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Master Don Juan
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A few months ago I created a thread about me going out alot and trying a whole bunch of things. The most talked about aspect was me mentioning wearing a vibrant pink dress shirt from Express out.
The results were alot different than I expected.
I expected to be hassled by other dudes. No one said anything to me. I had one dude stare at me like I was a bastard, but I think it was his own insecurities projecting towards me. The two girls that were with him checking me out may have something to do with it as well.
I expected to be thought of as gay. And yeah, I'm sure that some people suspected it, but I didn't care. I'll admit that it's a little fruity. But I don't dress well for other guys; I dress well to stand out for the ladies.
Blending into the crowd in a club is a poor idea.
I had women checking me out, and I even had one tell me that I was a "real man". I was very self-conscious about wearing it at first, but now I'm pretty comfortable with it.
It's a great conversation starter. And women find out very quickly that I'm straight. And they're ecstatic.
As for people precieving me as gay, who the f*ck cares? I don't care what dudes think of me. Most dudes are losers. I don't give a f*ck what some loser that stands by the wall with a beer in his hand thinks of me. And the girls that whisper and ask "is he gay?" are TALKING ABOUT ME, and not the losers. If girls are talking about me, it makes it that much easier to get in an interaction, especially when they see me having fun with other women.
Wearing a pink shirt has helped with my confidence and self-esteem, and I am no longer insecure about it. In fact, it's helped with my interactions with women. It's not for everyone, but I reccommend that some of you more adventureous guys experiment with it.
I'm only 20 years old and I'm starting to go to bars/clubs more often and getting experience, so this might be old news to most of you guys.
The results were alot different than I expected.
I expected to be hassled by other dudes. No one said anything to me. I had one dude stare at me like I was a bastard, but I think it was his own insecurities projecting towards me. The two girls that were with him checking me out may have something to do with it as well.
I expected to be thought of as gay. And yeah, I'm sure that some people suspected it, but I didn't care. I'll admit that it's a little fruity. But I don't dress well for other guys; I dress well to stand out for the ladies.
Blending into the crowd in a club is a poor idea.
I had women checking me out, and I even had one tell me that I was a "real man". I was very self-conscious about wearing it at first, but now I'm pretty comfortable with it.
It's a great conversation starter. And women find out very quickly that I'm straight. And they're ecstatic.
As for people precieving me as gay, who the f*ck cares? I don't care what dudes think of me. Most dudes are losers. I don't give a f*ck what some loser that stands by the wall with a beer in his hand thinks of me. And the girls that whisper and ask "is he gay?" are TALKING ABOUT ME, and not the losers. If girls are talking about me, it makes it that much easier to get in an interaction, especially when they see me having fun with other women.
Wearing a pink shirt has helped with my confidence and self-esteem, and I am no longer insecure about it. In fact, it's helped with my interactions with women. It's not for everyone, but I reccommend that some of you more adventureous guys experiment with it.
I'm only 20 years old and I'm starting to go to bars/clubs more often and getting experience, so this might be old news to most of you guys.
