website to be kept secret?

[Vincent]

Originally posted by UltraMan
Exactly. I just told a friend about the site to help him with a girl situation and his reply? "You must be kidding".

Ya man, I never quite understood why people have that reaction. I suppose they just think the internet is always LOL nerds LOL and there is no way in hell people that are good with ladies use it, or even then make a website about it. Oh well, its there loss .

But ya, people find this on there own, when the time is ready.

 

[Dukester]

I agree with keeping this place quiet. It is too valuable of info to be thrown around to people that dont want to hear it, people who dont value it, and people who arent ready to change.

I was recommended this site by a friend a few months ago, when I was majorly an AFC. In this case he thought that the info on SoSuave would help me.

When I first came to this site, i was kind of disgusted. I was a little jealous, and surprised at how successfull and informative all these guys were. I WANTED to change though. I stuck with the board, and the more I saw, the more I liked.

Now, been here for 3 months, and IMO am one of the better posters. I offer advice, and rarely do I seek it now.

Only in extreme cases might you recommend this site to someone. I dont like to give it out, plus it gives you competition, and why do you want that?

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

Why help the competition ...I only give advice to my closest friends.

 

[JDW]

I searched the net for advice on girls and David DeAngelo was the first thing I found. I eventually purchased his eBook which started me down the road of self improvement through education and of course action too (though this is proving harder than the education part!). I'm only just starting out and new hear but I'm loving it so far, very motivational.

I'm slowly reading through all the materials and I must admit I prefer this site over everything because it's about guys helping guys without profits...unlike some authors out there. I don't hold it against them or anything and kudos to them for finding a market need and creating a business around it but the vibe here is much better.

Joe

 

[captn caveman]

Some are ready, some are not

I would say I made the mistake of giving the website to two or three guys.

The idea is, if you are not ready to make the move away from your unsuccessfull but safe and known life with women, you are not.

And you will not accept any help from some site on the net.

The same with David. I purchased David, and upon finishing it, gave them to buddies, who, are not going to be my competition anyway.

Same. When you are not ready, you are not.

Because, when you are ready for these things, you are ready to open your eyes, you have the guts to change things, and belief inyourself. The unknown is not so scary, and nor is it to leave safe waters to start the venture for paradise in the open high seas.

When I found this site, I was ready and willing to do anything it takes, and did it, and managed it.

Somebody who will get the site from you, will not believe in it, will not try it, except the fast info,like pick up lines, will not go into self improvement.

Some may even go talk to other guys that you learned the stuff from web (did not happen to me), but what difference does it make, when you are rejecting women who they would marry, dating the ones they would die for?


After trying it out myself, I say let them come here if they find it.

One exception is, my bro, who will undergo the education I lacked at his age.

 

[JDW]

I showed some mates the David D book too, even showed some girls it too (big mistake!). My mates enjoyed the book but that's it. Certainly it has not changed their behaviour at all. Worst thing was one even said this sort of education was only useful for picking up the hot girls (that's NOT a good argument for not using the materials).

 

[felony]

I haven't read this whole thread... but i would say , just to add my opinion, not to tell people about the forum itself... let people discover this site on there own- and they will more than likely- once they are determined enough to make a difference.

 

[[look]aRhino]

I'd have to disagree with everyone on here, you *can* tell someone, you just need to be carefull who you tell it to.

I was told about this place, I didn't find it. First thing I did was scoff at the guy, "help from the internet" I said, "on dating chicks, thats ridiculous".

He looked at me, smiled and said "cause what you're doing right now works so well."

So i gave it a shot, and along with working out, has made a HUGE difference in my life.


On the flip side of the coin, i've told a lot of my close friends about it, and while few of them laughed in my face, none of them have looked at it. You just need to know who is ready to change, who has accepted the way things are.

So tell people if you think they need to be told, otherwise people like me will go lost, theres no need to make it a hard and fast rule not to tell anyone.

Rhino

 

[lYlasTer]

You don't find the website, the website finds you. When you are at the point in your life where everything is going wrong with girls, you will find this site. When you get put into the friend zone by the girl of your dreams, when you want to learn how to ask a girl out on a date, or when you want to improve yourself confidence wise, this site will show up.

 

[unformed]

I'll agree.... I'm not exactly sure how I found this site, but it's a godsend.

A few months ago, my roommate and his girlfreind told me to read one of those dating ebooks ... i was like nah, i don't need that sh.t .....

eventually, i realized, you know, i'm not getting laid right now, so what can it hurt? I blow $30 at a bar anyways .... so I bought DeAngelo's ebook ...

It was intersting, but I needed more .... so I found fastseduction.com ..... That was pretty good, but I still wanted more .... I'm not sure exactly what I did to find this site, but I think I typed in something like "AFC forum" in google, or something along the lines of that, and when I found this, it was a godsend.

I know for a fact my friends wouldn't use this. My other roommate laughed at me when he heard one of David's Dating CDs in my CD Player...... whatever, I don't care ..... I see myself getting much better on a daily basis...



Once I'm really good, I'd probably give the ebook to one or two friends who saw me change, and tell them to ****ing read it.

 

[Senior Ding-Dong]

Hypnotiq sums it up i think. excellent quote