Weird/Mixed Signals...

[RangerMIke]

Her age is only my estimate. She could be older, and I'm pretty sure she thinks (like everybody else I've talked to at the beach) that I'm much younger. She talks to the other (much) older dudes at the beach anyway. She's super chatty with others in general.

That is why I said 'appears'. I agree, when you first meet someone you not know someone's actual age. To a woman, if she appears to be in her late 30s, but looks like she is in her late 20s... in her mind she is in her late 20s. If a man is in his mid-50s, but can pass for someone in their mid-40s... then she will take that at face value and assume you are what you appear.

This actually happens to me quite a bit, I can pass for someone 10 years younger and when a woman finds out my actual age... poof... if that is a problem for her she is gone. Which is fine, it is what it is. You can't control what a woman wants if you don't have it.

 

[Ottocinclus]

UPDATE:

I pretty much forgot about her, but I guess "she's back."

She paddled up to me and started talking out of the blue like she kinda knew me already. I had never actually spoken to her before. The next day I see her waxing her board in the parking lot as I was walking by. She just started talking loudly, like she was calling me over. I stopped and chatted for a bit. I was tempted to ask for her number, but she wasn't facing me; she had her side toward me and was mostly focused on what she was doing and seemed kinda "guarded."

In both instances she cut the conversation short even though she started them. I can tell she seemed surprised by the way that I spoke. I said something funny, and I could tell she was trying to hold herself back from laughing, like she didn't want to give me the satisfaction of making her laugh.

I think she's older than I thought she was now that I've seen her up close. She's just in really good shape with a teenager's body (all that surfing I guess). Anyway, I get game-player vibes, but I'll play along and see where this goes. I saw her last weekend, and I'll probably see her again this weekend.

 

[SW15]

I saw her last weekend, and I'll probably see her again this weekend.

Get her out on a date. Then, get her back to your place.

 

[Ottocinclus]

Get her out on a date. Then, get her back to your place.

That's the plan, but she just confuses me. Maybe I'm just wasting my time here, but I'll go for it and just forget about her if there is any more weirdness.

 

[SW15]

That's the plan, but she just confuses me. Maybe I'm just wasting my time here, but I'll go for it and just forget about her if there is any more weirdness.

Mixed signals are always a waste of time. Women with high interest level are going to make things easier for you.

 

[Ottocinclus]

UPDATE2:

I logged on to this forum after a hiatus and remembered this thread.

Just for ****s and giggles (and because I like to write):

After the UPDATE above, she suddenly stopped talking to me again. After that, I was like "I'm so done" and just completely avoided her and went about my business.

Months went by, and she completely disappeared by the time Spring rolled around. Then one July evening I was out surfing pretty much by myself. I usually surf in the mornings, but it was a nice evening. I'm floating out there, and then I notice a girl walking towards me on the beach. She gets on her board and paddles straight towards me. I'm like, "It's her. WTF??"

She came right up to me and started talking like we've always known each other. Pretty much told me her life story and would ask me all these personal questions. But at the same time she was constantly mentioning her boyfriend. Apparently a lot had happened in her life. She was living with this dude now in a nearby, kinda famous surf town. She also found a new job in this town and was telling me about her plans to get a Sprinter van and live near the beach (rent is SUPER expensive there). This went on for like an hour, and it was getting dark as we floated out there. Then she sort of snapped out of it and abruptly said, "I gotta go" and paddled back to shore. As she left, I swear I could tell that she looked sad. I saw her one more time as she drove by, and she waved at me. Haven't seen her since.

Is that all weird, or what? I'm guessing this boyfriend is the reason why she was so in and out. And he also lives in a cool surf town and works in the surfing industry. Perfect opportunity for her....