hb7 and WM2 have a thing. how should i treat/talk to hb7.5 im thinking she already feels uncomfertable because its hinting us to get along/be intiment.
it was a ****ing weird ass night because hb7 hates me. says stuff like "i dont want him to go" but hb9 and wm2 think im cool. WM1 is more trustworthy than anyone else i know. then wm2 and hb9 are like "go talk to him/why dont you talk to her?" hb7.5 is also really quiet, the most socializing i did with hb7.5 is ask her to play cards. she just wanted to lay on the couch. was this prolly because she felt uncomfertable or because she was actually tired.
thanks
