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J. Darko said:
Thnx. I'm out of the hospital now and invited the girl for a drink. She invited me to her concert instead. That concert turned out to be a gathering of very religious students with her singing psalms with her friends, followed by a lecture about freedom of sin...

Went for a drink after all that anyway, but it was boring. The only think that happened on the date was us sitting on a chair with her talking for an hour and me listening for an hour.

On the one hand, I am wondering what I can do to make a date exciting. On the other hand I am wondering wether I am being too hard on myself again and should stop analyzing this and forget about it. After all, I have next to no experience with women, but the last time I went on a date, it was literally a walk in the park. We walked in the park, talked, set on a bench and she started staring at me with her eyes commandinf me to kiss her. So I did. It was that easy.

But this time, with this girl nothing happened. What are your thoughts on this?
Generally speaking, religious girls are going to be rather reserved. They usually expect the whole song and dance. There isn't anything wrong with this, but if you're looking for debauchery, look elsewhere. Personally, if I find out that a girl is religious, I'm out the door as quick as possible.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Generally speaking, religious girls are going to be rather reserved. They usually expect the whole song and dance. There isn't anything wrong with this, but if you're looking for debauchery, look elsewhere. Personally, if I find out that a girl is religious, I'm out the door as quick as possible.
Haha, I feel ya, but I'm in desperate need of experience and social contacts. She would be one of many people I left behind, but I here I am, all alone. I guess I just put up with it without puttingin too much effort.
 
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Haha, I feel ya, but I'm in desperate need of experience and social contacts. She would be one of many people I left behind, but I here I am, all alone. I guess I just put up with it without puttingin too much effort.
I never said that you shouldn't have a good time with her. If you enjoy her company, then go for it.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I never said that you shouldn't have a good time with her. If you enjoy her company, then go for it.
I enjoy her company but the religious part makes me cringe and makes me wish I was dating a wild girl that does everything God forbids. Complicated. Maybe it's just the fact that she provides a company, rather than that I enjoy her kind of company in specific.

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I feel like slipping into my old habits again. In the hospital the prospect of getting out, working out again and getting a job excited me. I said I was going to enjoy every moment of life but after a busy day here I am sitting behind the computer analyzing diet, training, girls and life again. I need to get out. Get busy, do something fun. Arrrgghhh...
 
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