Shivastorm_88
Senior Don Juan
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- Jul 10, 2007
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Yes I'm actually serious, smoking makes me do crazy introspection and I realized the main source of one of my main problem (not my inner-self problems, those I'm working on): The problem I have with approaching girls
Just a little background info so you guys can know where I'm at. I have a hard time approaching any girl that I find hot (ok I think that's enough background).
Here's the thing: I see approaching girl as the end, not as the mean. Or if you prefer, I see it as the effect, when it should be the cause. Approaching girls, getting a girl, getting laid, anything related to girl should never be considered as the end. It should simply be one of the many means that you take toward self-improvement. The end should always be in something that you can control (your own success, not just with girls, but in life), not something that you lack control of.
So if you're like me, too scared to approach because too scared of getting rejected, don't see banging that one chick out of a million out there like the ultimate goal of a life-time. See it instead as the mean to your own entertainment. Approach her, get rejected (if you do) and laugh it off, and realize that it has now became a mean to what should really be the end (self-actualization).
So yeah, weed is cool
Just a little background info so you guys can know where I'm at. I have a hard time approaching any girl that I find hot (ok I think that's enough background).
Here's the thing: I see approaching girl as the end, not as the mean. Or if you prefer, I see it as the effect, when it should be the cause. Approaching girls, getting a girl, getting laid, anything related to girl should never be considered as the end. It should simply be one of the many means that you take toward self-improvement. The end should always be in something that you can control (your own success, not just with girls, but in life), not something that you lack control of.
So if you're like me, too scared to approach because too scared of getting rejected, don't see banging that one chick out of a million out there like the ultimate goal of a life-time. See it instead as the mean to your own entertainment. Approach her, get rejected (if you do) and laugh it off, and realize that it has now became a mean to what should really be the end (self-actualization).
So yeah, weed is cool
