weather and motivation

[cNfny]

ok this seems to happen to me annually around this time. fall sets in, temperatures drop to a chilly sensation and i lose my sexual appetite which i seek to satisfy with girls whom i find physically attractive.

i begin disassociating myself with the game, try less, become lazy and i ponder the possibility of having a "cool chick" i can call my own. i dont like it, in the sense that wanting this makes it extremely hard to obtain, sets the idea of a girl like that to the scarcity scale and i almost fall into a "i'm lonely" state.

can anyone relate or give advice?

 

[ketostix]

Yes I can relate to cold weather putting a damper on my game and how I feel, somewhat. I live in the midwest and it gets cold starting late October if not earlier. I can deal with it until maybe New Year's then forget about it. I still go out though, and most of my hookups have happened in winter.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

not weird at all... mines totally opposite though.

when spring comes around, for me, endorphins are released like crazy. i get a good feeling of wanting to hug everyone. girl's looks go up a notch... ugly girls become decent, decent girls become pretty, pretty to hot... etc.

same for fall.

probably because fall is a sign for me to find a chick to cozy up next to some fireplace. or to just simply just because in ohio, weather becomes perfect... sunny, breezy, and clear skies.

 

[cNfny]

yea it can get a bit depressing. since cool girls are hard to find it almost makes you discouraged out of the blue.