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Don Juan
I've just about given up, please read and reply, I'd appreciate it more than words.
Alright, I like to think of myself as not having too much trouble talking to girls I like. This is a really wierd situation though.
I'm 18 and just outta high school. I asked this sophomore out (Danielle) last May (first cold approach). unfortunately she had a bf
. Now, her best friend at the time was sitting right next to her (they were inseperable at the time). This chick (Elysse), is pretty cute, so i had a little bit of a hard time figuring out whom to ask. Turns out Elysse was single (and still is).
In August my friend (who has a gf that's a teammate of Elysse), told me that Elysse said she would have said yes to me on the spot if i had just asked her. This perplexed me. Did this mean she would still say yes? Or did it mean I had my chance and blew it? This was the source of all the mistakes I've madew with this girl.
I was hesitant. I was unsure if she would label me a dog to everyone she knew for asking her out after doing the same to her friend and being turned down. So I went to a couple of her field hockey games, talked to her briefly on the phone, but then i decided it was really uncomfortable for me, and disrespectful to her, for me to pursue her after what I did. So I essentially broke contact with her. Keep in mind i wasn't really to speaking terms with her in the first place.
But it gets worse, oh yes. Now, I pick my brother up everyday from the highschool at lunch. This is about the same time the field hockey team is waiting out front to be taken to their away games. So at this point I'm waiting in my car about 100 feet away, so great, now not only do I have a hesitancy to talk to her, but now it just looks like I'm stalking her.
At this point, what I would like to do most is to some how communicate to her that I'm interested in her, but that I felt I was disrespecting her by showing interest given what happened with her best friend while she was sitting right next to her. I could do it on the phone outta nowhere, or in person; either way it will be awkward. Things would just go from there. If I got good, or bad vibes, I would act accordingly and be done. Problem is, there's this weird senitment built up (prolly mostly my fault) that's kept me from just goin up and talkin to her, but now I need to, just for the sake of letting her know I'm not the creep she thinks I am (I hear much of the team is talking about me, and whenever I see one of them anywhere they keep looking at me.)
I REALLY don't care if I get with this chick, I just HATE worrying about this whole situation, because I can't simply avoid it since there are factors outta my control.
If this didn't make any sense to you I don't blame you, but if it does, I would love some advice, because I've just got too much other stuff goin on to worry about this. Ask questions if you need to.
Alright, I like to think of myself as not having too much trouble talking to girls I like. This is a really wierd situation though.
I'm 18 and just outta high school. I asked this sophomore out (Danielle) last May (first cold approach). unfortunately she had a bf
. Now, her best friend at the time was sitting right next to her (they were inseperable at the time). This chick (Elysse), is pretty cute, so i had a little bit of a hard time figuring out whom to ask. Turns out Elysse was single (and still is).In August my friend (who has a gf that's a teammate of Elysse), told me that Elysse said she would have said yes to me on the spot if i had just asked her. This perplexed me. Did this mean she would still say yes? Or did it mean I had my chance and blew it? This was the source of all the mistakes I've madew with this girl.
I was hesitant. I was unsure if she would label me a dog to everyone she knew for asking her out after doing the same to her friend and being turned down. So I went to a couple of her field hockey games, talked to her briefly on the phone, but then i decided it was really uncomfortable for me, and disrespectful to her, for me to pursue her after what I did. So I essentially broke contact with her. Keep in mind i wasn't really to speaking terms with her in the first place.
But it gets worse, oh yes. Now, I pick my brother up everyday from the highschool at lunch. This is about the same time the field hockey team is waiting out front to be taken to their away games. So at this point I'm waiting in my car about 100 feet away, so great, now not only do I have a hesitancy to talk to her, but now it just looks like I'm stalking her.
At this point, what I would like to do most is to some how communicate to her that I'm interested in her, but that I felt I was disrespecting her by showing interest given what happened with her best friend while she was sitting right next to her. I could do it on the phone outta nowhere, or in person; either way it will be awkward. Things would just go from there. If I got good, or bad vibes, I would act accordingly and be done. Problem is, there's this weird senitment built up (prolly mostly my fault) that's kept me from just goin up and talkin to her, but now I need to, just for the sake of letting her know I'm not the creep she thinks I am (I hear much of the team is talking about me, and whenever I see one of them anywhere they keep looking at me.)
I REALLY don't care if I get with this chick, I just HATE worrying about this whole situation, because I can't simply avoid it since there are factors outta my control.
If this didn't make any sense to you I don't blame you, but if it does, I would love some advice, because I've just got too much other stuff goin on to worry about this. Ask questions if you need to.
