About 4 years ago I had a brief thing with this girl while she was ending things with her boyfriend. We messed around but never had sex. Then we didn't see each other for awhile because we both had school. Fastforward to the past 6 months. She contacts me to hang out a lot, I don't think she has many friends and I don't mind chilling w/ her. She is very flirty, but never lets me escalate. I also have been ignoring her texts completely and she continuously texts me until I answer. She comes over last night and is laying in my bed...I lay next to her and go to put my arm around her...she says "get off"...I say "oook weirdo...this is my bed ya know" Shortly after she says she's tired and leaves. Also she constantly asks me about other girls that I talk to and was mad when I got a hickey on my neck...What do I do with this chick? Get rid of her completely? I'm too attracted to just be friends w her.
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she is using you as a time filler, ego booster
drop....next
drop....next
Mike32ct
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Yeah dump this cawk teaser asap. Or just mess with her for fun...
Her: What girls are you seeing right now?
You: None just men lol.
Her: C'mon who gave you that hickey?
You: I'm not giving you his name lol.
Her: I hate you.
You: Love you too.
Her: What girls are you seeing right now?
You: None just men lol.
Her: C'mon who gave you that hickey?
You: I'm not giving you his name lol.
Her: I hate you.
You: Love you too.
SoSuave666
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She's gotta get her attention from someone bro. You just happen to be the chump she is gettin it from.
On another note, it's no big deal if some chick isn't interested in you. Not every woman is going to be all over your d!ck every day. If you haven't made a sincere move on her other than "putting your arm around her," I would try. Maybe go in for a kiss or something when you are out together. Something light and fun. If she still pulls away, eject. I don't like early nexts, but you DO have rapport already built with this woman. How does she view you? Were you a chump kinda dude in the past? Or were you a DON with a behemoth dong who swang it at every chick in the world? It's hard for girls from the past to shake a perception of someone they have known a long time.
Make a more intense move on her when you are alone with her. If she rejects, you eject. That simple.
On another note, it's no big deal if some chick isn't interested in you. Not every woman is going to be all over your d!ck every day. If you haven't made a sincere move on her other than "putting your arm around her," I would try. Maybe go in for a kiss or something when you are out together. Something light and fun. If she still pulls away, eject. I don't like early nexts, but you DO have rapport already built with this woman. How does she view you? Were you a chump kinda dude in the past? Or were you a DON with a behemoth dong who swang it at every chick in the world? It's hard for girls from the past to shake a perception of someone they have known a long time.
Make a more intense move on her when you are alone with her. If she rejects, you eject. That simple.
jglide123
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I think any guy with a modicum of experience has come across this type; she's the classic coquette (or straight up bipolar...is there even a difference?).
In Robert Greene's book The Art of Seduction, he details the many seductive types throughout history (I suggest you read it for a more detailed explanation), and the coquette is one of them. Coquette's are usually very attractive; a woman would have to be in order to blatantly and intensely tease guys, then subsequently turn them down, only to have them come back for more. That's the cycle.
With the coquette, one minute she's hot, the next minute she's cold. One day she's all flirty and sweet, the next day she's cold and distant. It's basically the ol' push/pull method. Women have been using this method on men for centuries to enthrall them. It's all about control with these types. She knows she has something of value in your eyes, so she can get away with playing around with your emotions.
I guess the big question you need to ask yourself is "Am I willing to play these hot and cold games, all in the name of some poontang?" Personally, I don't like coquettish girls. They're the consummate game-players, definitely not suitable to date. As others have suggested, just make one last BOLD move on her, and if she turns you down, dismiss this chick.
In Robert Greene's book The Art of Seduction, he details the many seductive types throughout history (I suggest you read it for a more detailed explanation), and the coquette is one of them. Coquette's are usually very attractive; a woman would have to be in order to blatantly and intensely tease guys, then subsequently turn them down, only to have them come back for more. That's the cycle.
With the coquette, one minute she's hot, the next minute she's cold. One day she's all flirty and sweet, the next day she's cold and distant. It's basically the ol' push/pull method. Women have been using this method on men for centuries to enthrall them. It's all about control with these types. She knows she has something of value in your eyes, so she can get away with playing around with your emotions.
I guess the big question you need to ask yourself is "Am I willing to play these hot and cold games, all in the name of some poontang?" Personally, I don't like coquettish girls. They're the consummate game-players, definitely not suitable to date. As others have suggested, just make one last BOLD move on her, and if she turns you down, dismiss this chick.
Thanks for all the feedback, yeah I actually have tried to escalate with her and I've kissed her on the lips before...I also blatantly tell her I love her ass and play with it/grab it whenever I feel like...I agree about the time filler thing because she has even admitted to using other guys as the same thing...going full cold shoulder on her...unfortunately she's coming out on my friend's boat tomorrow :/