A few weeks ago, on a whim, I went to a pawn shop and bought a $15 ring. It was relatively cheap but ironically enough I have got compliments on how nice it is. I decided to put it on my ring finger instead of another finger.
I was thinking, could this be used as a demonstration of higher value, even though I'm not married? As I have heard, women are often more attracted to married men over single men. This is because if a girl knows you are in a relationship with another girl, you have been pre-selected and therefore gain social proof.
Say, for example, I'm meeting a girl for the first time. Or say some chick gives me IOIs in public, like on the subway, campus, mall, etc. Initially, the ring might scare her away and she will assume that I'm not single. But I start talking to her. I start hitting on her. All the while, she realizes that I have a ring on my finger.
This then triggers mixed signals in her mind. "He's married/engaged, but is hitting on me?" Women, of course, are emotional creatures, and such inner psychological conflict will increase her attraction towards you. A sense of infidelity-driven drama and mystery comes into play. She may see you as potentially trying to act unfaithful and although this is stigmatized in our culture, on an instinctual level, she will see you as more alpha.
Of course, the possibility of her asking about the ring will inevitably come up, if you get to know her long enough and establish rapport. This is where LYING comes into play. I have no reservations about lying to a girl to get what I need. In the past, I have played the beta "nice guy" to lure her in, then became the outcome-independent "jerk" later on to emotionally-stimulate her and have her see me a new, hyper-sexualized light. If she asks, I can either say it's a "promise ring" for another girl or, if my lying skills are up to par, I can make up a full-blown lie, play the Talented Mr. Ripley, and say that I'm engaged or married. Maybe I will explain that my "wife" is "nice" and our relationship is "fine." I am hoping that words such as these will have the girl intuitively believe that I am not really attracted to my "wife" all that much, and am, subconsciously, looking to hook up with another women. Even if I say the ring is not meant for anything or anyone in particular, she may still think I'm lying, especially if seem "playerish" enough for her.
I will try to downplay the existence and description of the fake "wife" as much as possible during the attraction process and distract her with other acts of flirtation and attraction-tactics. Meanwhile, I plant this seed that I am not single in the back of her mind, even though I really am.
SoSuave members, could this potentially be a good idea? I am not that experienced with women so I may be completely wrong but, like I said, I feel a ring will automatically have a girl believe that I am pre-selected and act as DHV.
Thoughts? (Note: I am only 21, and I am aiming for girls in the 17-24 years-old range, particularly those who are naive when it comes to the concept of marriage and LTRs... any woman older than this will certainly have the experience to call my bluff).
I was thinking, could this be used as a demonstration of higher value, even though I'm not married? As I have heard, women are often more attracted to married men over single men. This is because if a girl knows you are in a relationship with another girl, you have been pre-selected and therefore gain social proof.
Say, for example, I'm meeting a girl for the first time. Or say some chick gives me IOIs in public, like on the subway, campus, mall, etc. Initially, the ring might scare her away and she will assume that I'm not single. But I start talking to her. I start hitting on her. All the while, she realizes that I have a ring on my finger.
This then triggers mixed signals in her mind. "He's married/engaged, but is hitting on me?" Women, of course, are emotional creatures, and such inner psychological conflict will increase her attraction towards you. A sense of infidelity-driven drama and mystery comes into play. She may see you as potentially trying to act unfaithful and although this is stigmatized in our culture, on an instinctual level, she will see you as more alpha.
Of course, the possibility of her asking about the ring will inevitably come up, if you get to know her long enough and establish rapport. This is where LYING comes into play. I have no reservations about lying to a girl to get what I need. In the past, I have played the beta "nice guy" to lure her in, then became the outcome-independent "jerk" later on to emotionally-stimulate her and have her see me a new, hyper-sexualized light. If she asks, I can either say it's a "promise ring" for another girl or, if my lying skills are up to par, I can make up a full-blown lie, play the Talented Mr. Ripley, and say that I'm engaged or married. Maybe I will explain that my "wife" is "nice" and our relationship is "fine." I am hoping that words such as these will have the girl intuitively believe that I am not really attracted to my "wife" all that much, and am, subconsciously, looking to hook up with another women. Even if I say the ring is not meant for anything or anyone in particular, she may still think I'm lying, especially if seem "playerish" enough for her.
I will try to downplay the existence and description of the fake "wife" as much as possible during the attraction process and distract her with other acts of flirtation and attraction-tactics. Meanwhile, I plant this seed that I am not single in the back of her mind, even though I really am.
SoSuave members, could this potentially be a good idea? I am not that experienced with women so I may be completely wrong but, like I said, I feel a ring will automatically have a girl believe that I am pre-selected and act as DHV.
Thoughts? (Note: I am only 21, and I am aiming for girls in the 17-24 years-old range, particularly those who are naive when it comes to the concept of marriage and LTRs... any woman older than this will certainly have the experience to call my bluff).
