Weird hangout with GenZ chick

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she told me was some woke nonsense about how she identifies.
All gen Z are like this

She says he does know and then she shrugs it off.
So he's a simp

She called him her " partner".
This is definitely a millenial/gen Z trend. Calling someone your partner translates to: "this is the person I am dating but am not sexually/romantically attracted to"
 
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It seems like she told you she had a boyfriend by using the term "partner". Is that true?

The post below that I have linked is a Rollo Tomassi post on how to handle the "I Have a Boyfriend" announcement.


Bottom line: if you decided to go forward with the hang session, you are free to try to escalate. I could understand someone giving you the IHAB line via text messaging and you not deciding to spend time with her in-person.

Over the years, most of the Manosphere type articles/advices have typically advised on getting the IHAB line face-to-face. When getting the IHAB face-to-face, definitely ignore it and continue to escalate. However, with most interactions involving more indirect, asynchronous communication in text-based messaging, getting the IHAB in this form allows you the option to not show up to something in-person or going forward in-person and trying to escalate in a real world situation.



This is true. Earlier Millennials (think 1981-1986 births) are going to notice differences between themselves and the first half of Gen Z (1997-early 2000s births) that has now entered adulthood. The latter part of Gen Z has yet to reach adulthood. Even some of the latter part of the Millennial generation (1992-1996) is a bit like Gen Z from the perspective of an earlier Millennial.



That's quite common when dealing with a Gen Z person. I asked out a Gen Z woman earlier this year and got that response. I did this at a fitness class when the class instructor was a Gen Z. The primary reason I asked out the class instructor is because none of the female class attendees that day were attractive. I ended up chatting up the class instructor and got the excuse about her "partner". In a setting like the grocery store, an outdoor path, or the mall, I likely would have ignored that declaration and used a boyfriend destroyer line. Since she was a class instructor at my gym, my hands were tied as to what I could do. She mentioned her partner and offered to hang out as friends, which I refused. I stated that due to my high value, I do not accept male-female platonic friendship. I think that impressed her. I was in her class after that interaction without incident, though in subsequent class visits I didn't say much to her other than maybe the word 'hello'.



The woman had the potential to be DTF. This sounds like a White woman and a woke White woman would be down for sex with a Black man.

She likely worked in academia, some government job, and/or was a social worker.
Over text she said " in a relationship". When I was on her couch she said " partner". I tend to be reluctant to escalate on girls with bf's unless they make the first move. I want to gauge how serious the relationship is first. I have however hooked up with girls with boyfriends so I am not trying to act virtuous.

She def worked in academia, govt job and/or social worker. She was raised very white but is not white. Everything else is spot on though.

Also it is very depressing when a woman with a bf wants to hang out alone. It makes your paranoid about any relationship you get into after.
 

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All gen Z are like this



So he's a simp



This is definitely a millenial/gen Z trend. Calling someone your partner translates to: "this is the person I am dating but am not sexually/romantically attracted to"
Yeh thats what I am thinking. The bf might be a weak soy GenZ guy and she might not be extremely sexually attracted to him. I would like to believe that if a girl really loves you she would want to call you her "bf" or " her man" instead of partner.

Who knows if this girl is down to escalate with me. We will see.
 

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it is very depressing when a woman with a bf wants to hang out alone. It makes your paranoid about any relationship you get into after.
Most women with boyfriends don't want to hang out alone with the typical guy who approaches them in non-bar settings. Not too many men approach women in non-bar setting either. The non-bar approach is a bit of a fading art, in part because it is so non-productive. Even a well practiced non-bar approacher has a low success rate for setting up first dates.

Most women with boyfriends aren't going to bars either, so that will reduce the quantity of approaches.

High value men might send women with boyfriends DMs on Instagram, so those women might be open for a hangout.

It's not difficult at all for any woman with a boyfriend to monkey branch to a new boyfriend. The thing that reduces the incidence of monkey branching is the ability to upgrade. While a woman can monkey branch easily, a monkey branch that represents an upgrade is more challenging.
 

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Yeh thats what I am thinking. The bf might be a weak soy GenZ guy and she might not be extremely sexually attracted to him. I would like to believe that if a girl really loves you she would want to call you her "bf" or " her man" instead of partner.

Who knows if this girl is down to escalate with me. We will see.
High quality women who are in a happy committed relationship are closed off and do not make themselves available to even be hit on or chatted up in any way shape or form (assuming of course the guy isn't autistic and misreading her).

If a guy sees a girl who looks receptive to an approach/getting hit on, it basically implies she's keeping her options open, monkey branching, spinning plates, whatever - something in her body language, outfits, etc is saying "i'm available and looking" and whether she has a BF or not is irrelevant, it's more about what her intentions are.

If she says "I have a BF" that can be a kind of a half-assed attempt at reflecting an advance, but saying "partner" is a fvcking joke. No women truly respects a man if she calls him her "partner".
 
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You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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If she says "I have a BF" that can be a kind of a half-assed attempt at reflecting an advance, but saying "partner" is a fvcking joke. No women truly respects a man if she calls him her "partner".
One of them said, "I have a Daddy."
 

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Over text she said " in a relationship". When I was on her couch she said " partner". I tend to be reluctant to escalate on girls with bf's unless they make the first move. I want to gauge how serious the relationship is first. I have however hooked up with girls with boyfriends so I am not trying to act virtuous.

She def worked in academia, govt job and/or social worker. She was raised very white but is not white. Everything else is spot on though.

Also it is very depressing when a woman with a bf wants to hang out alone. It makes your paranoid about any relationship you get into after.
It most likely means the relationship is more one of convenience than actual interest. Most women who want to hang out alone with guys are not going to even mention they have a boyfriend.
 

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So I met a 22yr old. She asked me to hang out sometime. She texted me a few days later to jump her car. I did. A few days later she invited me to hang. Before we finally chilled she told me she had a bf. Okay cool.

I got over there the first thing she told me was some woke nonsense about how she identifies. I told her that I am a male chauavnist. We kinda shared an akward laugh. I asked her how does her bf allow her to hang with other dudes? Does he know?

She says he does know and then she shrugs it off. We hang and smoke. I then excuse myself because I did not want to meet her bf if he came over. She may or may not be lying about the bf thing.

She called him her " partner". Basically GenZ is nuts. The females are crazy and the men are super weak. In the abscence of masculinity women will become masculine. It was bizarre.
The hell did u waste ur time with this goofball for?
 

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So I met a 22yr old. She asked me to hang out sometime. She texted me a few days later to jump her car. I did. A few days later she invited me to hang. Before we finally chilled she told me she had a bf. Okay cool.

I got over there the first thing she told me was some woke nonsense about how she identifies. I told her that I am a male chauavnist. We kinda shared an akward laugh. I asked her how does her bf allow her to hang with other dudes? Does he know?

She says he does know and then she shrugs it off. We hang and smoke. I then excuse myself because I did not want to meet her bf if he came over. She may or may not be lying about the bf thing.

She called him her " partner". Basically GenZ is nuts. The females are crazy and the men are super weak. In the abscence of masculinity women will become masculine. It was bizarre.
Gen-Z chicks are different, a lot of them have drank the woke kool aide nonsense, even the pretty ones
I remember I was dealing with this 24 year old who idnetified as "Queer" wouldn't have known it the way she was loving the sausage
 

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Gen-Z chicks are different, a lot of them have drank the woke kool aide nonsense, even the pretty ones
I remember I was dealing with this 24 year old who idnetified as "Queer" wouldn't have known it the way she was loving the sausage
"Queer" is a meaningless term, just like pansexual or any of the other meaningless phrases these people have made up.

It's nothing more than an identity which translates precisely to "I'm special and believe in LGBT ideology".

The hell did u waste ur time with this goofball for?
Almost all Gen Z women are nutjobs, just gotta deal with it in exchange for the benefits younger women offer. It's not hard to crack them most of them can't even explain any of the things they believe in let alone why they believe in them.
 
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Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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"Queer" is a meaningless term, just like pansexual or any of the other meaningless phrases these people have made up.

It's nothing more than an identity which translates precisely to "I'm special and believe in LGBT ideology".


Almost all Gen Z women are nutjobs, just gotta deal with it in exchange for the benefits younger women offer. It's not hard to crack them most of them can't even explain any of the things they believe in let alone why they believe in them.
Serisuly? queer use to mean gay but anyway she broke up with me because I wasn't rocking with the LGBT agenda, not gonna lie she had a juicy a$$ but Gen-Z chicks a lot of them are very masculine even if they are feminine looking, it's ike american women are becoming more and more like men
 

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Hi Pierce,
"Does “hang” mean have sex? "....Down Under in Australia we use something similar,so if you meet a single Mate you will ask "Who are you hanging out OF these days"which loosely translates to,with whom are you enjoying the pleasures of the bedroom...Subtly different to "Who are you hanging out WITH..."which asks about his current friends...A Brit would understand that too.
But during a pandemic, there's no hanging out "with", only hanging out "of". :D
 

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Serisuly? queer use to mean gay
Yes it did, and now it means nothing. Seriously, I've asked about a dozen different women what it means and they all give a different (non) answer.

Gen-Z chicks a lot of them are very masculine even if they are feminine looking
No idea why. I heard birth control is in our water supply which is causing men to be more feminine but that doesn't explain why women are more masculine. Hormones might have social factors.
 

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Serisuly? queer use to mean gay
And now it means 'I'm ambivalent about my sexual orientation, but I don't want to pigeonhole myself, so I'm just strange'.
 
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